Tieng Viet lovers club

[RJ2004]

Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

some updates about me:

My girl didn't ask me for any money for her aunt's funeral at all...

KC trap?!

erm, wads the relationship like if she's using toi... ban... in the messages?

[ilovedoggie]

Originally Posted by RJ2004

erm, wads the relationship like if she's using toi... ban... in the messages?

sometimes use anh/em sometimes use toi/ban sometimes use ox/bx... i'm also confused

[deptrai4u]

Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

sometimes use anh/em sometimes use toi/ban sometimes use ox/bx... i'm also confused

Anh/em = courting phase. she is saying that u have some chance
ox/bx = you upped her already and she now wants to hold on to you
toi/ban = she is telling you that u have no chance lah, so best if you move on.

[deptrai4u]

Originally Posted by RJ2004

anyone know whether there's some source online to see what are the common food in vietnamese restaurants in English?

for eg.
com xao... fried rice
mi xao... fried noodle
pho bo... beef noodles (duh! dumb example hehe)
lou hai san... seafood steamboat

Corrections...

there is mi xao and pho xao but never have com xao... but have com rang or com chien.

If ever there is com xao, it will be equivalent to our mui fan in singapore, fried rice with some gravy.

seafood steamboat is written as Lau Hai San... not Lou Hai San.

By the way, do u guys know how to say Seafood Steamboat in Japanese???? its actually Kan Ni Nar Beh!!! no joke!

[haosac]

Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

some updates about me:

My girl didn't ask me for any money for her aunt's funeral at all...

Anyway need some help on this:

toi biet ban xem thuong toi ban luon nghi toi chi loi dung ban nhung khong sao vi toi ngheo ma.

Toi biet ban rat thuong toi nhung co nhung luc toi rat khong dung voi ban toi khong bao gio de voi ban chi vi tien

KC trap?!

Translation, [] = choose one, () = explanation:

1. I know you are [not respect/think little of] me. You always think that I only takes advantages of you. But it's (your thinking/misunderstanding) okay, cause I'm poor mah.
2. I know you really care about me, but there are sometimes I've [done wrong/behave not well] to you. I never come to you just because of money.

xem thuong = xem thường = coi thường ~ not respect
khong sao = không sao = no problem/alright
nhung co nhung luc = nhưng có những lúc = but there are times

I've actually read some of your posts and found that:
1. Okay, the gal knows for sure that ur not willing to give away money easily (she even gave you money so that you can give it to her relative...)
2. But, she knows you're not a poor guy (saw your album traveling quite around the world)

Really can't tell if she's trying to trap you anot. If not so private, may I know a little bit about her background?

Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

sometimes use anh/em sometimes use toi/ban sometimes use ox/bx... i'm also confused

Using toi/ban maybe just because she thinks foreigners understand toi/ban=i/you better. It's partly because she's angry with you (when a gal's angry with you, she may use tôi/anh, or even worse tao/mày..)...Partly because when we Vnmeses first study English, we would be taught i=toi, you=ban... Partly oso because of the ages different between you and her are not too much?

[ilovedoggie]

Originally Posted by haosac

Translation, [] = choose one, () = explanation:

Really can't tell if she's trying to trap you anote. If not so private, may I know a little bit about her background?

Using toi/ban maybe just because she thinks foreigners

she's an ex-wl (probably have to be WL again due to some financial difficulties) living in province. yes her family is poor. i visited her place and dined with her immediate and huge extended family just like what i have posted in another thread.

long time ago i managed to read her sms with her so-called ex-bf (i come to know this because of the details she told me some time later and i co-related with the info i've read in the sms. she's using toi/ban as well.

but actually... can't hope too much also. just like the rest of the bros here say, "if you trust WL pig can climb tree" or "my WL is so different from other WL."

thanks for the help and advice bro haosac!

end of discussion anyway.

[volcano]

Originally Posted by deptrai4u

By the way, do u guys know how to say Seafood Steamboat in Japanese???? its actually Kan Ni Nar Beh!!! no joke!

side track a bit

yup,.....steamboat in Japanese is called 'nabe'

[lugi]

Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

sometimes use anh/em sometimes use toi/ban sometimes use ox/bx... i'm also confused

Same here.

My vb send me sms like Em nho ox qua, bx nho ox qua... etc.

I think there is not much significance in using the terms lah.. or am I lying to myself?

[phua chu kang]

Originally Posted by deptrai4u

Anh/em = courting phase. she is saying that u have some chance
ox/bx = you upped her already and she now wants to hold on to you
toi/ban = she is telling you that u have no chance lah, so best if you move on.

I learned another lesson

[ilovedoggie]

Originally Posted by lugi

Same here.

My vb send me sms like Em nho ox qua, bx nho ox qua... etc.

I think there is not much significance in using the terms lah.. or am I lying to myself?

yea she will send things like em nho ong xa qua... vi sao anh buon etc... some times toi rat nho ban

but haosac is right sometimes it depends on their mood. when they are high they will cal u ox... when they are angry with u they will call ban like a friend.

don't care so much, so to speak... let the fate takes it course on you. no point forcing something into your way when it is not supposed to. Most importantly... happy can already

feel like going jc now...

[Seletar]

Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

yea she will send things like em nho ong xa qua... vi sao anh buon etc... some times toi rat nho ban

but haosac is right sometimes it depends on their mood. when they are high they will cal u ox... when they are angry with u they will call ban like a friend.

feel like going jc now...

...depend how much you give her.. not depend on mood.

me too want to go jc now.. hanging around bunkers

[SureScore]

Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

y
don't care so much, so to speak... let the fate takes it course on you. no point forcing something into your way when it is not supposed to. Most importantly... happy can already

You knew the possible future outcome yet you don't admit and it's doom to fail.

SO what you had been to her house in the province. It meant nothing to them. Most house in the province are poor. Does it mean that you pitied all of them.

If you pity her then this is not love.

WL cannot be trusted. She can sleep with any client who can afford to bid high price. So you don't mind right? You must be out of your mind.

[V|ernar]

Originally Posted by haosac

xem thuong = xem thường = coi thường ~ not respect
khong sao = không sao = no problem/alright
nhung co nhung luc = nhưng có những lúc = but there are times

Haosac brother ! You got to teach me tieng viet ! Lol

Great to have a good translator here

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by V|ernar

Haosac brother ! You got to teach me tieng viet ! Lol

Great to have a good translator here

you seldom go...difficult to learn...

[V|ernar]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

you seldom go...difficult to learn...

I also go monthly now , bro hurricane mind give your number ? I want to ask you something !