The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?

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sometimes i think it's not just about finding the right partner but being the right one as well..

not easy.. i'm still trying too..

just my 2 cents..

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by linnaohia1

Hmm, if polygamy is legalised and my wife allows ... why not hehe ... can try mah, loving not one but 2 or 3 gals at same time .... possible????

1 race, bid for so many horses... dont think its a wise investment...

[GhostRay]

Guess everyone got a part to play.

[suteerak1099]

amidst all the gloom & gore... how much some may detaste the term, we're 1 way or another... students of love. venturing on a journey that may not guarantee the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.

life's to short to let opportunities pass us by... we wont know till we tried.

its only a fresh start at the turn of the lunar new year, so just keep heads up & brave the new challenges. gambaté !!

[linnaohia1]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

1 race, bid for so many horses... dont think its a wise investment...

Hehe, only if can afford, wife agree .... just a thought, may not happen even if really can

[SiberianTiger]

Bro Mark26:-

i empathise with yr situation. unfortunately, she has not come to her senses that she has married u & tat she has got to adjust to whatever lifestyle that u can provide for her. yr in-laws hv also spoiled her by giving her an allowances???

women always hv this thinkg, when a man has got too much cash, it will result in him "makan" on the outside or attract women.

can't blame cos there's must be some truth BUT there r men who got no cash yet they still can "makan".

5C, 6C or whatever C. The chase for material wealth will never ends, if she wants ask her to work for it.

Anything wrong w surfing SBF? Not fm the way I see it.

If only she knows that the love tat u might hv for her might errode with Times if she continue to be set in her old lifestyle. Then, it might serve to wake her up.

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by SiberianTiger

.... women always hv this thinkg, when a man has got too much cash, it will result in him "makan" on the outside or attract women.

can't blame cos there's must be some truth BUT there r men who got no cash yet they still can "makan".

5C, 6C or whatever C. The chase for material wealth will never ends, if she wants ask her to work for it.

sis, salute you for representing what you deem right, and what seems to be more level headed than the fast growing populace of gals who're 向钱走.

when man & woman 1st consumated in marraige, there was no pre-requisite for monetary benchmarks, but the unfortunate evolution of civilization where people started creating standards 木门陪木门，竹门陪竹门... and then of cos came the more up market standards of all the material Cs; Credit Card, Cash, Car, Cheque, Condo, Career...etc

when essentially i reckon couldve been as simple as;
[intangible] Caring, Considerate, Companionship, Cherishing...etc.
[tangible] Cock, Clit, Carressing, Consumation, Cum...etc.

[SiberianTiger]

when essentially i reckon couldve been as simple as;
[intangible] Caring, Considerate, Companionship, Cherishing...etc.
[tangible] Cock, Clit, Carressing, Consumation, Cum...etc.[/QUOTE]

Bro, marriage is where:-
2parties enter into it with eyes open
1 party must close half-eye
Another must learn how to act deaf & dumb...

Life is more than:-
staying in Condo, having a Car, Country Club, Credit Cards, unlimited Cash...

Best to reflect on one's actions before u question yr partner's actions...Law of Cause & Effect

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by SiberianTiger

....... Bro, marriage is where:-
2parties enter into it with eyes open
1 party must close half-eye
Another must learn how to act deaf & dumb...

sis... u took the word outta my mouth... i believe the word for that is Compromise... which is Coincidentally... yet another C that is intangible

[surfer888]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

when essentially i reckon couldve been as simple as;
[intangible] Caring, Considerate, Companionship, Cherishing...etc.
[tangible] Cock, Clit, Carressing, Consumation, Cum...etc.

Cunnilingus.

[happybonkie]

Originally Posted by SiberianTiger

Bro, marriage is where:-
2parties enter into it with eyes open
1 party must close half-eye
Another must learn how to act deaf & dumb...

close half eye: who should close eyes? him or her? most times, he did.
act deaf: haha! aren't sg women known to be very capable of blowing themselves up at the slightest irritation? except the really deaf ones, maybe.
dumb: women only become dumb when its time to speak up and explain themselves clearly.

I'm not speaking against sis SiberianTiger, you do not seem to represent many of your sg sisters. But I wonder why you kena zapped until your points so low? I wud up you if i cud, but i'm a newbie, no power... sorry!

[SiberianTiger]

Originally Posted by happybonkie

close half eye: who should close eyes? him or her? most times, he did.
act deaf: haha! aren't sg women known to be very capable of blowing themselves up at the slightest irritation? except the really deaf ones, maybe.
dumb: women only become dumb when its time to speak up and explain themselves clearly.

I'm not speaking against sis SiberianTiger, you do not seem to represent many of your sg sisters. But I wonder why you kena zapped until your points so low? I wud up you if i cud, but i'm a newbie, no power... sorry!

close half-eyes = wife
deaf & dumb = husband

no worry abt my pts. pple here dun need a reason to zap.

as for my views, it is strictly from personal experience.
spouse r not pet. the more u restrict their movement, the more they rebel.
even after marriage, both must hv their own personal space to grow.

[Derelict]

DONE!

I cant believe that I read every post in this thread. What have I learn?
Hmmm angst, regret, brotherly support, sisterly support, loads and loads of what ifs.

So what have we learn thus far?

Know your partner better. Which means communication is the essential ingredient in a given relationship other than carnal activities. I guess learning to talk and listening on the onset will help to clear most surprises like who they are (character) and what they are (livelihood). If it click than lucky you. If it doesnt you know what to do.

Thanks guys. Going out with GF now for food. Talk soon.

[jemz]

yeah it's very very important to listen to your partner...

don't take it as bullshit.. even when words turn into daggers, he/she is revealing the inner emotions what what they really want... go sit on it and see if there's something you can do...

i never liked guessing games and to me, most men are clueless about what their ladies want. so i always take the initiative to point out simply what i want and like. whether it be a present or how i'd like to be treated.

[happybonkie]

Originally Posted by SiberianTiger

close half-eyes = wife
deaf & dumb = husband...

a very different view from where I am standing;

close half eyes (sometimes both eyes) = husband
(mow ngan tai - no eyes to see)

deaf & dumb = wife
(deaf to anything she doesn't want to hear, dumb when time to make herself understood)