How to tell if this ktv(PRC) gal really love me?

[yahooboy]

Originally Posted by sun814

tiong kok mei, china girls.

should be TKB = tiong kok bu

[Schenker]

Originally Posted by joew2005

hi fabregas1981,as u had mentioned ... u r not handsome,don't own a flat,don't own a car or earn much $. so what do u think makes her fall 4 u .... with real feelings?

she sees some usefulness in u 2 her.

Definitely!!!

A easy passage to obtain SPR.

[alan0338]

Originally Posted by loveWNBA

I am now retired from local KTV scene as posted out of SG but back in my days still in SG, I can tell you my very interesting encounters which might make the envy of many others...

kamsia for sharing ur story .... u really tough nut to crack, can survive so many onslaught from the gals hehe

[loveWNBA]

Originally Posted by alan0338

kamsia for sharing ur story .... u really tough nut to crack, can survive so many onslaught from the gals hehe

bro, after a marriage which last under 12 months(not to mention 3 years of dating her).....I become kind of seasoned liao. Plus most Asian cities I get posted too all have KTV.....I think if I am a good crossdresser I sure become a damn successful KTV gal 1....every of their silly sales pitch i also know..before they finish the 3rd sentence I already summarised for them in my head liao!haha!

My only damn weakness is when the gal gives good BBBJ and CIM....I sure end up contacting her for at least 1 month! I must conquer this weakness!!hahaha

[aakumu]

Originally Posted by fabregas1981

I met this gal at a ktv(not sleazy type where the gals only acc u drink,sing,chat n play games).She was here on singer pass where she can stay for 6 mths.After 2 mths of pursue,she agreed to be my gf.

I must admit intially i only tot of bedding her,therefore i bought gifts to please her,all of which only during courtship but human are not without feelings.I find myself falling in love with her,which was the happiest days of my life.

However,sweet times were never lasting.I later realised tat she had lied to me on few occasions n i was darn angry n sad.Even thou i forgive her,i told to get out of this relationship "emotionally",meaning i withdraw my feeling for her but i still get to satisfy my sexual needs.

After some time,i realise this is quite impossible.I cant control my feelings for her,which grew stronger n stronger.Thus,i try to make her break off with me.I told her i'm actually a very poor man,with no savings n now even have prob with my daily expenses so i cant give her tips when i visit her.She actually didnt mind!She even bought me an expensive gift for my birthday!

That was not all.She even ask me whether i have enff $ for daily expenses.I tot she jus say so i told her to borrow me $ which she really did n told me no need to return.Even when we go out,she would pay for meals n even hotel expenses..She says she loves me n my financial status is not impt..

I'm very confused now.I really love her a lot n actually tot of marrying her but she had ever lied to me for many times,resulting me always having doubts on her words credibility.

I'm not yandao,dun own flat n car,dun earn much so i dunno whether her feelings for me are real..Pls advice..

Hi bro,
I think you are very insecure, if you truly have nothing that she could get from you, then what is the problem?
You will in trouble if you think she is after something that you have.
Put the shoe on the other foot, what if she goes out to work; makes a lot of money and is just happy to have you along as a "male mistress", pardon the language.
Is it possible that you are her release from the everyday grinds.............?
If men with money could have mistress, why can't women?
Mistress are not only great in bed but also a good listener.
If she feels you fit requirements, she have every right to support you.
There is no right or wrong, is only your ego can or not take the fact that she is earning other man's money to support you.

My humble two cents.

[xxking]

TS they either love your $$ or your status, or both; Maybe she really loves you but possibility <0.1%, if you hit the 0.1% you are lucky like hitting the jackpot.

Before making any decision, maybe you can go back to her hometown with her and see how you will be treat there if you want on, otherwise off

[rawcommando]

jus my 2cts,

ive had friends, typical average singaporean man, jus a small car, about 50k income, who happily married ktv girls. but 1 thing in common, i observed. these woman all are willing to stop working and give birth, start a proper familyand that is never easy to do.

myself, in midst of divorcing my PRC wife of 3yrs. we actually broke up 8mths into the marriage. when we had a child after 6mths of marriage, she din wan it. she wanted to continue working.

think about it, an average ktv gal (including dinosaurs) can make 5k (15000rmb) a month easily. in 2yrs time, they would have purchased a house in PRC and fully paidup. the average singaporean guy can never give them that.
the average income working in PRC for a white collar is only 2500rmb. they need to work 10yrs or more to achieve wat they can in SG in 2yrs.

the gal may stick with you now coz for companionship, or perhaps shes got genuine feelings for you. but reality will bite 1 day.

i strongly suggest you try to get back on ur life 1st, at least not debt ridden, or disillusioned. you cant even start a proper family with her now. at least if she REALLY DO LOVE you, you wont need her to suffer together with you. this applies not to PRC woman, it applies to all woman.

cheers

[DarthVader63]

Originally Posted by NewMike1304k

The chance of a lady of the night, be it just a singer or a hostess falling in love is very slim. It is not impossible, but it is very slim.

The chances are higher than striking 4D

[joew2005]

the true will hurt ..... but we hv 2 live with the true facts of life.

[fabregas1981]

thanks to all the advices to all the bros here...she's gone back to china n we still contact daily through whatsapp n phone call every 2 days...perhaps some of u r right,tat i shouldnt carry on since i dun have the ability to support her...i will still keep in contact with her n c how things go..in my heart,i oso hope she will break off with me 1 day so tat i can stop this..but feelings r really hard to control..i will see wat holds for me in time down the road...


appreciate ur advices...

[basic]

If u r serious with her discuss e $ ¥ issue with her

[Ken79]

In China if you want to marry pls get 3 things ready first

House - 200-300k sgd for a 100-120sqm 3 bedroom condo
Car - 20k sgd for normal sedan
Dowry - Depends on how greedy her parents are, no such thing as they wont be greedy as they'd tell you that they raised up their daughter for so long and cannot let you 'take her away from them' cheaply.

[fabregas1981]

actually,we have never discussed anything abt $ till now.initially she did ask for gifts but aft she know my financial status,it was her instead who bought me gifts.she also pays most of the time when we go out...

[Stud00]

Dear TS,

i couldn't be bothered to read your entire post, and thread.
But just from your title..

PLEASE.. get a life.. you are not that dumb to marry her?