Regret Marrying A China Wife?

[S.B.Y]

Originally Posted by sun814

when u are in china, aren't u there to make money also? there are singaporeans who dreams of migrating to foreign country, for what purpose? isn't it to enjoy a better living than in singapore? so what's wrong with the PRCs coming over here? it takes 2 hands to clap, demand and supply, if nobody wants to pay them or employ them, how are they to survive here?

Nice perspective Mas (bro)

[RealEstateGuy]

I dont understand why you brothers zap drekman so hard. I'm sure his life experience validates his comments. To those who say they came here to earn money. Well since when does destroying a mans family justified. There are limits to everything and I think what drekman is saying in his case he feels there were no limits to the destruction. Sure it takes two hands to clap brother but Singaporeans are in general kind. While this should be regarded as a strength and a positive charecteristic of a man that most women want it is a liability to be exploited when you are interacting a bad woman. Frankly, Mainlanders are more cold hearted and selfish than Singaporeans in my experience.

[SMGG]

Originally Posted by drekman

Go n read, bros who get hooked by prc. That goondu deserves to be poor. In the end they still wan ur money. U give them money, still cannot touch. They are all bullshit. I dunt care about all these cheena people.

I think you are not Chinese, cos PRC most PRC mimi only serve Chinese and u have been rejected b4 and I believe they have done the right thing rejecting u

If you are also Chinese, u are also cheena, and u r the shit of cheena

[drekman]

sun814. Yes, go to china to make money. But it is all corrupted money.

SMGG. u are a useless cheena ass licker. go n die.

[eating]

Originally Posted by sun814

when u are in china, aren't u there to make money also? there are singaporeans who dreams of migrating to foreign country, for what purpose? isn't it to enjoy a better living than in singapore? so what's wrong with the PRCs coming over here? it takes 2 hands to clap, demand and supply, if nobody wants to pay them or employ them, how are they to survive here?

Bro well said, in Chinese we call it "人往高处走， 水往低处流“。 all animals behavior like that

[eating]

Originally Posted by applepie99

In the beginning, it was just for fun, now I am serious about the relationship.

Good and good luck to you, enjoy your life ...

[pussyidol]

Originally Posted by SMGG

I think you are not Chinese, cos PRC most PRC mimi only serve Chinese and u have been rejected b4 and I believe they have done the right thing rejecting u

If you are also Chinese, u are also cheena, and u r the shit of cheena

Well said bro, but better we just ignore him

[sun814]

Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy

I dont understand why you brothers zap drekman so hard. I'm sure his life experience validates his comments. To those who say they came here to earn money. Well since when does destroying a mans family justified. There are limits to everything and I think what drekman is saying in his case he feels there were no limits to the destruction. Sure it takes two hands to clap brother but Singaporeans are in general kind. While this should be regarded as a strength and a positive charecteristic of a man that most women want it is a liability to be exploited when you are interacting a bad woman. Frankly, Mainlanders are more cold hearted and selfish than Singaporeans in my experience.

remember that some men goes to not only china but the infamous bintan (or batam? i cannot remember) to get one, two or even three mistresses? yes they are very kind, kind enough to 'employ' them as mistresses, kind enough to donate their sperm (the gvt maybe should iimport them so as to increase the population ), kind enough to help the ladies keep another bf besides themselves since they cannot accompany them everyday, kind enough to destroy own family too. In these cases, wonder who's predator and who's the prey?

[joew2005]

some1 is veri veri sick,must hv been so hurt by chinese ppl.
chinese ppl r everywhere on tis planet.u k run away,but u kannot hide.
talking abt hving a heart,hw many dare say there is real human touch .... even here ?
some ppl r human in fresh,but don't even hv a human heart.
corruption takes place anywhere/everywhere,either u do it the legal way or illegal way.

Open yr eyes,wat u see is not necessary wat u get.
Don't be naive,不要做井底之蛙.

sg ppl r veri veri KIND in general,so kind as 2 tolerate so many things 4 so long.
if sg men r realli so KIND,why still hv some steel & run off aft bonking.

[mauboy]

i'm in china for 5 years. yes, in terms of business, you can't trust them and as for the gals, you really have to see properly yourself. i have a friend who is with a gal which he got to know in ktv and they are together for 2 years. and he recently just found out that the gal is married and already has a child.
they stayed together during the 2 years they were together!


But since our bro here has already met her parents, he should be safe from this problem.

I also have friends who are married to prc in china and although prc like to complain but they are very hardworking.

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki

Just give a deep thought of the potential conflicts that could arise such as those mentioned by Bros here and issues such as: is she expecting you to live with her parents? Are you expecting her to live with your extended family? or is she willing to relocate and live here? and etc….. IMHO, there’s absolutely okay about being cautious, given the many regrettable tales of PRC girls taking advantage of our occasional vulnerability and that it's a national past time nowadays to be easily charmed by PRC girls

In conclusion, so as above and in all marriages, there are things to be careful about but there are also things to be joyous about.....Just like the saying goes: The Ball is Round - Who would have expected Germany down to 10 men with Miroslav Klose sent off and lost 0-1 to Serbia !!! Same goes for PRC girls with superb round boobs... We never know what the future may hold! Good luck!

Add on to my earlier post above:

I have 2 bros married PRC girls (Not FL/WL) and both ended badly due to different vision and expectations.... (By the way, Bro Sun814. I got nothing against friends/Bros marrying PRC girls or PRC girls for that matters – I adore them!!) ....On the surface, for all of the similarities of our ethnic group or shared common (real or assumed) heritage, our differences will dominate our relationship. Some of them are, indeed, cultural but the real issues, I believe, have to do with the difference in personalities, expectation and specific needs of each other and the failure to address each other’s expectations before marriage. IMHO, just take note of the 2 basic pointers critical in all relationships whether you're marrying a local or foreign wife: Expectations and Communication. Good luck!

[eating]

Originally Posted by joew2005

some1 is veri veri sick,must hv been so hurt by chinese ppl.

Ya bro, maybe this shit just want to hurt others but backfire lao, or want free fuck but always kana reject, such people deserve to be hurt harder

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by drekman

sun814. Yes, go to china to make money. But it is all corrupted money.....

What's corrupted money????? It's still money.....and more worthy than a corrupted mind and speech Cheers....

[mauboy]

Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki

Add on to my earlier post above:

I have 2 bros married PRC girls (Not FL/WL) and both ended badly due to different vision and expectations.... (By the way, Bro Sun814. I got nothing against friends/Bros marrying PRC girls or PRC girls for that matters – I adore them!!) ....On the surface, for all of the similarities of our ethnic group or shared common (real or assumed) heritage, our differences will dominate our relationship. Some of them are, indeed, cultural but the real issues, I believe, have to do with the difference in personalities, expectation and specific needs of each other and the failure to address each other’s expectations before marriage. IMHO, just take note of the 2 basic pointers critical in all relationships whether you're marrying a local or foreign wife: Expectations and Communication. Good luck!

bro i agree with u. i think is because of the culture difference. they are brought up differently from us. but one thing i like abt them is that they know you go ktv to look for meimeis and they are ok with it as long as u go bck to them at nite.

[IdontKnow]

To drekman: Its fine. Let these foolish people say whatever they want. No wonder even a lowly prc prostitute can even openly criticise singapore men as stupid..Oh well.. I can only pity those people.., coupled with the fact that the only retort they can give is you have been "rejected" by a PRC