Dating PRC girls

[Lucky888]

Malaysian girl better right?

Originally Posted by openhearted

My personal experience with PRC girls are quite positive.

Having lived in the PRC for a few years, I had gfs who are marketing executives and even lawyers. They are very open minded. However as a foot note my girlfriends are all Shanghainese and their culture is very different from the rest of China.

After dating a few girls from different nationalities I found out that usually preferences and relationship outcomes are very individualistic and subject to different personalities.

[carloe]

malaysian from suburb or KL?

[NissanNote]

TS

The PRC would love your money instead of love you

Please take Note

[maxsee]

All nationalities across the board got good and bad eggs. I have dated Indonesian chinese, Malaysian, Local Singaporeans, PRC and even Australians before. I can safely say that there are good ones and bad ones for all countries. Unless u only date hookers and entertainment gals who are only interested in ur $$$. It would be really dumb to stereotype certain countries.

[Captainoceania77]

Originally Posted by Lucky888

Malaysian girl better right?

Dont think so . Same mindset like sg gals...They knows how to play mind game and manipulative .

[JAVgent]

Originally Posted by maxsee

All nationalities across the board got good and bad eggs. I have dated Indonesian chinese, Malaysian, Local Singaporeans, PRC and even Australians before. I can safely say that there are good ones and bad ones for all countries. Unless u only date hookers and entertainment gals who are only interested in ur $$$. It would be really dumb to stereotype certain countries.

Agreed. It boils down to the individual and what is their motivation for agreeing to date you. All nationalities can be $-minded; similarly not all PRCs are $-minded.

[Ultrarich]

Originally Posted by NissanNote

TS

The PRC would love your money instead of love you

Please take Note

Sound advice. Noted

[Seesawseesaw]

Originally Posted by Bukit Mewah

Dont think so . Same mindset like sg gals...They knows how to play mind game and manipulative .

Fully agree bro !

[ToyotaVios2003]

Me too. Also noted

Originally Posted by Ultrarich

Sound advice. Noted

[tryherout]

My experience with PRC girl is once only. Well, positive. It ended because she chose to migrate with family. Perhaps, family background should also be considered. It took me by surprise. Sadden of course.

[quelfala]

Personally I have dated 2 PRC Girlfriend and I wouldn't stereotype but I think it's how we set our ground as a man.

I was with this particular girl together for 4 months, though short but I wasn't putting my guard up enough and eventually fell into her mind game where eventually flaunting 5 figures on her, oversea trip etc, etc.

This teaches me a great lesson that as a man I have to safeguard my own finance and to maintain the balance of attraction and always be aware of the situation and assess what kind of a person she is. Is she just here because you can splurge on her or she is here because she likes being together with you.

Eventually things went down hill after I tried testing her by telling her about not able to maintain the lavish lifestyle together with her and asking her other than splurging money what else to do to make both of us in the relationship happy, which she couldn't give me an aswer, lol.

Recalling the whole thing now I pretty much get most of the picture as in where I have loses my ground and gave into her request.

Lesson to take away from this is to understand where to draw a line and stay grounded. There's always lots of friends or girlfriends who will be around you when you're at the peak but you will know who are the real friends and significant half when things are tough.

[lawry]

Originally Posted by quelfala

Personally I have dated 2 PRC Girlfriend and I wouldn't stereotype but I think it's how we set our ground as a man.

I was with this particular girl together for 4 months, though short but I wasn't putting my guard up enough and eventually fell into her mind game where eventually flaunting 5 figures on her, oversea trip etc, etc.

This teaches me a great lesson that as a man I have to safeguard my own finance and to maintain the balance of attraction and always be aware of the situation and assess what kind of a person she is. Is she just here because you can splurge on her or she is here because she likes being together with you.

Eventually things went down hill after I tried testing her by telling her about not able to maintain the lavish lifestyle together with her and asking her other than splurging money what else to do to make both of us in the relationship happy, which she couldn't give me an aswer, lol.

Recalling the whole thing now I pretty much get most of the picture as in where I have loses my ground and gave into her request.

Lesson to take away from this is to understand where to draw a line and stay grounded. There's always lots of friends or girlfriends who will be around you when you're at the peak but you will know who are the real friends and significant half when things are tough.

It's all about culture, your finances and hers.
If you date someone from very average family.. you will have a tougher time. Also in china culture, men spurge on their own women. Their Ang bao is 1k that's 200 sin..

Our Ang bao is 2-20?

It's a different culture. As said if you dated Shanghai Beijing or SZ girls it's different.
I dated Beijing and when I'm there clubbing. She offered to pay twice.

[JacqueMerlin]

Originally Posted by Bukit Mewah

Dont think so . Same mindset like sg gals...They knows how to play mind game and manipulative .

Good and bad come from every nationality.

[casey4341]

i have met one PRC that is not money minded and very upfront with her words. Which is good. Actually PRC very good conversationalist.

[jnudes]

Originally Posted by quelfala

Lesson to take away from this is to understand where to draw a line and stay grounded. There's always lots of friends or girlfriends who will be around you when you're at the peak but you will know who are the real friends and significant half when things are tough.

When you have money they will always be at your side, when you are poor they dump you. I have got dumped by best friends, taken advantage by some people, cheated, bullied, broken up with ex-gf, slandered, blackmailed, lost money in gambling, tried suicide but saved by doctor, business failure, investment failure, job interview failure, etc. All I can say is I trust no one but myself. Be lonely is always better than get cheated or taken advantage by someone. No Facebook for me. I had enough with these kind of friends. Instead I focus on daily exercise and diet. Real friends? Nah I am not waiting or seeking for one. For me they do not exist. Just normal friend is enough if I can find one.