Intimacy issues with BF

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by Sensual8725

hello hello! i am 100% a girl.. why can't girls surf sex forum and ask for advice when we are frustrated especially meeting with such problems, can only ask in sex forum which guys frequent right? then go where for advice, may i ask? all the other singapore forums are either spamming or girls forum with no guys to answer to this relevant topic. hope i clarified. and i think C cup sexy girl doesn't equal to porn star profile image.

What men want?
Where's the best place to get an answer?
SBF
C cup is not porn star image la.
Nowadays, porn star image = silicon tits, botox lips.
C cup innocent sweety pie become animal behind doors image is still the most desired irresistible image that is highly sought after.
Also, if a woman doesn't know how to use her body in entirety for receiving n giving pleasure, wat cup also just another piece of meat

[hornie]

I am just saying, that is the chances of this


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[darrendon]

Not yet married already like this. After married will even be worse.
He is just getting bored of having sex with the same person. It is not that he wants to find others for sex but he is just a human. I believe most of us will tend to get bored of doing the same thing over and over again. Ask you watch the same movie 1000 times and you will get sick of it. I heard of men who go home have sex with wife just as a duty of a husband. But of course there are also exceptions.

I believe he still loves you but sex and love to men can be separated. Men is physically designed in a way that releasing is human nature just like peeing. But love is different. So if you want to continue with him, you will have to accept how he deals sex.

Go for an escape holiday in remote island etc. That will bring both of you together closer.

[darrendon]

Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

yeah, good suggestion.. using reverse psychology may just work in your case.

After so many years than recently I realise you are a WOMAN.

[checkeredstars]

Originally Posted by Sensual8725

hello hello! i am 100% a girl.. why can't girls surf sex forum and ask for advice when we are frustrated especially meeting with such problems, can only ask in sex forum which guys frequent right? then go where for advice, may i ask? all the other singapore forums are either spamming or girls forum with no guys to answer to this relevant topic. hope i clarified. and i think C cup sexy girl doesn't equal to porn star profile image.

well, i am a girl too and i can totally relate to how you feel. i joined this forum because i will want to know more from the perspective of other people and see how i can improve on certain things.

but anyway babe, you are already 25 and I am around your age. At this age we tend to move on towards the settling down stage. If you can't tolerate him spending time playing with games and not being as sweet as tender as how he used to be, perhaps you can look at the efforts he have placed in you. He might facing stress at work or some unhappiness and playing with games is one of his avenue to vent out his anger. I mean, we would rather them play with games than sleep around yeah? But of course, because we are not in your shoes, it's not easy to understand what you are going through. If there's nothing worth for you to hold back, then cut it off before it's too late.

Sex is important, and so is communication. If either element is missing, especially in the early stage of marriage, conflicts will easily arise and temptations from other people will arrive easily.

We are only live life once. Don't settle for the less. All the best!

[AsianBoy86]

so nice .... i wish i can have a GF like u all but unfortunately thought out this 26 years im still single .. haiz
where is the love ~~~~~

[ston]

Originally Posted by checkeredstars

well, i am a girl too and i can totally relate to how you feel. i joined this forum because i will want to know more from the perspective of other people and see how i can improve on certain things.

but anyway babe, you are already 25 and I am around your age. At this age we tend to move on towards the settling down stage. If you can't tolerate him spending time playing with games and not being as sweet as tender as how he used to be, perhaps you can look at the efforts he have placed in you. He might facing stress at work or some unhappiness and playing with games is one of his avenue to vent out his anger. I mean, we would rather them play with games than sleep around yeah? But of course, because we are not in your shoes, it's not easy to understand what you are going through. If there's nothing worth for you to hold back, then cut it off before it's too late.

Sex is important, and so is communication. If either element is missing, especially in the early stage of marriage, conflicts will easily arise and temptations from other people will arrive easily.

We are only live life once. Don't settle for the less. All the best!

These assholes are taking you for granted lah... Cb diao qi lai mai.

This is sexual fustration, tell him you feeling insulted and sao xing when he react this way. It is cruel and not kind to you. If he dont appreciate, time to change bf. will not get better with marriage. Likely he will look for more exciting sex with other ppl too. Trust me. Men are bastards...

[scorpionnn]

It feel it takes 2 hands to clap.

I was a game addict too, many years ago (Heroes Online, if any bros/sis played it before ). I have a very high sex drive too (2-3 times a day, 5-6 times a week) before I got hooked. Yes, I agree, gaming does kill your personal life, but hearing the "boom, piang, aaarrr..." does help you relieve your stress and frustration.

However, there are guys who are not so into sex. I did have a fb, she's not the best looker in town, but she does have some nice assets and figure, and she can literally fuck me throughout the night, till I "kio tolong", and mind you, she is no dead fish in bed. Reason for her fucking around, her fiancé (now husband) has extremely low libido. They basically have sex less than the number of public holidays we have a year (15 to be exact).

Moreover, you mentioned, he's a white collar. White collar jobs are physically demanding. I dunno which line he's in, but I've done some odd jobs during my younger days (plumbing, aluminium roofing, factory, banquet waiter), and honestly, my kuku jiao could hardly even feel my pee after a long tedious peak period day.

And from the way you post, I feel you're somewhat narcissist, demanding and maybe even over-bearing at times. That too can kill the mood.

In any case, both of you knows best what's going on. Communication is most important. If you can't get him to open up, as what a bro mentioned, see what game he's on, his IGN and you start playing too, getting close to him ingame but don't let him know its you. Once he's more comfortable with you, he'll start blurting out anything and everything. I'm sure some gamer bros here can relate, they do share private moments and daily ongoings with ingame friends.

FYI, I'm doing this with my teenage son now, cause he starts closing up the moment he hit sec.1, and it's working so far.

[RealEstateGuy]

Young Sistah, I think the only way you will be able to get it on with your BF more often is through a webcam of some sort or to get yourself online. So why not stay in another room and video chat sex with him. Apparently this is the way to reach his mind.

[hansolo7677]

Humans are selfish by nature. When he is doing something he enjoys, he just wants to be left alone to fully enjoy it. When he wants action, he will want it from you.

My advice is take it or leave it.

If you want to stay, then stick by his side when he is playing games or whatever, sometimes, when guys take a break.... they dont mind a quickie. Just dont expect foreplay or satisfaction.

[skipbeat]

Exactly, as above it takes two to clap and both to work on a relationship.

If you are not getting what you need and deserve in a relationship, drop and move on.

You do not forcefully and holding onto a puzzle piece that does not fit you.

Fate brings you together, but you learnt something out of it.

天涯何处无芳草

Good luck.

[SA23]

I agree with one of the bro who mention abt going for a short holiday trip, by going for trip chances that he does not have acess for any LAN gaming is very high. Therefore during this trip have a heart to heart talk with each other and let him understand ur thoughts but do remember that the trip is to help the both of u to break down this problem so u will have to also do ur part by listening to what he has to say.....

Sometime if a person intentionally tried to seduce he/her partner, it might just back fire coz we won't koe whether the other party wants to make love or not. Yes i understand tat when we r in love wif a person we would of course like to make love with them and have the feel of being love by them but if u really cherish him then i would want to say dun force dun have to seduce on purpose, u nv koe he might not like or want u to dress up sexily to arouse him. sometime no sex relationship can b better then those relationship tat can have sex everyday.

Come to think of it would u prefer him to play lan game when u r flying around frequently or would u want him to go out and look for some other gals and do things behind ur back.... I believe u shd have the answer to it.

[Ganbuaysua]

Originally Posted by skipbeat

Exactly, as above it takes two to clap and both to work on a relationship.

If you are not getting what you need and deserve in a relationship, drop and move on.

You do not forcefully and holding onto a puzzle piece that does not fit you.

Fate brings you together, but you learnt something out of it.

天涯何处无芳草

Good luck.

Bro.. I think you got your point on your comment.
Cheers

[epicureanp]

Sensual,

Short and simple.... he's taken you for granted and placed other interest above you. No matter how attractive you are, once that happens you don't stand a chance. He'd probably think you're a bother for disrupting him be it whether he's lan gaming, cooking, arranging ikebana or taking a dump.

You gotta have a good talk with him about your concerns and he has come to terms that he has been neglecting you and focus on you again. Only when that happens can you both move forward. Else its time to go your separate ways.

-J

[shack]

i think sometimes when someone knows that you are always available and horny, it becomes boring and unattractive.