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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner
Although there are many sad stories , there are also lots of happy marriages between Singapore man and Vietnamese ladies. Most of us always place our focus on failed marriages between foreign ladies and Singapore man, but not much focus have been place on successful marriages of the same kind.
Marriage of different cultures need time and patience to nuture. Communication is very important, that's why its always good to let your viet spouse to learn either mandarin or English. I have been married to my wife for around 6 years plus and we have 3 wonderful children. The first few years were difficult due to different culture and thinking, but both of us made effort to minimise the conflict and differences. My wife has changed a lot and i have also made much effort to understand her. Although she is Singaporean now (holding Singapore citizenship), but her thinking is somewhat still very vietnamese. Sometimes she still worry that her family back in province has not enough. Haiz..... very vietnamese indeed. ![]() |
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bro singviet maybe u are right but my frd wife already has a house 2 motor and every month send $500 back to her family and she still choose to run away, anyway wat u say is right the culture and thinking is total difference thanks for the advice has a nice day bro
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![]() What is $500 to ex-WL...they want like what bro SingViet said thousands...many houses...many bfs....these are what's in their mind about WL... ![]() If you can trust WL then "pigs also can climb trees"...kekeke... ![]()
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so short term vs long term ..... ![]() ![]()
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There are also good story among the many sad stories ... There are always good VBs among the bad VBs ... There are girls looking for true love and there are girls looking for $$$ ... It boils down to the choice you make, the gal you know,the circle of friends... many many factors ... Future also lies in your hand to build ....
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Anyway if u choose to fell in love with them just pray hard that u are the lucky one anyway u has been warn ha ha has a great Sunday cheers
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Peer Pressure ... Support Family ... Support Child ... Cheated by VN BF ... Cheated by SIN BF .... etc etc etc ... Every party got a part to play causing the other party to change their behaviour , characteracters and etc ...
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Yes. bro SingViet has mentioned a particular point which is very true. Vn gals are more prone to only made decision for short term gain. Perhaps that was their culture. So bros like me who have Vn wife you may find this is the hardest mindset to change for their wife/gf. So the first thing to do is never entrust them with too much money. Not that they will run away, but they may prioritise the spending unwisely.
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Yea total agreed. As the culture of them, the girls / daughters are suppose to support the family instead of the son. So it's in their mindset tat it is their responsibility to send money back to feed their family, sometimes I pity them for their 'hardwork' without complaining about it.
Lets with us all luck!! hehe ![]()
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![]() There is this apartment available in the west, near the vicinity of the several education institutions. I think there is also a SBS bus straight to Tiong Bahru. Currently no one is staying there but it is fully furnished, ready for move in at any moment. Basically she is paying the rent of a room but having the whole apartment to herself. However there are several T/C attached. Most importantly, she can never ever ask or invite anyone to the apartment, not even another female. If you are still keen then we discuss further through PM.
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![]() Another example, 1 of my viet ger borrowed 500USD from her sis and with her saving she loaned 1000USD to her colleague because her colleague had to pay hospital bill for dunno mum or dad. Her colleague promised to pay back next few months with her salary but after 1 year, not even 1USD is return back. My ger pai seh to ask from her and had to slowly return the 500USD to her sis. She told me this and I was so angry with her. Why will she be so stupid to borrow money from sis and loan to others???? ![]()
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I didn't expect her to return money to me in the first place,
![]() Too bad for your friend who lent money to her friend. She must feel very upset. Both money and friends are gone.
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