local FL who fall in love with the customers

[glooper83]

Originally Posted by Heart Break Kid

WL is low moral creatures that we should not trust them at all

Remember we are just their paying customers not bf or husband.

So are we... come out and play still talk about morals...

They might stoop to anything to earn an extra buck, we will stoop to anything to get more passion, freebies... etc. Well, there are those that do not do the above mentioned, but how can we tell? Most bros, wls do not want to take the first step of trusting lest they fall into the KC trap.

[Heart Break Kid]

Originally Posted by glooper83

So are we... come out and play still talk about morals...

They might stoop to anything to earn an extra buck, we will stoop to anything to get more passion, freebies... etc. Well, there are those that do not do the above mentioned, but how can we tell? Most bros, wls do not want to take the first step of trusting lest they fall into the KC trap.

Of course ..who say come out & play cannot talk about moral.

Only lowly educated people believe in WL

[colins]

Originally Posted by DapHn33333

I actually nearly fall in love or may i say like someone hmm....

i was actually telling him to face his coward problem, now he finially make it and tell the girl he like but don't know why i felt jealous and the more i keep on encourage him, the more i felt the hurts. i keep on asking myself why i been though so many suckie stuff like that i drink, i walk alone on the beach and i even cry out that why i'm so stupid of doing it so i tell myself to let it go rather to see him happy than seeing him sad. i make a choice of deleted his number and MSN away so i will not felt the hurt when he get online or i msg him is not fair to him and is hurting me also. Do u all think the way i settle it is wrong or right i don't want to be that selfish person.

Hi sis, although I do not know you but I like to say this after I read your post.

Anybody who knows how to put in real emotions and out of that process, come something as selfless as you did in the post, cannot be a bad person. You know that both moral and love is not something that you can hold with your hands, yet you understand that what you can hold may not be what is true either. For that, I respect you.

What you did cannot be wrong as it hurt nobody other than yourself. I'm sorry that it happened to you. Hope you can find what you seek that is true, and most of the time, it is not money.

[glooper83]

Bro colins, wonder if you meant True Love.

My thoughts on "true love" is that, chances of it happening is perhaps 1%. The remaining Lovers out there, either fall apart at some stage when problems crop up, or they work towards Love. Love like marriage is a commitment and it really involves a couple coming together and working at the relationship. Chances are, at the beginning of a relationship, the love one gets is mostly the infatuated kind. After that "honeymoon" phase, love begins to develop further into one of commitment, as each party starts to learn new things of their partners they never knew before. I've adopted the thinking that nothing cannot be solved as long as both parties are willing to put effort and sacrifice. All these are easier said than done obviously, but I did it during my relationship, ultimately it was my girl that gave up completely that ended it.

At the end of the day, Bros, we may cheong we may lust, but we must also understand where our commitment lies. If you have a family, try not to get involved in KC traps, treat it as playtime. Talk and communicate more with the spouses.. after all, you were once madly deeply in love with her.


Country Music: what the song title and artist, crazy plan, long long time

Hope this inspires everyone to stay in love with the Right women and leave the KC traps to the WLs. Take care.

[DapHn33333]

Originally Posted by colins

Hi sis, although I do not know you but I like to say this after I read your post.

Anybody who knows how to put in real emotions and out of that process, come something as selfless as you did in the post, cannot be a bad person. You know that both moral and love is not something that you can hold with your hands, yet you understand that what you can hold may not be what is true either. For that, I respect you.

What you did cannot be wrong as it hurt nobody other than yourself. I'm sorry that it happened to you. Hope you can find what you seek that is true, and most of the time, it is not money.

thanks colins bro, i am the one who teach him, scolded him and encourage him to face the girl that he like, came the answer from the girl is "we can be friends." so i know the answer from him and can tell how happy he is so i let it go, thanks for all bros ease my problem and i know the way i do it is right.

Originally Posted by ekemono

I assume the guy is not going to reciprocate your feelings?
If so, move on. You have given him the advice he needs to settle his issues in his own relationship, he should be a sensible enough adult to take charge from there.

Do expect the man you like to be strong, focused and independent.

Thanks ekemono bro, i will br strong, focused and independent

[newbadass]

Originally Posted by Heart Break Kid

WL is low moral creatures that we should not trust them at all

Remember we are just their paying customers not bf or husband.

6 months ago, I dumped a WL so I could have a normal relationship with a local girl who was chasing me (sounds stupid that such a pretty girl would chase me, but that's women... totally illogical)

Throughout my relationship with the local girl, she said things like "darling", "I love you", etc. And the WL still called me once in a while to cry and say she missed me. I never understood why she couldn't let go; to me I'd never seen it as anything more than a fling between KTV girl and customer.

6 months later, the relationship fizzled out. The local girl decided that the honeymoon period was over and she lost interest. She broke up with me in a very fucking-lanjiao manner which still pisses me off when I think about it.

The WL was still there for me. We sat down, we talked. After dinner, I let the waiter have my credit card. The WL flipped through my wallet idly and found a picture of the local girl and me in happier times. I thought I'd thrown them all away. I told her to throw that one away too, and she stared into my eyes.

"One photo you can throw. Ten photo you also can throw. But here you can throw or not?" She pointed right at my heart.

In that instant, I realised exactly what she'd been going through. Why she couldn't let go after so long. It's not a matter of whether I'm worthy of her love (because to be frank, I'm not). The fact is that she'd given her heart to me, and if she could take it back so easily, then her love isn't worth anything.

The local girl took back her love after 4-5 months. The WL never took it back since she met me last December. Does anyone still think that the love of a WL is worth less than the love of a local girl?

It was an important lesson to learn. And it took a Vietnamese KTV girl with bad English to teach me that lesson.

[xyz1001]

Originally Posted by newbadass

The local girl took back her love after 4-5 months. The WL never took it back since she met me last December. Does anyone still think that the love of a WL is worth less than the love of a local girl?

It was an important lesson to learn. And it took a Vietnamese KTV girl with bad English to teach me that lesson.

Bro newbadass, nice post.

Love crosses all boundaries, age, race, religion and of course occupation.
The one who loves give love willingly but the value of love depends on the one receiving it, how much it matters to him/her. If is someone u love, her love for u will be priceless, isn't it?

Fate certainly has its way to teaches us all. The impt thing is u learn this lesson.

Cheers

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by newbadass

It was an important lesson to learn. And it took a Vietnamese KTV girl with bad English to teach me that lesson.

Well bro, sad thing is, sometimes those who prey also become preys......afterall, they're human too......

[colins]

Originally Posted by xyz1001

The one who loves give love willingly but the value of love depends on the one receiving it, how much it matters to him/her. If is someone u love, her love for u will be priceless, isn't it?

Cheers

Wah...for that line I feel like giving you 20 points. But it would take 30 years, I'll take my time. Thinking about it, should less than 30, one more power every year and all.

[colins]

Bro newbadass, love cannot be forced la. If you accept her, maybe its out of compassion, and that wouldn't be fair to both of you.

But at least you know someone like you for who you are, and the other left you for who she is.

[colins]

Originally Posted by DapHn33333

thanks colins bro, i am the one who teach him, scolded him and encourage him to face the girl that he like, came the answer from the girl is "we can be friends." so i know the answer from him and can tell how happy he is so i let it go, thanks for all bros ease my problem and i know the way i do it is right.

Well if you are happy when he is happy, that's all that matters at the end of the day, isn't it. Nobody can guarantee a happy ending if you go into a relationship anyway. So I guess this is probably how both of you, win.

[Sorin^^]

Leave it to fate. Have means have, dun have means dun haf. Wu jio wu bo jio tai. But of course, got to try and see if can get anot. If he/she doesn't reciprocate ur efforts, then time to move on.

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by newbadass

"One photo you can throw. Ten photo you also can throw. But here you can throw or not?" She pointed right at my heart.

In that instant, I realised exactly what she'd been going through. Why she couldn't let go after so long. It's not a matter of whether I'm worthy of her love (because to be frank, I'm not). The fact is that she'd given her heart to me, and if she could take it back so easily, then her love isn't worth anything.

The local girl took back her love after 4-5 months. The WL never took it back since she met me last December. Does anyone still think that the love of a WL is worth less than the love of a local girl?

It was an important lesson to learn. And it took a Vietnamese KTV girl with bad English to teach me that lesson.

FL or not, feelings will develop normally esp when 2 people start spending lotsa time together.

Regardless of friendship,love,gratitude...these are all feelings that will come in. We are all humans and if someone is true to us, we cannot but after a while crumble (maybe a little if we are more cynical)

So.. dun play with feelings if u r not serious

Bro xyz1001... Dun take LW's home-going so hard, she is still coming back.

[Wooden_Handle]

It may be one-sided, as I have seen before WL developed certain feeling towards a particular customer and showed her feeling to him, but he is always bo chap.. like dont sms me unless I sms you..

[Ibonk]

Originally Posted by newbadass

6 months ago, I dumped a WL so I could have a normal relationship with a local girl who was chasing me (sounds stupid that such a pretty girl would chase me, but that's women... totally illogical)

Throughout my relationship with the local girl, she said things like "darling", "I love you", etc. And the WL still called me once in a while to cry and say she missed me. I never understood why she couldn't let go; to me I'd never seen it as anything more than a fling between KTV girl and customer.

6 months later, the relationship fizzled out. The local girl decided that the honeymoon period was over and she lost interest. She broke up with me in a very fucking-lanjiao manner which still pisses me off when I think about it.

The WL was still there for me. We sat down, we talked. After dinner, I let the waiter have my credit card. The WL flipped through my wallet idly and found a picture of the local girl and me in happier times. I thought I'd thrown them all away. I told her to throw that one away too, and she stared into my eyes.

"One photo you can throw. Ten photo you also can throw. But here you can throw or not?" She pointed right at my heart.

In that instant, I realised exactly what she'd been going through. Why she couldn't let go after so long. It's not a matter of whether I'm worthy of her love (because to be frank, I'm not). The fact is that she'd given her heart to me, and if she could take it back so easily, then her love isn't worth anything.

The local girl took back her love after 4-5 months. The WL never took it back since she met me last December. Does anyone still think that the love of a WL is worth less than the love of a local girl?

It was an important lesson to learn. And it took a Vietnamese KTV girl with bad English to teach me that lesson.

Dun worry, bro. There's always steamboat and tong shui at Beach Rd with Ibonk.