Advise please

Jun, you must be feeling very confused right now and hope that this nightmare ends soon. I think its better you try not to think about this matter too much cos it will make u crazy and you will not be able to concentrate on your work.

I believe u have the time to take things slowly. who knows, things might change later on.

Take it easy. Dont think too much is the best course of action. I know its difficult (especially when u are doing freelance work).

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by Jun|ch|

but seems that he is not very "friendly" to me or i overreacted...hope u dun mind me...i just want to know the truth...

Jun ... those 'experienced + got ingredients' ppl are like that 1 lah ... Batam Man lagi worst.
you got shout out my nick when you correspond with him? say I refer you to him 1 .... he a bit hostile = to test your patience and doing screening lah

[l3atu]

Originally Posted by ryanlim

Ask yourself these questions :

1) Are your parents able to accept a Thai gal as their Daughter-in-law?

2) Do you mind her past, e.g her occupation now, being touched by different guys everyday…..etc.

3) Where are you going to stay after Marriage? Singapore or Thailand?

3.1) if in Singapore, what is she going to do everyday when you’re out at work? I’m presuming that she has neither friends nor relatives here.

3.2) if in Thailand, what can you do for a living there? Her current job is not going to last you and her forever.

4) There are a lot more questions but i think i'm too long-winded
liao..........

above questions will seem familiar to someone hor……..

Most important is Q1...and who is dat 'someone' u are refering to ? Anyone I know ?

[ryanlim]

Originally Posted by Jun|ch|

i very much want to know the truth...i hope the brothers here are "right" about her. so that i can sort my feelings out. i thank all and await for the verdict

why want to know the so-called "truth"?????? when the truth comes out, can you accept it?

if she's really doing all those stuffs behind your back, does that really mean that she doesn't love you and what she's saying to you now are all bull-shit? or is it because she has to do it for her own survival????

if she's not, may i congrats you first cos i presume that the first thing you'll do is to fly over and ask for her hand in marriage........come on.......if the truth is really as what you have been hearing from her, down the roads, more and more doubts will surface due to the fact that you don't trust her enough

[Malaysian Datuk]

I went to church yesterday and my pastor touched on the topic of 'sex outside marriage' in his sermon. To cut a long story short, he said that everytime a man has sex, he 'deposits' a part of himself in the woman.....not semen or bodily fluids but some emotional part (however minute) because we humans are not animals, we are emotional beings and sex being such an intimate act, so whenever we have sex (especially good sex) our minds tend to develop other good feelings (traces of liking/love) towards our sex partners....no matter how harden a chongster we are we cannot escape from this, the only way is try not to fall into these sex traps. Just my 2 sens

[ryanlim]

Originally Posted by l3atu

who is dat 'someone' u are refering to ? Anyone I know ?

tonight you treat me dinner/kopi........i tell you

[l3atu]

Originally Posted by ryanlim

tonight you treat me dinner/kopi........i tell you

Erm...I rather save the dinner / kopi $$$ for myself.

[ryanlim]

Originally Posted by l3atu

Erm...I rather save the dinner / kopi $$$ for myself.

now hia.......and to thought that someone say will entertain me anytime

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by Malaysian Datuk

.. no matter how harden a chongster we are we cannot escape from this, the only way is try not to fall into these sex traps. Just my 2 sens ..

Dear M Datuk,
if cannot escape that means sure will fall into the traps 1 leh .. any solutions?

[ryanlim]

Originally Posted by DNAT

any solutions?

dun kio kway anymore

[Jun|ch|]

Originally Posted by sex_maniac2

Jun, you must be feeling very confused right now and hope that this nightmare ends soon. I think its better you try not to think about this matter too much cos it will make u crazy and you will not be able to concentrate on your work.

I believe u have the time to take things slowly. who knows, things might change later on.

Take it easy. Dont think too much is the best course of action. I know its difficult (especially when u are doing freelance work).

thanks bro...yah feeling confused loh...trying not to show it when i talking for her just now...i keep my calm and not let her know...and see what happens...thansk

[Malaysian Datuk]

Originally Posted by DNAT

Dear M Datuk,
if cannot escape that means sure will fall into the traps 1 leh .. any solutions?

if really fall in then must get out fast lor.....sometimes just have to cut lossess....problem with alot of us is that we tend to equate good sex with love and then we equate the amount of money we spend on them with how much we love them.....sad but true

[lawry]

Originally Posted by DNAT

Dear M Datuk,
if cannot escape that means sure will fall into the traps 1 leh .. any solutions?

well,

the only way out... is to go out more offen.. and cheong.. see more pussy... taste more pussy.. if not.. go library.. go cafe.. go join SDU.. or any activity.. or join as social worker.. (quite a number of chio bu join as social worker... have chance to know these nice decent and big heart gals..)
keep ur life busy..

a go go bar gal? she is way to complicated for u bro.. if u are what DNAT has mention..

nevermind.. everyone, in once of his life time will fall once.. u will bleed.. u will feel the pain.. but u will heal.. just take time..

go out!! either u cheong to forget (the darkside way) or u join some meaningful activity (social worker) that will drain ur time (the holy way).. or take up a course.. learn how to do biz (u might be rich oneday and thank me.... and buy me a louis 13)...

easier said than done? IF U DONT EVEN TRY.. how u know u cant.. say heart pain no mood.. if u dont move one baby step.. u will never move from the spot where u are now!!..

[Jun|ch|]

Originally Posted by DNAT

Jun ... those 'experienced + got ingredients' ppl are like that 1 lah ... Batam Man lagi worst.
you got shout out my nick when you correspond with him? say I refer you to him 1 .... he a bit hostile = to test your patience and doing screening lah

who u referring to??TV??

[l3atu]

Originally Posted by ryanlim

now hia.......and to thought that someone say will entertain me anytime

Entertainment does not include dinner & kopi hor.