I read your post with much interest as the story develops from the beginning. In the initial stage; URGER was a good guy who always asked June to go back home and talk things out with her husband. June told you one sided story of the husband but we are outsider who doesn’t know what happened actually. Each side of a story is like a coin; we have to look over the other side to know what actually had happened in the family. As a bystander, we can only view as one sided and have to give a benefit of doubt of what might happen in the house. Once Married is a life time commitment, no matter what happened it can be sorted out by marriage counseling from Church, legal marriage consultant and experience professional. By your presence in her agony with her husband, not only you have took the advantage of a married woman week point, you have also tempt / showering her with “Love seeds” and enticed her into believing in you. In your post mentioning your urges over other women when you are so call in love with this still married woman; it makes me feel disgusted. For example, during Genting trip urger having some thoughts of sleeping over with a PRC.
But as the story unfold; you became a wolf in disguise to tempt June. By any legal means, having any form of sexual initiation to a woman who had not official divorced is adultery act which the law will not take side with her at all. Not only you caused June to loose all her rights over her child, assets and etc; her life will be imprinted with “Adultery” till she dies
Like what bossy_miaomiao mentioned,
"I love this story, very touching, if I'm June, sure love you deep deep...
Btw, Urger, if the story is real and you do really love her, take note of these:-
1. step to get a PI to tail June's HB as evidence
2. If June's HB take the 1st step to tail June, Jun will be charged under "ADULTRY", its serious in divroce case and she will lost power to own custody of Isabelle
3. Under Adultry case, Urger, your name will be shown in the legal docs and you might be called to attend the divorce case too
If something goes wrong, June will lost everything, including Isabelle, her marriage"
Yes, you are kind hearted and wanted her to have a place to stay and tied over her situation but by allowing her to stay over your parents home; this in actual fact is killing her silently. PI snap a pic of you and her walking out of your parent home, you are a piece of dead meat for sure. By getting her a place or her parent home is a better option, In your earlier post; you have mentioned she moved back to her parent home in Thompson area, Why have you to convince her to stay over your parent home where it is very clear that you are taking advantage of a married woman.
Not only her life in imprinted with adultery but yours as well, why not; since you love her so much but can’t even resisted till the case is over. But again each story is one sided we need to understand the other so that constructive conclusion can be drawn out
If June husband do not change his ways, and the final straw came the divorce, and as such, she will get all including the child. And upon her divorce case successful, you chase her and won her heart that will be a different story.
I read thru with interest but as the story unfold more I felt anger when someone marriage involve a third party. You are a great writer which won so many praises, I do salute to your great detail write up but I hate someone broke away a family.
Although I am new here and have been reading, never want to post as I do really have the time but this bro urger really make my blood boiled and prompted me to write. I am not writer or lawyer or any gurus or any marriage professionals but hated broken marriage especially with kids.
If you story is true; What goes around will comes around. So take care!
Bro/sis, June already had a PI with evidence to file for divorce already, and since this story is already written out, i presume it has already happen (the divorce settlement) and our bro Urger and June is already happily together. Lets just wish them and Isabelle all the best
27-08-2012, 02:27 PM
