Heart broken....

[DO_YOU_BJ]

过来人有两种
第一种是称，过来的成功，成长的人
第二种是称，过不来而走火入魔的人
呵呵

Originally Posted by spidey7

committg affairs is wrong? i tot it is NSA 4both parties.

U r not wrong in ur statement.
Guess it depends from which angle this statement is applied from ba.
From 2 consenting parties, u r rite.
From external parties looking in, chances r, they'll say it's not morally rite

[hurts]

Originally Posted by do_you_bj

过来人有两种
第一种是称，过来的成功，成长的人
第二种是称，过不来而走火入魔的人
呵呵

终于有一句说的有理，明天自愿赏你两分。

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

过来人有两种
第一种是称，过来的成功，成长的人
第二种是称，过不来而走火入魔的人
呵呵

Originally Posted by hurts

终于有一句说的有理，明天自愿赏你两分。

第三种是称: 梁山伯与祝英台



"不打汉" (Hokkein: Buay ta-han) 你们两位

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by ichigo_kurosaki

第三种是称: 梁山伯与祝英台
"不打汉" (hokkein: Buay ta-han) 你们两位 :d:d:d

大哥，无恨哪有情
无打哪有爱
无闹哪有平静 hehehe

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by hurts

终于有一句说的有理，明天自愿赏你两分。

大姐，我在这讲道理时，你还在上学呢 lolzzz

[hurts]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

大姐，我在这讲道理时，你还在上学呢 lolzzz

也许那时侯，应该我还在操场上和我的朋友玩"咯庆" catching" 吧。

[<<totally>>]

Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki

"不打汉" (Hokkein: Buay ta-han) 你们两位

俗话说得好，冤家宜解不宜结. 难道是小两口吵架？ But Da ge DYBJ has always show me that whatever he says always has a reason behind it. He often proved himself to be correct in the angle he viewed the issue. Maybe try looking thru his lens and you might understand the reason and learned a few things. After all the pride in all of us might disillusion our vision.

In my case, I did learned much things from him and I'm glad as his things become mine.

[hurts]

Originally Posted by <<totally>>

I did learned much things from him and I'm glad as his things become mine.

Eyer, you don't por can a not very er xin lea. later mr do_you_bj cannot digest his dinner properly after reading your post then you gonna be responsible for his medical fee ?

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by <<totally>>

maybe try looking thru his lens and you might understand the reason and learned a few things. After all the pride in all of us might disillusion our vision.

I guess you are right cos I don't really know Dage DO_YOU_BJ very well, only this 1-2 months, often see him in threads

I will try to see using his lens and perhaps learn a thing or 2 from Dage

人生一世，如草生一秋。是匆匆而麻烦的短暂。活得糊涂的人，容易幸福。活得清醒的人，容易烦恼 。
難得糊塗: 聰明難、糊塗尤難、由聰明轉入糊塗更難，放一著、退一步、當下心安，非圖後來福報也。

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by hurts

Eyer, you don't por can a not very er xin lea. later mr do_you_bj cannot digest his dinner properly after reading your post then you gonna be responsible for his medical fee ?

Love me, hate me, up me, zap me, my stand from as long as I can remember has been constant, not many can do it, but some sure will be able to n some hv done it too
黑是黑
白是白
你要把黑看成白
这是你的选者能力和自由
可是
黑还是黑
白也还是白
Truth hurts
Reality hurts
逃避是后悔的开始
面对是幸福的开始

人生的意义
How many can even understand this, let alone practice it?
Not an argument but let's call it a case study

The Notion of Drug Addict
Everyone on earth can advice tat addict to quit
But no one can ever make him quit
Unless he himself wants to quit
Force him against his WILL
He will find all opportunities to get his or her FIX
But
If he has made up his mind, AWAKENED n decided to quit for good
Put the drug infront of him, he will still avoid it.

Relate the above to many debates I've participated in
Apply my siggy to any argument
N u will see it applied non stop
Bro <<totally>> is not (Por)ing me
He is not the 1st who has benefited from some of these posts
I too have benefited from some of 大哥 <<totally>> n 大哥 IK's wisdom n many other more wise bros in this forum.

We learn, we share, we contribute.
Right is right, wrong is wrong.
Same logic applies of the 黑 n 白
These are not my teachings FYI
If one seeks self awakening n religious understanding
Regardless of Faith
They'll see what I say n only thru some form of awakening at a certain level, can one understand the essence or the message behind the postings

[DO_YOU_BJ]

两位大哥别误会，都是高人，小弟心领了

[hurts]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Love me, hate me, up me, zap me, my stand from as long as I can remember has been constant, not many can do it, but some sure will be able to n some hv done it too
黑是黑
白是白
你要把黑看成白
这是你的选者能力和自由
可是
黑还是黑
白也还是白
Truth hurts
Reality hurts
逃避是后悔的开始
面对是幸福的开始

人生的意义
How many can even understand this, let alone practice it?
Not an argument but let's call it a case study

The Notion of Drug Addict
Everyone on earth can advice tat addict to quit
But no one can ever make him quit
Unless he himself wants to quit
Force him against his WILL
He will find all opportunities to get his or her FIX
But
If he has made up his mind, AWAKENED n decided to quit for good
Put the drug infront of him, he will still avoid it.

Relate the above to many debates I've participated in
Apply my siggy to any argument
N u will see it applied non stop
Bro <<totally>> is not (Por)ing me
He is not the 1st who has benefited from some of these posts
I too have benefited from some of 大哥 <<totally>> n 大哥 IK's wisdom n many other more wise bros in this forum.

We learn, we share, we contribute.
Right is right, wrong is wrong.
Same logic applies of the 黑 n 白
These are not my teachings FYI
If one seeks self awakening n religious understanding
Regardless of Faith
They'll see what I say n only thru some form of awakening at a certain level, can one understand the essence or the message behind the postings

大哥，你是不是要说正义是斗不过邪暗？not trying to debate but asking your views on this only.

让我在加多一句，"逃避只是战时的决绝办法到总就还是要去面对"。

[<<totally>>]

Originally Posted by hurts

Eyer, you don't por can a not very er xin lea. later mr do_you_bj cannot digest his dinner properly after reading your post then you gonna be responsible for his medical fee ?

Sis hurts, in your stand I can see the word por. I do understand why you feel that way. I am not angry with you as I did see thru your lens. Give yourself a chance as not much harm will be done.

I did learned a couple of things from him and not ashamed to admit. We are born with nothing into this world so whatever you learned along the way will be yours to keep and no one will be able to take it away from you. Unless you are unable to accept and shut yourself in the world you are in, I believed I will no longer required to say much as the doors only allow passage out but not in.

If you managed to understand, even though there are differences in your positions, a different point of view do helps to see things better. You will stand to gain and nothing to lose.

Consider my questions.
1)What is everything?
2)Ask yourself if you really saw everything?

I can tell you, Dage DYBJ and I did exchanged a series of firings before but we are on talking conditions and we knew each other better. If there is a need to proof our cross firings, I will be glad to show you but the pms will be processed with discreet contents omitted.

[<<totally>>]

Originally Posted by hurts

让我在加多一句，"逃避只是战时的决绝办法到总就还是要去面对"。

可是你知不知道，逃避是无期限的. 有的人就是用尽一身的时间，还是选择逃避. 什么叫总就还是要去面对. 如果他选择死，他需要面对吗？就是他不要面对才会选择死亡，所以我才会说是无期限.

可是有的人勇于面对. 遇到问题的时候，他就是追根到底，打破沙锅问到底的态度. 这样的人是不是会显现的出比较成功吗？

小姐hurts，你的观点早已被我的推理摧毁了. 到底能不能接受，就在于你自己. 我是已一个中立人的身份来说话，要是我靠过去，你还有机会说话吗？

[hurts]

Originally Posted by <<totally>>

可是你知不知道，逃避是无期限的. 有的人就是用尽一身的时间，还是选择逃避. 什么叫总就还是要去面对. 如果他选择死，他需要面对吗？就是他不要面对才会选择死亡，所以我才会说是无期限.

要东西决绝终究还是要面对处理，死亡的选择全在于你自己，选择用死亡来逃避是愚蠢的终究还是决绝不了问题反 而还是个很不负债认的行为。

Originally Posted by <<totally>>

可是有的人勇于面对. 遇到问题的时候，他就是追根到底，打破沙锅问到底的态度. 这样的人是不是会显现的出比较成功吗？

勇敢面对的人是能在社会上生存的人也是个成功的例子。因为他们敢去面对掺绔的事实接受失败，把失败改正成功 。

Originally Posted by <<totally>>

小姐hurts，你的观点早已被我的推理摧毁了. 到底能不能接受，就在于你自己. 我是已一个中立人的身份来说话，要是我靠过去，你还有机会说话吗？

这句我不明白。translation please.