Story of Betrayal

[dvilla]

Bros, thank you for all ur support all these while, sometimes i am contemplating on whether to continue wif the ending not, for fear of being laughed at, but as some ppl said, not all stories end wif a happy ending, and in my case, its so true.

Cheers and hope i can share more life experiences again!

[dunowhatla]

Hi dvilla bro, I think you're lucky to have found out early (I presume in an early stage of the r/s?). At least the hurt wouldn't be as bad and you've managed to get a good steady gf now. Plus you had your share of fun. So probably you should let it go.
I too had been cheated on by my ex-bf and until this incident happen did I know that guys (well, almost all) cheats. And I've even accompanied him thru his 2yrs of ns plus work/study life (totaling to abt 4yrs). See how much time wasted, esp to a girl, becos guys would still be considered bachelor even when they get older but girls -spinsters. Even though I'm not that old yet, but well.. Those 4yrs are nv gonna be returned to me, so I think you are a lucky guy alr
Anyway, continue with your story! Would love to read the ending

P/s: this is my first post!

[84gunner]

Originally Posted by dvilla

Bros, thank you for all ur support all these while, sometimes i am contemplating on whether to continue wif the ending not, for fear of being laughed at...

If u are afraid / worried of being laughed at, then I'd say it's a wise decision to end it, rather than continue wearing green hat (for every day tat u are still wif her)! 绿帽不怕带，只要脱得快！

Moral values of SG gals nowadays have gone down, they're very self-centered, talking about her own enjoyment, Rights, Equality, etc etc.

But the age old principle of a man remains: A man must work hard, try to do well in his career. With good career, money & pride naturally comes along, and so does yr self-confidence & ego.

U might not have savings, u were a poor NSF, but after ROD, yr future is in yr own hands again. Dun see pple no up when they were poor. 十年河东十年河西，莫笑穷人穿破衣！Those pple who laugh at u, look down on u when u were poor, as long as u work hard enuf, 10 years later, u might surpass them & beyond! If u work hard enuf, u have the chances to be successful, and it will be u to choose the gal, not the gal choose u!

I have seen plenty of cases like this, especially in China. Many lowly or even uneducated pple, very poor during their younger days, today, many of them are billionaires, in USD terms! And many of these billionaires still don't understand / speak a single word of English! U wanna do business, wanna work for them, u jolly-well suit them (speak Mandarin). And I see many MBAs, even PHDs working for these billionaires!

[dvilla]

Originally Posted by dunowhatla

Hi dvilla bro, I think you're lucky to have found out early (I presume in an early stage of the r/s?). At least the hurt wouldn't be as bad and you've managed to get a good steady gf now. Plus you had your share of fun. So probably you should let it go.
I too had been cheated on by my ex-bf and until this incident happen did I know that guys (well, almost all) cheats. And I've even accompanied him thru his 2yrs of ns plus work/study life (totaling to abt 4yrs). See how much time wasted, esp to a girl, becos guys would still be considered bachelor even when they get older but girls -spinsters. Even though I'm not that old yet, but well.. Those 4yrs are nv gonna be returned to me, so I think you are a lucky guy alr
Anyway, continue with your story! Would love to read the ending

P/s: this is my first post!

Hi sis, thanks for ur reply, and i think im quite honoured to haf a virgin post by u, oops, haha anywae my story has ended le. Good Dae

[LeMans]

[QUOTE=dvilla;4829131]
The last call i think was during christmas eve, she juz suddenly sms mi sae she wanted to be alone, and how many times i called her, she either rejected, or did not pick up. And around tat period of time, i knew where i was being posted to. I was being posted to FDS, and she was quite disappointed. She smsed mi, " whether or not to continue tis relationship, i leave it to u" on the dae i had to report to my new unit. She even said, "i think 1.8k and 400 dollars is a big difference". NB, So she was saying i could not earn enough to support her, juz bcos im earning 400 a month. And so tis was how we broke off. I thought it was no point in continuing, being made a fool dun noe how many fucking times.


Tats the conclusion Bros and Sis, hope you enjoyed my true life story. Cheers![/QUOTE

Bro D'Villa,

Me was once same boat as u but of course not so extreme case like yours.... Though mine was she ran off with a fat asshole (probably earning around $5k per mth) after I ORD and found a job within 1 week (my starting pay was $2,200 that time) n she was earning ard $1,800 too.... Yet.... Morale of the story from then is to work hard n earn the big bucks and treat those materialistic SG gals with dirt respect n fuck their pussy till no value to depreciate.... then walk off their life..... N I live with this mentality since then till now..... N I have no regrets...... Hope u can also quickly write up the final part of your life story.... very interesting.......

[dvilla]

Story of Betrayal 12-05-2010 07:23 PM If you need to sleep, go Fking sleep. Don't write a few lines and then say you wanna sleep. Idiot!

Haha, juz saw this, todae, anywae i haf already completed my story and i dun noe y ppl are so sensitive. I write a few lines and sae wanna sleep? I juz update samsters here tat work is tough, and i logged in to thank ppl for the responses, i din start a few sentences and then sae oh sorry i need to sleep, so this is called idiot? Ok, fine, speechless den.

[chris_lee_85]

Bro, I've already read through ur post.. If u don mind can give me her contact and I help u to revenge lol..

[alexlucky]

I've gotten the same shit as you during my sispec, my five years r/s just gone instantly nevertheless, pull yourself together, lots of gals out there.. still young ma.. there's something call karma.. what goes around comes around..

[Toyota Honda]

Bro TS. Indeed a sad story. You are still young and you don't know how many more such girls you will meet. Life is just beginning.

5 yrs ago, I had a similar encounter. But mine was much faster and decisive rather than you hanging there for so long. I just started my biz, was poor, down and out when she decided to leave me for her part time degree schoolmate who was an SAF regular.

Heartaches and hardships followed. Facing with bankruptcy and having a loved one leaving me for such a reason is like stabbing my heart with a knife repeatedly. I never smile for months till I met a nice girl.

Working hard on your career is always the best policy. Its a safety net that will ensure you happiness. In Aug this year to have dinner with my girl, I saw my ex and her bf at AMK Hub taxi stand waiting for taxi. I was coming out from my chauffeured car with my nice girl.

My chauffeur's salary: S$2500
Price of my car: S$32X,XXX.
The look on her face: Priceless.

So guys, Work HARD!

[sjb1994]

Originally Posted by Toyota Honda

My chauffeur's salary: S$2500
Price of my car: S$32X,XXX.
The look on her face: Priceless.

So guys, Work HARD!

Haha bro, I like this, nice one.

[xiaomidnightz]

bro, take care man. I always got a saying.

Put your head into the relationship first before you put your heart.

Hope it helps u in ur future relationships.

[CyberRod]

Originally Posted by xiaomidnightz

bro, take care man. I always got a saying.

Put your head into the relationship first before you put your heart.

Hope it helps u in ur future relationships.

Well said bro... I applaud to that quote of yours... Hard to do it at times but we need to use the big head to think when we are in this situation...

[eXia-san]

bro,kinda nice story u write with full of sexdvanture n sorrow in the end~~ Is good to let go or talk to friends or bro about ur pass life that u cant let go (the thing that always inside u that make u feel uncomfortable) such wat u had done now... Love is full of adventure,u can meet a tough 1 but ended up with a wonderful ending or b opposite with that... So move on,learn wat those bros said about career 1st and tht is true...
We live in this world that is ("NO money NO talk"),there will not have a free lunch for us so... i always learn from some of the bros said " men hv $ will becum naughty .....
women becum naughty will hv $" this really logic to the reality now... for men like us,we need to PIA to get the high salary n success in our business...(先苦后甜) not like SOME girls out there can start enjoy to "FISH" 1st... So anyway,Nice story n good luck in ur LIFE now n PIA hard to show them bitchy that u r IMBA~~ XD

[dvilla]

Just an update to have a so called final conclusion to this story, my ex has married that guy whom she ran awae with. They got hitched last sept, though she did invite mi for her wedding, i skipped it.

Cheers!

[aloha1985]

Great story