How To Get And Keep Attractive Gals Of Your Type

[goushanwang]

Thanks bro WB for a fantastic forum too.

Have a nice day.

Originally Posted by camorant

Bro WB

Many thanks for a well written guru forum.

I cannot agree more.

Hope to learn more.

Thank you.

[camorant]

Bro WB

Lucky to read your forum.

Always happy to know you have dumped some old LP and hooked new ones.

Someday, I hope to do the same thing. In the meantime, I shall learn and polished my skills.

Please share more and I will learn.

Cheers.

Originally Posted by warbird

Bro James,

You're right. Some methods are unique n can't be imitated.

I'm happy for u. Luck is when opportunity meets preparedness. You had the opportunity n you were prepared.

Tks for ur post.

Cheers!

Bro WB



Bro Mastodonmen,

Tks, you make my day!!

Cheers!

Bro WB

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Good afternoon!

There are many things in life that are complicated n inexplicable, especially when it comes to RS n love.

Exactly a yr ago, when my old Fujian lao po HW didn't want to return to SG after CNY, I suffered from breakup withdrawal n couldn't sleep well for 18 days. I was surprised that I had such severe symptoms, only second time in my life. Ten days earlier, when she asked my permission to return to China for CNY, I said no because she had promised a few months ago not to return this yr. I told her 我们分手. She was very angry n left anyway. I later regretted it n tried to get her back.

Did I love HW? You tell me. I think I'm addicted to her sustained n violent CVOs.

Less than a week later, I met my future 18 yo kawaii lao po SL.

Five months later I said goodbye to my other LT mistress HH. She was very angry n devastated. But I felt nothing. Why? We had been together 2 1/2 yrs.

I now love SL. Do I really? How about my other younger n more kawaii dolls? In fact, I hv a new 97 doll AG coming, who is 168, more kawaii n fairer. Natural C. OMG! Why don't I love AG more?

BTW, I did meet HW for 5 days in SHA last July when I went there on biz. We are still friends. She would be happy to see me in China. She said it's difficult to come to SG on visitor pass.

So what is love or KC? There r three distinct emotions of love: Lust, romantic attraction and attachment.

These three emotions involve different neurobiology in the human brain.

It would be great if a man feels all three emotions toward the same doll/woman for the rest of his life. But that is almost impossible. Very often, he may feel one or more of these emotions towards different dolls, with or without some overlap. And his love emotions towards them may be changing over time, especially when n if new dolls enter his life. Life is very complicated, isn't it?

At this time I like to share the following on these "love emotions."

Brains Do It: Lust, Attraction, and Attachment

By: Helen E. Fisher Ph.D.

http://www.dana.org/Cerebrum/Default.aspx?id=39351


Your comments, opinions n FRs will be greatly appreciated.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[Ongbakak]

Lucky to come across this thread too.

So much to learn here.

Thanks so much bro WB!

Originally Posted by camorant

Bro WB

Lucky to read your forum.

Always happy to know you have dumped some old LP and hooked new ones.

Someday, I hope to do the same thing. In the meantime, I shall learn and polished my skills.

Please share more and I will learn.

Cheers.

[zerohedge]

Originally Posted by besafe

Hi Bro WB,
Hahaha. Still on the hunt.
Thumbs up.

Originally Posted by warbird

Hi bro besafe,

Yes, it keeps me sharp, youthful n healthy.

I hv learned a lot by reading, researching, sharing, discussing, debating, failing, practicing, failing...and more practicing.

I'm in the process of moving from an armchair military advisor to someone w/ hands-on, real life experiences. And I would love to fail many times everyday! 胜败是兵家常事

Much has been discussed about inner game n outer game in life. Both are important.

Inner game is about reprogramming your beliefs in the S mind. But that is not enough. You also need to keep expanding your comfort zone in real life situations...and keep doing, failing, practicing, failing, performing, failing, accomplishing n failing. If you fail many times everyday, that is great! Very soon you will rise to the top!

Cheers!

Bro WB

Bro WB

What an excellent reply.

Me too will hope to hunt to keep my brain sharp and youthful.

Thank you so much for sharing so many nice forums.

Really admired your integrity and resilient all these years.

Cheers.

[zerohedge]

Originally Posted by chenzong

I do not think there is a "standard", but you can estimate a guess based on China's "standard" and what the girl has to do to come here.

In Chinese circles (a lot of businessmen and officials in my circle), the girl would expect an apartment to be GIFTED to her, plus between RMB10k to RMB20k a month for "spending money".

Are there girls who ask for much, much less? Yes there are, but they wise up very quickly and switch sugar daddies quickly too, and if they do not you have probably met your standard 湘女 (Hunan girl), known to be very emotional and clingy. Are there girls who ask for much, much more? Yes, there are, but the men willing to give them that are also much fewer in number and the possibility of meeting them lower.

For Singapore? They probably cannot expect an apartment to be gifted them, but you will definitely have to at least rent for them a nice apartment. Based on what they spent to come here, and the fact that they need to make the best of their time here, I suspect anything less than SGD5k a month is not going to make the mark. I think Bro WarBird would have a better idea here of the "standard".

Are there girls who ask for much, much less? Yes there are, but they are going to wise up very quickly and switch sugar daddies quickly, and if they do not, be prepared for the clingy and emotional 湘女 (Hunan girls). Are there girls who ask for much, much more? Yes, there are, but how many such men are there going to be in Singapore?

Asking for a "standard" is a strange concept. Like real property, the "market price" is but a mental concept to give us a bearing. Until a real transaction take place to the satisfaction of buyer (who may be so besotted that logic goes out the window, paying the highest he can afford) and the seller (who may not be desperate to sell and so accept a really low bid).

Just start playing the game and soon you will discover what your "standard" price is, for a "property" of your range.

bro cz gives excellent forum too.

worth to read.

[zerohedge]

Originally Posted by warbird

Good morning!

Most men have a scarcity mindset when it comes to their interactions n RS w/ girls/women.

What is a scarcity mindset? When a man believes that the doll he is w/ is the only pussy he is ever going to get and if he loses her, he will never find another one as good as she. He will be acting needy, insecure n even desperate. He will become repulsive to her n will eventually lose her. Very sad.

Switch from a scarcity mindset to an abundance mindset.

What is an abundance mindset? When a man behaves as if there are an unlimited number of dolls of this type waiting for him. If he gets rejected by one, he laughs it off. When his GF/lover behaves badly, he just walks away, period.

"Behave as if you have 100 women calling you everyday." - David D.

Not good enough for me.

"Behave as if you have 100 beautiful women of your type calling you n wanting to fuck you everyday." - Bro Warbird

Cheers!

Bro WB

Bro WB

Thanks to you I learned about scarcity mindset.

Thank you so much.

Cheers.

[campane]

Originally Posted by zerohedge

bro cz gives excellent forum too.

worth to read.

fully agreed. can read a few times over.

[ExactRightWords]

Originally Posted by zerohedge

Bro WB

Thanks to you I learned about scarcity mindset.

Thank you so much.

Cheers.

Just learned about scarcity mindset, thanks bro WB.

Have a nice week ahead.

[honeykawaii]

Originally Posted by zerohedge

Bro WB

What an excellent reply.

Me too will hope to hunt to keep my brain sharp and youthful.

Thank you so much for sharing so many nice forums.

Really admired your integrity and resilient all these years.

Cheers.

An excellent reply indeed!

Thanks bro WB for sharing so much in this thread.

Have a good day, cheers.

[SBMEDSUP]

Support bro TS WB for an awesome thread.

Keep up the good effort.

[LuckySeven7]

Excellent thread by bro WB.

Hope to learn more here.

Cheers.

[buisong]

Wow didn't know such a nice thread existed!

Thanks bro WB

[warbird]

Originally Posted by Koh89

Great thread and very good replies by bro WB!

Tks, bro

Originally Posted by camorant

Bro WB

Many thanks for a well written guru forum.

I cannot agree more.

Hope to learn more.

Thank you.

Tks, bro.

Neediness is very selfish and is the no. 1 attraction killer.

Originally Posted by goushanwang

Thanks bro WB for a fantastic forum too.

Have a nice day.

Tks, bro.

Originally Posted by camorant

Bro WB

Lucky to read your forum.

Always happy to know you have dumped some old LP and hooked new ones.

Someday, I hope to do the same thing. In the meantime, I shall learn and polished my skills.

Please share more and I will learn.

Cheers.

Bro, tks.

SL is the same girl as LS. She is 22 now.

HW, my first ever mistress, was going to get married in 2017 but she broke off w/ her BF. She returned to SG in March last yr. I met her, but I didn't keep her because she had put on weight and was no longer attractive.

Originally Posted by Ongbakak

Lucky to come across this thread too.

So much to learn here.

Thanks so much bro WB!

Bro, tks.

Originally Posted by zerohedge

Bro WB

What an excellent reply.

Me too will hope to hunt to keep my brain sharp and youthful.

Thank you so much for sharing so many nice forums.

Really admired your integrity and resilient all these years.

Cheers.

Bro, tks.

Yes, reading n practicing will keep the mind sharp.

Making love to a chio girl of your type at least a few times a week will add many years to your life.

Originally Posted by zerohedge

bro cz gives excellent forum too.

worth to read.

Yes, bro CZ is a very experienced man.

Money is not everything to a girl/woman who is not a psychopathic gold digger.

Many girls/women, and in fact most men, do hv real financial needs. If a girl's basic financial needs are being met n she is satisfied w/ her male sexual partner in other ways, she will not demand more money from him.

Originally Posted by zerohedge

Bro WB

Thanks to you I learned about scarcity mindset.

Thank you so much.

Cheers.

You're welcome, bro.

A scarcity mindset is most repulsive.

"Behave as if you have 1000 beautiful women of your type calling you n wanting to fuck you every day."

Originally Posted by campane

fully agreed. can read a few times over.

Originally Posted by ExactRightWords

Just learned about scarcity mindset, thanks bro WB.

Have a nice week ahead.

Originally Posted by honeykawaii

An excellent reply indeed!

Thanks bro WB for sharing so much in this thread.

Have a good day, cheers.

Originally Posted by SBMEDSUP

Support bro TS WB for an awesome thread.

Keep up the good effort.

Originally Posted by LuckySeven7

Excellent thread by bro WB.

Hope to learn more here.

Cheers.

Originally Posted by buisong

Wow didn't know such a nice thread existed!

Thanks bro WB

Bros, thanks

Cheers to all,

Bro WB

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Good morning!

Many of my kaki hv the mistaken belief that all girls/women want is money. Not true at all, even for WLs. Excepting those who are psychopathic gold diggers.

Let me give you an analogy.

To get n KEEP a high-quality girl of your type, you need a strong chain with many metal links. Your attractiveness and desirability as a LT sexual partner are as strong as the whole chain. Money is just one link. There are many, many other links. And you’re only as strong as your weakest link. It’s very ignorant n stupid to think that money is the only link.

I hv mentioned the other "links" many times in this forum.

BTW, many wealthy men are extremely weak in other links. They will lose their "dream girls/women" eventually, despite spending a small fortune. It's pathetic.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[warbird]

Good morning,

I like to share an article by Roosh on the importance of FRAME. He is the guru who asserts that a girl/woman who has had 5 or more sexual partners can never love a man again. Due to the irreparable loss of "bonding glue." I generally agree w/ him, although there are rare exceptions.

BTW, I hv done minimal editing on the article.


Don’t Let A Girl Assert Frame Over You

Within every interaction is a frame where one person does the evaluating and judging while the other does the satisfying. The person with the higher value will naturally fall into a frame of evaluation while the person with the lower value will fall into a frame of trying to prove or appease. Without even thinking about it, many men fall into the inferior frame with women by how they allow interaction to proceed.

Since we were children, we’ve been taught to answer questions. In school, we received rewards from the teacher if we answered correctly, and even in university, we were graded for “class participation” based on impressing the professor with how well we know the material. The problem is that we carry the need to prove ourselves over into adulthood and allow others to assume superiority by answering questions that make us explain our behavior, thoughts, or actions. Most people are in fact too eager to prove themselves when asked a question, but by doing so they almost always accept the inferior frame.

For example, a common question that a woman asks you is, “What do you do?” By quickly answering her question, you automatically accept her “prove yourself to me” frame. This is why my game book Bang teaches you to not answer directly to a woman’s questions in the early periods of the interaction when you’re trying to establish attraction. The better response is to give a joke answer that shows you do not care for her evaluation. Paradoxically, this increases her attraction for you even more, because your value must be higher than hers if you refuse to do what so many men before you had eagerly done.

Another example is when a co-worker—and not your boss—asks you, “Why did you do it this way?” He is attempting to assert the superior frame by getting you to justify yourself. An answer which refuses his frame is one where you don’t explain why you did it in your preferred way. Unless he asks you “how” you did something, which establishes him as the inferior seeking to learn from you, you should not rationalize yourself. You’ll also encounter co-workers who ask tiny favors of you that escalate over time.

How do you feel when you have sex with a woman for the first time and are not satisfied with your performance? Because you feel inferior at that moment, you may say something like “It’ll be longer next time” or “I shouldn’t have drunk so much.” This establishes you as the person who is supposed to do the pleasing. The woman is then more likely to see you as a weak man. A man who is confident of his worth would not be fazed by a bad sexual performance, or at least not feel the need to defend it.

It turns out that trying to justify yourself in any way is the best way to lose the frame, and should only be done when the other person has repeatedly asserted the inferior frame. For example, if a woman repeatedly justifies herself in your presence, you can throw her a bone and appease her once in a while, but only if it’s what you really want to do so that she feels a basic level of security in the relationship.

It’s important to note that natural alpha males are automatically resistant to accepting the inferior frame. Their instinct tells them not to justify themselves, and they have such a high opinion of who they are that maintaining frame naturally flows from them. If you are not a natural alpha, you’ll have to do it manually by stopping and thinking each time a woman asks you a question or a favor (“Can you hold my purse?”) to decide if she’s trying to assert frame. If she is, which is usually the case, you must deflect her question. Make a joke or “agree and amplify” so she comes to the conclusion that you are the superior in the interaction. Otherwise, she will slowly drain your power and either use you for attention or to establish firm control over your behavior as we see with men who have been hen-pecked by their wives after several years of marriage.

You want to reach a point where you have high expectations of a woman but she has little expectations of you. She must give you submission while you do as you may. This will take some real value to pull off, but in the meanwhile, you can simulate it by merely not falling into the frame of those who make requests and demands of you.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[Bgyu]

Thanks for all the insightful read Bro wb. Best thread ever!