HFJ is nothing short of gambling...agree?
Your $$$$ is limited cos you newbie, short of hangers..yes, but one does not go in blind.
I would do the following:
1) Observe the singer, and i mean really scrutinize her from top to bottom.
See how branded she is, clothes, watch, handbag, phone etc
>This will tell you loads about her
Why is a new singer so covered wif branded stuff?
Already a WL in her hometown, got someone here already or is an old timer on our shores???
2) Hang anything short of a cannon to let her come over to keep you company and start their PR shit on you, very importantly, remember every word she says cos it'll come in handy for sure in the near future to rebutt them back
3) All goes well, observe the flowers going to her that r not from you, is there a pattern? Most importantly, observe during PPC, that's when most if not all BFs will show hand
4) Get her to go supper wif you, no need to screw but if allow, bonus if not, observe her sms or phone calls, see timing and frequency.....nothing is as simple as they seem...remember, they're all guilty till proven innocent. If 9 out of 10 times you suspect they're lying, chances are, you're SPOT ON!
5) Call her next day to go dinner, like at 4 or 5pm.....if they dun answer or phone off...alarm bells shud be ringing liao...expect a whole load of BS excuses from them, some will even go thru the emotional blackmail thing to shut you up...like very tiring you dun trust me at all blah blah
If all is in your favour, continue process for another 2 days, this time, increase your flowers. For me, on the 3rd nite, before PPC, i'll propose my indecent proposal liao, if she agrees, onz but if she gives excuses like, i dunno u well yet, i not that type of gal, then FUCK IT!
Short one but that's what i'll do as a newbie noob
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