Falling in love with a WL is difficult, TG or whatsoever. I fell for one and I came back broken hearted, not because i was cheated or what. I thought she likes me, as a friend or whatever, so i thought maybe we can have a good time going around bkk when i am there, you know have her good company. So i decided to go and look for her.
She was nice to me when I was her customer, take note, when i was her customer. We only went out 2 times when she was here. before she go back to bkk, she asked me to visit her if I ever go there.
While i was there, i called her up, she sounded sianzz. But she decided to meet me anyway. When i saw her, there was not the usual friendliness when i see her here. kinda feel that she went out with me for the sake of it. or maybe its due to our inability to communicate with each other.
I had prepared loads of cash to be her walking ATM. I was really surprised when we went shopping, she didnt even ask me to pay for what she bought.
Whenever she wanna buy somthing, I said I will pay, but she declined, saved for a pair of shoe which is only 250B. Later on she brought me to a traditional thai massage which only cost 300B for about 1 and 1/2 hr. I find her to be a very generous person, tipping each 200B!! actually we meant to tip each masseus 100B.but....Later on went to makan, we didnt talk much...
at night, She brought me to Hollywood Disco. Shit place. So i try to get myself pissed so that i can enjoy myself. She still was quite cold towards me.....didnt dance with me, maybe i am a shit dancer....
In the end, she sent me back to the hotel and thought maybe she will go up with me (cos i was kinda drunk, but still can walk) and stay the night, but she didnt. I was really disappointed that time, at least she could have accompany me to my room...... The next morining she called. I suppose to check and see if i am ok. i didnt expect her to. i didnt pick up her phone call, because i felt really pissed the way she treated me the day before. She called throughout the day, until at night i decided to pick up her call, but somehow or rather, it got cut off or something. She didnt call again from that time onwards....maybe when i pick up the phone, it got cut off and she thought i purposely did it. the previous time i just let it rang.....
Well, it could be a misunderstanding in the end. But I do not wish to think about her again, So i thought I should end it...... I had wanted to tell her how I felt, but my thai is limited, so i had to keep it all to myself........and end it this way.
I had hoped to have a good time with her in BKK, but it didnt turn out the way i wanted....
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Falling in love with a WL is difficult, TG or whatsoever. I fell for one and I came back broken hearted, not because i was cheated or what. I thought she likes me, as a friend or whatever, so i thought maybe we can have a good time going around bkk when i am there, you know have her good company. So i decided to go and look for her.
She was nice to me when I was her customer, take note, when i was her customer. We only went out 2 times when she was here. before she go back to bkk, she asked me to visit her if I ever go there.
While i was there, i called her up, she sounded sianzz. But she decided to meet me anyway. When i saw her, there was not the usual friendliness when i see her here. kinda feel that she went out with me for the sake of it. or maybe its due to our inability to communicate with each other.
I had prepared loads of cash to be her walking ATM. I was really surprised when we went shopping, she didnt even ask me to pay for what she bought.
Whenever she wanna buy somthing, I said I will pay, but she declined, saved for a pair of shoe which is only 250B. Later on she brought me to a traditional thai massage which only cost 300B for about 1 and 1/2 hr. I find her to be a very generous person, tipping each 200B!! actually we meant to tip each masseus 100B.but....Later on went to makan, we didnt talk much...
at night, She brought me to Hollywood Disco. Shit place. So i try to get myself pissed so that i can enjoy myself. She still was quite cold towards me.....didnt dance with me, maybe i am a shit dancer....
In the end, she sent me back to the hotel and thought maybe she will go up with me (cos i was kinda drunk, but still can walk) and stay the night, but she didnt. I was really disappointed that time, at least she could have accompany me to my room...... The next morining she called. I suppose to check and see if i am ok. i didnt expect her to. i didnt pick up her phone call, because i felt really pissed the way she treated me the day before. She called throughout the day, until at night i decided to pick up her call, but somehow or rather, it got cut off or something. She didnt call again from that time onwards....maybe when i pick up the phone, it got cut off and she thought i purposely did it. the previous time i just let it rang.....
Well, it could be a misunderstanding in the end. But I do not wish to think about her again, So i thought I should end it...... I had wanted to tell her how I felt, but my thai is limited, so i had to keep it all to myself........and end it this way.
I had hoped to have a good time with her in BKK, but it didnt turn out the way i wanted....
The PR skills she applied during her tenure in GL is what customers wanted. Just that subconsciously, you misunderstood. I mean great in this case. At least you now know what is in store. Life still goes on, and probably the only regret you didn't do is to visit the arp num in Ratchada, or did you?
Among so many girls, you will realise after all, that there are many more flowers worth picking in life rather than waiting for that one flower. And in actual fact, that flower might even be in someone's vase right now.
You should pick up her call actually or else you will sound like a sour pot to her. That's what makes them "yaya".
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The PR skills she applied during her tenure in GL is what customers wanted. Just that subconsciously, you misunderstood. I mean great in this case. At least you now know what is in store. Life still goes on, and probably the only regret you didn't do is to visit the arp num in Ratchada, or did you?
Among so many girls, you will realise after all, that there are many more flowers worth picking in life rather than waiting for that one flower. And in actual fact, that flower might even be in someone's vase right now.
You should pick up her call actually or else you will sound like a sour pot to her. That's what makes them "yaya".
SC
Yes, its unfortunate all that is just PR skill. The PR should have ended when she decided to leave, but it didnt and that got to me. If the PR ended when she decided to leave, it will be a different story. Just have to blame myself for being a sentimental guy....Yes there are many chio bus around, but its not often u get one you like. This girl I talked about is not even considered chio considering there are so many chio one in BKK
I did visit an arp nam joint the moment I got off the plane and into Ratchada, hahaha, regrets. I didnt even know this fish tank girl can make me go for a 2nd shot. But unfortunately no 2nd shot as her service so so only. but good figure.
By not picking up her call, I hope she knows how I felt. But then again, she might not know at all and it could all be a misunderstanding (but then i have given myself enough benefit of the doubt). But i guess this is the best way I can get out of her KC trap. Rather than telling her how i felt (i was going to ask my TG friend to do it for me...) and then let her explain that its not like what i thought. She could also be honest enough to say what I should expect. I guess if she chose to be honest, it would hurt even more. Then again, she could be asking me out and maybe I get to sleep with her. If i do that, then i will never be able to get out of the KC hole.
I had actually wanted to pick up her call (which i did) or call her back when i cool down but.....I did sms her later, but i think she was pissed with me for not picking up her call earlier....
nevertheless, I hope i made the right decision.
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Just a point myself that if I am in the shoes of an ex-WL, I will not wish to have anything more to do with sg. Seeing an ex-customer only brings back the memories of sg life. Living in self delusion will be nice for me. Haha....unless if he is rich and wants to marry me, give me and my family a good life, I will have no qualms about it. Also, he must be yan dao, nice attitude, good in bed, lotsa stamina and strong. Otherwise, forget it. I rather stay here and watch liverpool in champions league next yr. Haha.....
Yes, its unfortunate all that is just PR skill. The PR should have ended when she decided to leave, but it didnt and that got to me. If the PR ended when she decided to leave, it will be a different story. Just have to blame myself for being a sentimental guy....Yes there are many chio bus around, but its not often u get one you like. This girl I talked about is not even considered chio considering there are so many chio one in BKK
I did visit an arp nam joint the moment I got off the plane and into Ratchada, hahaha, regrets. I didnt even know this fish tank girl can make me go for a 2nd shot. But unfortunately no 2nd shot as her service so so only. but good figure.
By not picking up her call, I hope she knows how I felt. But then again, she might not know at all and it could all be a misunderstanding (but then i have given myself enough benefit of the doubt). But i guess this is the best way I can get out of her KC trap. Rather than telling her how i felt (i was going to ask my TG friend to do it for me...) and then let her explain that its not like what i thought. She could also be honest enough to say what I should expect. I guess if she chose to be honest, it would hurt even more. Then again, she could be asking me out and maybe I get to sleep with her. If i do that, then i will never be able to get out of the KC hole.
I had actually wanted to pick up her call (which i did) or call her back when i cool down but.....I did sms her later, but i think she was pissed with me for not picking up her call earlier....
nevertheless, I hope i made the right decision.
Bro Thaigers,
Personally, I dont think asking your TG friend to talk to her is not such a good idea. I did that once and it went horribly wrong. I am not saying it will not work but there maybe complication like what sort of things have you told your TG and all. Your Girl will feel "no face" and the conversation will go down hill, faster than a waterfall.
If u cannot control yr TG or she do not want to be control by u, than there is something behind because if she really love u, she will do anything for u and show u everything u want to see and know.
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1) Is this really true? 2)Are u speaking from personal experience? 3)Is this something that applies mainly to TGs? Or to girls of whatever race and nationality?
Opinions/comments citiman88 and to everyone here? Your views please?
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Falling in love with a WL is difficult, TG or whatsoever. I fell for one and I came back broken hearted, not because i was cheated or what. I thought she likes me, as a friend or whatever, so i thought maybe we can have a good time going around bkk when i am there, you know have her good company. So i decided to go and look for her.
Very long post.......I may have to slowly reply...
Ok....So now u admit to yourself that u have fallen for her...
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Originally Posted by thaigers
She was nice to me when I was her customer, take note, when i was her customer. We only went out 2 times when she was here. before she go back to bkk, she asked me to visit her if I ever go there.
While i was there, i called her up, she sounded sianzz. But she decided to meet me anyway. When i saw her, there was not the usual friendliness when i see her here. kinda feel that she went out with me for the sake of it. or maybe its due to our inability to communicate with each other.
U know.....I have this friend who had quite a number of ex-gl tiraks....and he tells me that without exception, all of them behaved like this.....they are nice to u when u r their customer, but it will not be so when they go back to their homeland......I think deep down, u know this is how it will turn out too...rite?
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I had prepared loads of cash to be her walking ATM. I was really surprised when we went shopping, she didnt even ask me to pay for what she bought.
Somehow....I kinda expected this...
Actually, if I were u, I would be happy she didn't treat me like a walking ATM.
You should be feeling happy about this...
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In the end, she sent me back to the hotel and thought maybe she will go up with me (cos i was kinda drunk, but still can walk) and stay the night, but she didnt. I was really disappointed that time, at least she could have accompany me to my room...... The next morining she called. I suppose to check and see if i am ok. i didnt expect her to. i didnt pick up her phone call, because i felt really pissed the way she treated me the day before. She called throughout the day, until at night i decided to pick up her call, but somehow or rather, it got cut off or something. She didnt call again from that time onwards....maybe when i pick up the phone, it got cut off and she thought i purposely did it. the previous time i just let it rang.....
Actually...I think that that she could call you throughout the day is very good already...I agree with the other forumers that u should have picked up the call...
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She's willing to come out with you consider not bad already. Whether she's just doing it for old time's sake is not the issue. Remember that she owes you nothing. You might want to call off the whole thing if you've sensed the 'boredom' during the date. Thus you can find your own programme and won't get so pissed off. Not applicable to those in gongtao.
Yes should just answer the call. Just chill out and kick back. In LOS don't need to think so much. In Singapore so stress liao still want to think so much? Fuck lah you're disappointed because she never overnight with you. It's all about sex. I keep my little bro happy and I'll be happy. Don't confuse love with sex. Alamak you could have offer cash straight upfront in the beginning. So no guessing game here and there. That's why I like to be straight forward from the very start. "Want to come back to my room and see my condom collection?" Ha ha ha ha ha!
Come to Thailand more often. You'll slowly learn.
That is the thing. She dont owe me anything. If she dont wanna come out with me, can just call it off. i wanted to tell her she is not obligated to do so (but I cant as i cant express it in thai).
This whole thing is just a bad date that's all. Sleeping with me is just a bonus to me. I was really disappointed with the date, which makes up the bulk of the disappointment. After going shopping and massage with her, I was hoping she wont suggest we go anywhere at night. Since she ask, I just go. But then it turned out the way I had expected, very disappointing evening.
She was/is a prostitute, maybe she felt conscious about this. If i were to offer cash and ask her to sleep with me, I think I will get a slap instead.
Incidentally, while at MBK, saw a TG WL who used to FL at Jazzy 51 at Joo chiat. It was like a year ago. This was the first TG who broke my heart. We were supposed to meet but in the end, she chose money instead. HAhaha, she still remember me when i saw her at MBk. What a small world. This one speak some english, so its ok. She has very sweet mouth, saw me say I very handsome, so I returned the compliment and say she is very pretty also. But she saaid gohok. I dont understand why TG WL cant accept compliment at face value. When they say they miss us, should we say gohok as well???
I was leaving that day, otherwise definitely would ask her out
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