local FL who fall in love with the customers

[RAINBOW seasons]

Originally Posted by newbadass

"One photo you can throw. Ten photo you also can throw. But here you can throw or not?" She pointed right at my heart.

In that instant, I realised exactly what she'd been going through. Why she couldn't let go after so long. It's not a matter of whether I'm worthy of her love (because to be frank, I'm not). The fact is that she'd given her heart to me, and if she could take it back so easily, then her love isn't worth anything.

The local girl took back her love after 4-5 months. The WL never took it back since she met me last December. Does anyone still think that the love of a WL is worth less than the love of a local girl?

It was an important lesson to learn. And it took a Vietnamese KTV girl with bad English to teach me that lesson.

It depends on the person that you have met. From your words I could feel and visualize that you don’t look highly towards a WL. Sometimes perception just doesn’t change over time; we may have the misconception that we are more knowledgeable than them in terms of language, education and our lifestyles we can easily beat them down. But in terms of life experience, we are a far-cry. There suffered loads of hardship to travel the long route from Vietnam to Singapore leaving behind their families and friends. How many of us are able to do it… I salute to them in terms of their courageous, independent attitude.
We learn through different phases of our life even a construction worker can teach you a life lesson. The love of a WL = The love of a local Girl. As long as the chemistry sparks between u and her, u should take the leap to accept her love. Prejudices against nationality, language, lifestyle and culture should be let go.
Look forward that your love life will blossom.

[newbadass]

Originally Posted by colins

Bro newbadass, love cannot be forced la. If you accept her, maybe its out of compassion, and that wouldn't be fair to both of you.

But at least you know someone like you for who you are, and the other left you for who she is.

You are damn right.

For as long as I live, regardless of whether I am able to return her feelings or not, I'll always feel grateful that someone loved me that sincerely and deeply.

People always say "WL or not, they are still human". Anyone can repeat that line. But it takes an actual experience to actually burn it into your brain.

[kiko]

Bro, my advise is try to get to know her deep enough before commit yourself.. slow and steady... yeah!

[glooper83]

Originally Posted by newbadass

For as long as I live, regardless of whether I am able to return her feelings or not, I'll always feel grateful that someone loved me that sincerely and deeply.

I guess all of us likes the feeling of being loved sincerely and deeply. You can say "i love you" a thousand times but it can never over ride the feeling of experiencing the sincerity of love.

An example would be an occasion when i had a minor argument with my ex. She went to bath and i went out to catch a breather following the "fight". Soon, i saw her downstairs, tearing and saying "i'm sorry" to me. She thought i was very angry and had left. That moment i really felt how much i meant to her, it made me so happy that she actually cried for me. Yes i am a bit sadistic, like to see people cry then i go soft... Although we've broken up, i still treasure those moments a lot.

[colins]

Originally Posted by newbadass

You are damn right.

For as long as I live, regardless of whether I am able to return her feelings or not, I'll always feel grateful that someone loved me that sincerely and deeply.

People always say "WL or not, they are still human". Anyone can repeat that line. But it takes an actual experience to actually burn it into your brain.

You know bro, this kind of experience is sometimes quite priceless as you can probably find it only once or twice in your lifetime. Placing it together with your other relationship, the contrast is really magnified from the way you accounted.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by colins

You know bro, this kind of experience is sometimes quite priceless as you can probably find it only once or twice in your lifetime. Placing it together with your other relationship, the contrast is really magnified from the way you accounted.

Well said bro, again but double edged sword.
One who has experienced it will definately be looking for minimum the same or better.........
That's where the prob starts

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by glooper83

I guess all of us likes the feeling of being loved sincerely and deeply. You can say "i love you" a thousand times but it can never over ride the feeling of experiencing the sincerity of love.

An example would be an occasion when i had a minor argument with my ex. She went to bath and i went out to catch a breather following the "fight". Soon, i saw her downstairs, tearing and saying "i'm sorry" to me. She thought i was very angry and had left. That moment i really felt how much i meant to her, it made me so happy that she actually cried for me. Yes i am a bit sadistic, like to see people cry then i go soft... Although we've broken up, i still treasure those moments a lot.

Sometimes, those tears are something like you said, shud treasure......
It shows something but due to whatever circumstances, everything still stops there...........
Prob is, when someone is so used to each other, from nothing also something can start......
At least know for a fact that it wasnt only u who was hurting at the end of the relationship......like that also more worth it

[Olympic Hope]

Originally Posted by newbadass

For as long as I live, regardless of whether I am able to return her feelings or not, I'll always feel grateful that someone loved me that sincerely and deeply.

Well-said, bro. Kudos to you.

[porscheclub]

Originally Posted by newbadass

"One photo you can throw. Ten photo you also can throw. But here you can throw or not?" She pointed right at my heart.

This chick is Solid! Well, if she still has heart for you then return the favour but don't play her out la. Last thing you want is for another gal to hate you but alas, we men are so fickle

[Highjoys]

Originally Posted by DapHn33333

I actually nearly fall in love or may i say like someone hmm....

i was actually telling him to face his coward problem, now he finially make it and tell the girl he like but don't know why i felt jealous and the more i keep on encourage him, the more i felt the hurts. i keep on asking myself why i been though so many suckie stuff like that i drink, i walk alone on the beach and i even cry out that why i'm so stupid of doing it so i tell myself to let it go rather to see him happy than seeing him sad. i make a choice of deleted his number and MSN away so i will not felt the hurt when he get online or i msg him is not fair to him and is hurting me also. Do u all think the way i settle it is wrong or right i don't want to be that selfish person.

In this Sammyboy I believe the chance of finding true love is very very slim. All of us know the purpose of having this website. It is goo that Daph hat u learn to let go. 长痛不如短痛. Let go and start afresh. Maybe u may come across someone better and more ready to be with u for a serious relationship.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by porscheclub

This chick is Solid! Well, if she still has heart for you then return the favour but don't play her out la. Last thing you want is for another gal to hate you but alas, we men are so fickle

Bro, you're back, you've MIA for a while ya.....

[Daniel133]

The problem is some samsters can't find love with local non FL gers, so when they go cheong and the FL show concern and love, be it real or fake, they will tend to feel 'wanted and love' so the heart will open up .... and whether it is real or fake, only the FL know. I suppose if the man can provide for her, it is possible the FL can really fall in love with client and may desire a new life away from prostitution .... some will say no way FL can give up ... but I am sure no FL think they can work until a ripe old age ... so if can why not

[DapHn33333]

Originally Posted by Daniel133

The problem is some samsters can't find love with local non FL gers, so when they go cheong and the FL show concern and love, be it real or fake, they will tend to feel 'wanted and love' so the heart will open up .... and whether it is real or fake, only the FL know. I suppose if the man can provide for her, it is possible the FL can really fall in love with client and may desire a new life away from prostitution .... some will say no way FL can give up ... but I am sure no FL think they can work until a ripe old age ... so if can why not

maybe some FL can but some FL don't must see what kind de.....

[FRATERNITY]

i think not good lah...

[Alkano]

It will not be easy coz alot of obstacles.
Must be ready for some hard times....bound to have alot of quarrels..
Sorry to say this unless both are willing to drop the past and start anew.
This society can be quite cruel at times.
This is life and life is full of ups and downs..
Hope you can find your true love.
Cheers.