The Story, The Revelation

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by cablesnwires

Bro WH, thank you for your concern and I appreciate all the brothers here who are giving advice and sharing their experiences.

I have already found a solution, that is to face her head-on if she comes back. I'm very certain that she will, and will try to contact me when she does. I have stopped contacting her for almost 4 months. Seriously speaking, the best way to deal with this is head-on, rather than trying to run away from it.

Bro DYBJ is right, guess I will not know now, since her physical presence is not here yet. But trust me, I am confident. Do you know why? I have completely detached myself from the emotional aspects from it. I am a Cancerian by the way, and crabs are known to build defenses around them when danger lurks.

Last but not least, if there is ever a tinge of wavering, I know who and where to turn to.

hahaha to me, regardless of what sign you belong to, as long as its for survival, you'll know what to do.
I had 7mths to build up my armour, added another layer of steel and finished it off with some kevlar, surround myself with the great world of china........but all still came crumbling down the moment flesh met. And if you know me in person, like some bros here do, you wont believe this is possible of me either hahahaha

[DTCEPL]

Bro DYBJ is like a KC master

Just kidding, Cheers

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by DTCEPL

Bro DYBJ is like a KC master

Just kidding, Cheers

Yes you r rite & i admit it.
I am what i am, the KC master
KC being KA CHNG!
hahahaha cheers and waiting for your story and situational update

[Darkstorm]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

My sifu uses a combination of skills, that's why, to me he is better than anyone who specialises on just one
Also, outta respect, i dont think its proper for me to discuss about him.

No problem

[Darkstorm]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Honestly, now that you mention, she has been to church twice already.
Once was at Novena with no.2 and the other was for sunset mass but cant remember which church liao.
This time, the 1st time she made ctc wif me, she actually told me she just came back from Kwan In temple at waterloo st.
Ask her go for wat???
She replied, we all singers went there to pray for goddess of mercy to help us make our $$$$ dreams come true.
I literally laughed my bolls off and told her:
Eh, you know your profession or not??? hahahaha
If you goddess of mercy, you will help people in your profession boh????
Get real....hahahaha

Guan Yin, a Bodhisatta according to Mahayanan Buddhist, the Goddess of Mercy according to Taoist tradition, is compassionate towards all classes of beings (Deva, Human, Ghost, Hell Being, Asura, and Animal), whatever their professions are.

[gertt234]

Bro DYBJ,

Definitely not going into the paranormal stuff here.

Disclaimer first. My postings are more for informational purposes to learn how people think, etc. If it ends up being offensive, please forgive & forget.

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

As per my sifu, how can god help one if one doesnt even want to help him/herself.

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Fact is, the demon in her is stronger n like i mentioned, i've seen the TRUE self saying she wants to change but then again, the demon overpowers her.

Based on the above quotes, would you attempt to help her?

I agree with the statement that one cannot help anyone who doesn't want to help him/herself.

Just that in my opinion, maybe this can be considered a special case.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by Darkstorm

Guan Yin, a Bodhisatta according to Mahayanan Buddhist, the Goddess of Mercy according to Taoist tradition, is compassionate towards all classes of beings (Deva, Human, Ghost, Hell Being, Asura, and Animal), whatever their professions are.

Wat you say is not wrong.
Compassionate to all beings ya la but what you say i also cannot totally agree.
If one prays to seek solace or forgiveness, ya this i sure agree.
But these people go pray to make more money wor...ask for help in their money woes.......which means cheating someone from their pocket by KC etc......now on this point, that's why i mentioned, go pray to elephant or giraffe god oso no use......
But hey, me only mortal sinner, so also dun really know how the GODS function...

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by gertt234

Bro DYBJ,

Definitely not going into the paranormal stuff here.
Disclaimer first. My postings are more for informational purposes to learn how people think, etc. If it ends up being offensive, please forgive & forget.
Based on the above quotes, would you attempt to help her?
I agree with the statement that one cannot help anyone who doesn't want to help him/herself.
Just that in my opinion, maybe this can be considered a special case.

If the no offense statement was meant for me, not to worry or misunderstand, i am not. Why i said that was cos, if we dwell on this topic, be prepared to be zapped to thy kingdom come, that's why. I for one is very keen on the paranormal and would classify it as a hobby of mine.

For one to receive help, one must stretch out their hand to receive it.
But dun get me wrong, her actions arent like those possessions we see in the movies la...hahaha...just a 180deg switch in personality.
You can see the cornea of the eyes turn from light brown to pitch black....me even have taken pics to proove to her many times then and even recently.
The one on the avatar is BLACK and that's after work.
When something has dwelled in ones body for so long, it'll only be a matter of time when the stronger one will become her.
I have done all that i can, but at the end, she must want it for herself.
But now i will not go all out to help this person cos its really mentally draining, but i know, if this person knows and finally recognises that she needs help & really wants it, I'm very sure she knows who & where to look for help.

[Darkstorm]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Wat you say is not wrong.
Compassionate to all beings ya la but what you say i also cannot totally agree.
If one prays to seek solace or forgiveness, ya this i sure agree.
But these people go pray to make more money wor...ask for help in their money woes.......which means cheating someone from their pocket by KC etc......now on this point, that's why i mentioned, go pray to elephant or giraffe god oso no use......
But hey, me only mortal sinner, so also dun really know how the GODS function...

Yes, it is not right to ask Guan Yin for help in cheating others of their money, but Guan Yin could help solve a person's money problems in ways that do not include cheating others of their money.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by Darkstorm

Yes, it is not right to ask Guan Yin for help in cheating others of their money, but Guan Yin could help solve a person's money problems in ways that do not include cheating others of their money.

haha glad we're on the same line of tot here.
Like wat i heard from the church readings today.
A landowner will taste sour fruits during harvest whereas the ones who actually tend to the farm will taste sweet fruits.
Same applies ya...hehehe
So bottomline, in life there's no such thing as 不劳而获 which many if not all these WLs do not believe in. Thus what they earn, also not long thus in their own doing , is forever embroiled in this web that they cant seem to climb out from. Karma.....karma
Only the awakened blessed few actually make it out a new and beautiful flower

[gertt234]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

I have done all that i can, but at the end, she must want it for herself.
But now i will not go all out to help this person cos its really mentally draining, but i know, if this person knows and finally recognises that she needs help & really wants it, I'm very sure she knows who & where to look for help.

Thanks for the answer. I understand being mentally drained. Having followed the story, hopefully her real self will prevail.

[pewpew]

Seriously, if i met such girl, i would have been dead...

*kowtow*

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by pewpew

Seriously, if i met such girl, i would have been dead...

*kowtow*

Its all about rationale and perception.
Most people will just harp on the prob and just bang their head on the walls when things dont go their way.
If you can adopt a take a step back and analyse everything, you wouldnt be dead bro.

[Wooden_Handle]

Bro DYBJ, I think in a way that you can pen down your story help you in overcoming the devil in you.

And what you go through will be helpful to other bros.

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

If you can adopt a take a step back and analyse everything, you wouldnt be dead bro.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by Wooden_Handle

Bro DYBJ, I think in a way that you can pen down your story help you in overcoming the devil in you.

Bro WH, you're rite.
There a 2 reasons why I pen them down here.
1) So that others who actually read from my 1st post till now will see and understand how these WL think, hear & feel. Thus this insight will be priceless when playing these MINDGAMES wif such people.

2) To release myself into this forum & also ever so often, i'll read from post 1 to the last as a reminder to myself to be ready for the next encounter.

Sidetrack a bit.
Yest was with a cute PRC chick that I knew last year. Sadly, she had to leave for another western country to obtain her PR status.
Well, she's back and of cos, met her from 3rd floor then.
She msn me in the afternoon and told me she's back.

Picked her up and started to chat.
Had dinner then she gave me a story that she has to be home near 10pm cos another gal coming to bunk in her place till she can find another place of her own. Ok.
During the evening, was asking why she's back, now that she's got her PR status of a western country????? She told me she's gonna study and get a normal life with the qualifications blah blah....i smiled to give her the feeling that i trust her.......of cos adding that i support her idea.
Asked her whether she went back to work, she replied no more but just went 2 days back cos some friends invited her there so since nottin to do, go lor...again, i just smiled.

This morning, decided to try something.
SMS at 4:30am and replied almost instantly....bwahahahaha....caught liao......but i never reveal anything. She told me that since she came back, early sleep early wake up hahahahaha
Today sms me sorry didnt reply last sms cos too tired need to sleep...no worries i said, tired need to rest mah.......if i were u, i also sure very tired wan.
So wat you doin today? Oh, going out wif classmates for BBQ later.....oh, sure enjoy n hung up.
Ya, not enrolled in any school yet where got classmates to BBQ bolls?????? Bwahahahaha

Never ending, all the same, but sometimes, i kinda enjoy how i'm able to sniff out the little things to break their cover but sadly, many many bros, will fall for it without even a second tot!

Remember, its the little things that break the big picture......so watch out for the nitty gritty stuff....they'll be ur cue