How To Get And Keep Attractive Gals Of Your Type

[tanterry]

Originally Posted by MoralEpitome

2nd day hunting....sad that i can't find any girl close to the standard of the singer i liked...actually i think we can learn from bro WB...keep it simple now....just buy her time instead of permanment BY....fair and square...

Seems that fewer quality ones! Saw an old flame who I met her in ktv more than 2 year ago. Saw her in a neighbourhood shopping mall that brought back fond memory of her. Gave her a call and was surprised to hear that she’s already in 3rd year of study here! No choice but to eat back old grass lol

[MoralEpitome]

Originally Posted by tanterry

Seems that fewer quality ones! Saw an old flame who I met her in ktv more than 2 year ago. Saw her in a neighbourhood shopping mall that brought back fond memory of her. Gave her a call and was surprised to hear that she’s already in 3rd year of study here! No choice but to eat back old grass lol

u have indeed been ard alot of places from your posts...lol...lots of hidden tigers crouching dragons here...hahahaha....i meant hidden dragons.....yeah thinking of finding my ex old flame to fill the void in my heart now....especially now my cheong buddy has by a girl...

[warbird]

Originally Posted by MoralEpitome

2nd day hunting....sad that i can't find any girl close to the standard of the singer i liked...actually i think we can learn from bro WB...keep it simple now....just buy her time instead of permanment BY....fair and square...

Originally Posted by tanterry

Seems that fewer quality ones! Saw an old flame who I met her in ktv more than 2 year ago. Saw her in a neighbourhood shopping mall that brought back fond memory of her. Gave her a call and was surprised to hear that she’s already in 3rd year of study here! No choice but to eat back old grass lol

Originally Posted by MoralEpitome

u have indeed been ard alot of places from your posts...lol...lots of hidden tigers crouching dragons here...hahahaha....i meant hidden dragons.....yeah thinking of finding my ex old flame to fill the void in my heart now....especially now my cheong buddy has by a girl...

Hi bros MoralEpitome n tanterry,

I also lament the fact that the quality of PRC MMs has been declining. My 1st ever visit to a KTV was 1 1/2 yrs ago, when my frens took me to a small joint in Jalan Besar. The gals I met that day seem to be better (at least to me) than the gals I recently met in such vaunted joints as TAM n DC. Very sad really.

Many bros n some frens hv more or less given up the local scene n now focusing on going to PRC regularly, usually to CP or CA.

IMHO, the 2 main reasons why the quality of gals has declined greatly r:

1) Our gahmen has conducted AV raids relentlessly, in GL, KTVs n hotels, which hv scared many MMs away. At the same time, it's getting more difficult to get various visas for PRCs.

2) The no of rich PRC men is increasing rapidly n they get to BY the best PRC MMs, leaving slim pickings for the rest of us.

My solution? Go to source n try to steal a few good ones, hehehe.

My ideal gals must be, first n foremost, my type of SYTs who r also uni students in PRC. I'll meet them in China, negotiate a deal, n arrange for them to come to SIN or even to Gotham City. It would be great If I could BY one such gal every 2-3 months.

The other solution is more drastic: Actually moving to China n spending most of my time there.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[Rolec]

Moving to China may turn out to be a superior solution.

[MoralEpitome]

Originally Posted by warbird

Hi bros MoralEpitome n tanterry,

I also lament the fact that the quality of PRC MMs has been declining. My 1st ever visit to a KTV was 1 1/2 yrs ago, when my frens took me to a small joint in Jalan Besar. The gals I met that day seem to be better (at least to me) than the gals I recently met in such vaunted joints as TAM n DC. Very sad really.

Many bros n some frens hv more or less given up the local scene n now focusing on going to PRC regularly, usually to CP or CA.

IMHO, the 2 main reasons why the quality of gals has declined greatly r:

1) Our gahmen has conducted AV raids relentlessly, in GL, KTVs n hotels, which hv scared many MMs away. At the same time, it's getting more difficult to get various visas for PRCs.

2) The no of rich PRC men is increasing rapidly n they get to BY the best PRC MMs, leaving slim pickings for the rest of us.

My solution? Go to source n try to steal a few good ones, hehehe.

My ideal gals must be, first n foremost, my type of SYTs who r also uni students in PRC. I'll meet them in China, negotiate a deal, n arrange for them to come to SIN or even to Gotham City. It would be great If I could BY one such gal every 2-3 months.

The other solution is more drastic: Actually moving to China n spending most of my time there.

Cheers!

Bro WB

You are right....the quality of the girls have been dropping... i can't find any girl that can rival the singer that i so love...even looks wise I can find...their character really simply cannot make it especially the fujian ones... i have a fren who frequent CP and they are fresh, very fresh, 16 to 21 years old...but i prefer someone nearer my age that i can communicate with..18 years old i feel that i have to entertain her....that's why i am so into my singer because somehow we can really relate to each other...anyway i am an idiot and told her how much i really like her and how tormented I am by my feelings for her....i told her to reject me outright so i can forget about her but of course she refused...it seems that she has rejected several big offers before although I cannot verify it...i believe it is true because I have been visting her frequently and don't see any extra curricular actions.... in my many years of cheonging I have never ever fall of any of these mm before...i wonder what made her so special... is it because she's not attainable by other men...the forbidden fruit always taste sweeter? or what... i believe with time i can slowly forget her but i know that i have made a serious mistake by liking her so much...the only smart thing i did is not spend the 10k, 20k like the other men only to be rejected by her...i wonder how should i proceed from here...

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by MoralEpitome

i wonder how should i proceed from here...

Time for you to migrate to the Matters Of the Heart Section liao
The force is strong over there

[MoralEpitome]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Time for you to migrate to the Matters Of the Heart Section liao
The force is strong over there

LOL...I think i am just too bored...don't play with money...play with feelings...like in the other thread... are you sick of transactional sex?....also maybe sex and love life with OC is getting boring....I am also interested to konw if the esteem brudders here are single or how they get around their OCs when they do their BY shits...it would be good sharing

[warbird]

Originally Posted by MoralEpitome

You are right....the quality of the girls have been dropping... i can't find any girl that can rival the singer that i so love...even looks wise I can find...their character really simply cannot make it especially the fujian ones... i have a fren who frequent CP and they are fresh, very fresh, 16 to 21 years old...but i prefer someone nearer my age that i can communicate with..18 years old i feel that i have to entertain her....that's why i am so into my singer because somehow we can really relate to each other...anyway i am an idiot and told her how much i really like her and how tormented I am by my feelings for her............................................... ...............in my many years of cheonging I have never ever fall of any of these mm before...i wonder what made her so special... is it because she's not attainable by other men...the forbidden fruit always taste sweeter? or what... i believe with time i can slowly forget her but i know that i have made a serious mistake by liking her so much..........................................

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Time for you to migrate to the Matters Of the Heart Section liao
The force is strong over there

Originally Posted by MoralEpitome

LOL...I think i am just too bored...don't play with money...play with feelings...like in the other thread... are you sick of transactional sex?....also maybe sex and love life with OC is getting boring....I am also interested to konw if the esteem brudders here are single or how they get around their OCs when they do their BY shits...it would be good sharing

Hi Bro MoralEpitome,

You hv been KC-ed big time leh. You should heed the advice of bro DO_YOU_BJ n post ur questions in Matters Of the Heart Section.

Recently, I did hv some KC for a gal (KK) after spending 2 1/2 months w/ her. Fortunately, the breakup has caused very little emotional pain for me. I believe meditation n self hypnosis hv helped. I hv zero feelings for her at this time.

Cheers!

Bro WB

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I like to share one interesting mental technique for emotional bonding, according to the October Man Method, which I read a few days ago.

"...So back to regression. At our core there are no walls and no defenses. If we’ve bonded with another person like infants do normally then we know what it’s like to feel connected at a deep level. In fact, in this state of connection there is no sense of self...

There is only the sense of connectedness. Ego gives way to something deeper and more meaningful.

I’m going to term this the Bonding period.

Some would say that the experience of love itself is motivated by the instinct to bond again at a deep level.

So how do we choose who to bond with?

Read this carefully and reread this next statement.

We bond with the person that causes us to regress back to the bonding period - to that earlier state in our lives when we had no sense of self, no walls, no defenses - just connectedness.

So how do you use this information?

One of the most effective ways is first to presuppose that the other person is a child. Talk to them in a caring way as if they were a child. Have fun with them and be just act like kids together. Nurture them and when they open up and tell you about their hopes and fears, reward them by nurturing them both emotionally any physically.

Also give them a self image to live up to.

Have them tell you about their childhood.

Your goal is to know the child within them..."

I'm putting it into practice. Yesterday, GG told me that, after having long conversations w/ me or 谈心，she feels just like a little sister n I'm the big caring brother, hehehe. Yes, I need to know n understand the 6 yo little gal within her...

Cheers!

Bro WB

[tanterry]

Originally Posted by MoralEpitome

but i prefer someone nearer my age that i can communicate with..18 years old i feel that i have to entertain her....that's why i am so into my singer because somehow we can really relate to each other...anyway i am an idiot and told her how much i really like her and how tormented I am by my feelings for her....i told her to reject me outright so i can forget about her but of course she refused...it seems that she has rejected several big offers before although I cannot verify it...i believe it is true because I have been visting her frequently and don't see any extra curricular actions.... in my many years of cheonging I have never ever fall of any of these mm before...i wonder what made her so special... is it because she's not attainable by other men...the forbidden fruit always taste sweeter? or what... i believe with time i can slowly forget her but i know that i have made a serious mistake by liking her so much...the only smart thing i did is not spend the 10k, 20k like the other men only to be rejected by her...i wonder how should i proceed from here...

wow you still visiting her? 8 weeks to complete mission! count down to 24th june

[MoralEpitome]

Originally Posted by tanterry

wow you still visiting her? 8 weeks to complete mission! count down to 24th june

lol....nevermind i will have her china number...and we got other plans...shit I think you know who I am talking about....i better lie low...i don't want to expose my identity....anyway money is not the surefire way to break her down, unfortunately...

[MoralEpitome]

[QUOTE=warbird;4812334]Hi Bro MoralEpitome,

You hv been KC-ed big time leh. You should heed the advice of bro DO_YOU_BJ n post ur questions in Matters Of the Heart Section.

Yes but I find my heart getting stronger...I think soon I will treat her like all my other k gers which is fuck and forget....I guess we all been foolish once...wish I can be like you be have the freedom you have though

[tanterry]

Originally Posted by MoralEpitome

lol....nevermind i will have her china number...and we got other plans...shit I think you know who I am talking about....i better lie low...i don't want to expose my identity....anyway money is not the surefire way to break her down, unfortunately...

China number?? There is no ending in sight

post your story. I promise I won't tell her lol

[MoralEpitome]

Originally Posted by tanterry

China number?? There is no ending in sight

post your story. I promise I won't tell her lol

I guess if you can't win the battle...you have to win the war...this will be my long term project...as there is no guaranteed success....i will be hedging my bets just like what I do for all my other investments...lol...please keep it a secret as you are the only one who seems to know the person involved...

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by MoralEpitome

I guess if you can't win the battle...you have to win the war...this will be my long term project...as there is no guaranteed success....i will be hedging my bets just like what I do for all my other investments...lol...please keep it a secret as you are the only one who seems to know the person involved...

The day you didnt reply to a sms wif your nick on it was the day your were exposed!

[tanterry]

Originally Posted by MoralEpitome

I guess if you can't win the battle...you have to win the war...this will be my long term project...as there is no guaranteed success....i will be hedging my bets just like what I do for all my other investments...lol...please keep it a secret as you are the only one who seems to know the person involved...

lol really dunno the person involved as I could have made a wrong guess. I was hedging my bets just like you