Marital affair

[DreamOfLust]

Bro maybe you want consult a medium to see if you got Kena gongtao???

[gocoffeebean]

TS

Some people are meant to fall in love with each other .....
but not meant to be together ....

I totally understand you

[long]

Originally Posted by pychan

no kids yet

it is not lust,
we sometime spending time together like movie, dinner, sleep ( without any sex)

I clearly now, that i love her now

one day no see her message, missing her like crazy

awww...you are in love... since its impossible to end with 3 happy people (wife, u, nsa), statistically, the next best answer may lie in 2 happy people.

oops..

[AngelvsDevil]

Originally Posted by DreamOfLust

Bro maybe you want consult a medium to see if you got Kena gongtao???

i like this reply...

[matthew44]

My dear bro,

Yes I understand how u feel and the call is up to you.. But u must know is that I sure your mrs is always there for you when you need her and if that is true.. Than u know were and what u need to do..

Unless u so good can keep 2 haha.. But hard...

All the best..

[PoloRalph]

Hi Chan, so many great advices from bros., you know what is right but we know it will be hard to handle. You will regret if you leave her, but much more regret if you leave your wife. Take care.

[bang79]

still think family is the best!!!
Think carefully. If you already have kids, then sure no.
Just my thot.

[toyotarush]

Bro I know always eat home cooked food will get tired one day and u decide to eat at a resturant. After eating u still have to go home. Nobody stays in a restaurant.

[DreamOfLust]

Originally Posted by toyotarush

Bro I know always eat home cooked food will get tired one day and u decide to eat at a resturant. After eating u still have to go home. Nobody stays in a restaurant.

yeah... the old times lines

[callmebad]

if you're still committed to your marriage, better end this extra-marital affair

this kind of 'outside adventure' can only bring you short term happiness but long term sadness or maybe regret

[always1600]

Bro, she can fall in love tis way n leave her bf....it will happen to you the same way. Clean up yr mouth n go back 2 yr wife.

[Subaru75]

Bro 1 thing that u have to ask yourself ,if u choose ur fling for your wife are u willing to take up what going to happen ,few example I have already seen and I Almost can guarantee this will happen
1) how to face ur parent ,ur wife and ur in law
2) you may loss ur job as all the stress come together and u can't perform, boss give u a envelope
3) how to face ur friend ,neighbor ,relative when they ask abt u .
4) will u be able to take up these stress
5) if u r jobless ,will ur fling stay through the hard time with u
Consider these point before u made any rush decision or else u may regret ,
So far I have seen case successful but I have seen more fail and some really life become hell . Think twice

[n30n]

You've already found one woman who'll go through hell times with you. Be it financial woes, parent/ in laws problems, career problems, personality issues, r/s hiccups, setting up new home issues and you two made it through till now.

Are you sure this new girl is trusty to stay with you through thick and thin?
Do you have the energy to go through all the obstacle tests from stage 1 again in this new r/s?

[acidicavex]

Originally Posted by pychan

dear all,

thanks for all advise.

I am really not ready to let go both.
and i also know i cannot have both together, as it will hurt someone.
At the end sure someone will get hurt.

she is a very good girl to me, she into NSA because of pressure / stress and lack of time by her bf. beside this is a caring, filial, nice, pretty, elegant, profesional. her bf is much a good person, wealth, nice looking, only lack fo time for her.
She willing to give up all this just to be with me. Frankly speaking, i am not handsome, i am not rich, but she like my companionship and caring to her.



i am not sure this is "2nd spring", as i know the feeling is much stronger than my first gf or my wife when we start dating ( i am comparing the most peak of moment compare my previous 2 woman). I mean beside sex, she always in my mind now, whenever i free, i miss her, when i driving, i also thinking of her. Reading her emails and sms, make my days brighter.

I still cant figure any way without hurting anyone. I cant be selfish to let woman hurt, this i know clearly , but i really dunno what to do now.

very stressful now

Honeymoon period dear friend honeymoon.

It all in your mind your mind make it since like the feeling so strong you can't live w/o her. Not 2nd spring it is the feeling that is gone btw you and you wife now you found it on NSA FB. Your mind tell you so but trust me it ain't so your mind is playing trick on you.

Wish to know why I say so I can only say (been there done that return from the pit.)

Take Care paper is not able to wrap the fire 纸是包不住火的

[regularguy]

'bro think wife more impt