what if you found your wife is cheating you?

[xx038]

Its very hard to accept....

Always there is a reason for some thing.....why either one need to find some one else for sex?

1. Not satisfied
2. Not enough
3. Either one not intersted
4. Or not match with their taste or act
5. And so many we can say.....

Frankly speaking..how many males really play like give and take and how many females do it on the same way...

Is all wife do BJ to their husban? Is all husband lick their wife?

As a husband if his sexual are desires not fulfilled by his wife what he will do?

As a wife if her sexual desires are not fulfilled by his husband what she can do?

sure either one will find some way to fulfill the desire....

males always have lots of sources.....and less trouble some. but for females?

Its some thing like one sided....la.

If you give more than enough her if she still go out to find some thing....then too bad. She expect more than you do..then buy some toys and make her realize and work hard to improve yourself.

For females try to give what ever you can if he still need...no choice..

If you really love your wife..dont simply say "divorce". find why she was going into that path. Most of the girls dont want to sleep with any others unless you really make her to yearn for that....

Do ask yourself do you really give what she want..then you say.

Breaking relationship is very fast..the pain will lost forever. At the same time building relationship is not that much easy.

Still there is lot to say...i dont know how to put it in writing...

will continute...

[99546]

This is a good reference for me. Coz my wife also cheating me and caught by me twice. And I forgive her twice. And nw I suspect she doing again. Can any Bro here can introduce me licensed private investigator asap? Coz this time I will not forgive her again. me stupid? Rite. Forgive her tot she will change back. Haiz....... PLEASE HELP ME INTRODUCE A LICENSED PRIVATE INVESTIGATOR. THANKS ALOT, BRO

[whiteiphone4321]

Forget it bro. Why waste money on a PI. I can tell you now that she is doing it again.
And Im guessing its your wishy washy character thats why your wife is straying.

Man Up! Start making and act on your decisions!

A few choices:

1. Live with it
2. Enjoy it (go google "hotwife" or check out peterpan posts)
3. Divorce

Ball's in your court. What are you doing to do?

Originally Posted by 99546

This is a good reference for me. Coz my wife also cheating me and caught by me twice. And I forgive her twice. And nw I suspect she doing again. Can any Bro here can introduce me licensed private investigator asap? Coz this time I will not forgive her again. me stupid? Rite. Forgive her tot she will change back. Haiz....... PLEASE HELP ME INTRODUCE A LICENSED PRIVATE INVESTIGATOR. THANKS ALOT, BRO

[allan88]

Y waste $ apply for off if u r working n tail ur wife.

[Tualampa]

Guess everybody has their darkest secret which we do not share with our partners. Cos as humans we know how to weigh the impact of sharing such info, thus not sharing them.

From a married person point of view, I think it hits harder on a married couple then a dating couple when such things occur. As a dating couple I could just break off. But its not that simple to a married couple, not so if you have kids. Thats why some couples adopted the "one eye open, one eye close" after their marriage. But not all can do the same.

[acidicavex]

I just need evidence to safe guard.

And the right for my children.

Come to think of it she have all the chances of doing it........ Not for sex (cause she is FREAKING LOW libidos) Maybe if the guy is able to touch her heart completely... than she will sure stray without turning her head back. So far not many guys she knew can win her heart.

[Tualampa]

Originally Posted by 99546

This is a good reference for me. Coz my wife also cheating me and caught by me twice. And I forgive her twice. And nw I suspect she doing again. Can any Bro here can introduce me licensed private investigator asap? Coz this time I will not forgive her again. me stupid? Rite. Forgive her tot she will change back. Haiz....... PLEASE HELP ME INTRODUCE A LICENSED PRIVATE INVESTIGATOR. THANKS ALOT, BRO

caught with the same guy or diff? Are u cheating on her and she's applying the tis-for-tat tactic on you. Else why so heng u can catch her 2x? Are you sure she did not let u catch purposely? Just curious.

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by 99546

PLEASE HELP ME INTRODUCE A LICENSED PRIVATE INVESTIGATOR. THANKS ALOT, BRO

Isn't there an advertisement on the back bumper of taxis? catchcheatingsomething.com or whatever. That's the only one that comes to mind. Cos I think a lot of married bros will curse that advertisement.

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by acidicavex

I just need evidence to safe guard.

And the right for my children..

sorry to disappoint you bro but court is not going to look at the fact that she cuckold you and award the rights of the kid to you. To them a lousy wife may not mean lousy mother.

[acidicavex]

Originally Posted by Frankiestine

sorry to disappoint you bro but court is not going to look at the fact that she cuckold you and award the rights of the kid to you. To them a lousy wife may not mean lousy mother.

Yea i know that but at least i will try if that happen frankly i won't want my kids (especially they are gals to be with a new man). So for me even i fight till my last penny i will do it do get hold of my kids.

[xx038]

The thread starter just keep quite...very surprise...she just throw the stone inside the water....and keep looking whats going on....(thats what i think)

anyway...we just share out thoughts and feels

[francined69]

Originally Posted by acidicavex

Yea i know that but at least i will try if that happen frankly i won't want my kids (especially they are gals to be with a new man). So for me even i fight till my last penny i will do it do get hold of my kids.

highly unlikely you will get custody of the kids because the Women's Charter protects the women, even if they commit adultery.

[Stud00]

For me,
of course i would be angry. But i would find out from her, what are her reasons? i believe that there would be reasons for her to eat out, i mean, guys do eat out too. I am not married and i am single now, but the last time my ex cheated on me, with her cousin, i was devastated. But i gave her chance and 2 months later she did it again with her colleague. So like some bros say, some gals are meant to be sluts, fuck n throw.. some are meant to be kept as wives. Still waiting for my latter.

[acidicavex]

Originally Posted by francined69

highly unlikely you will get custody of the kids because the Women's Charter protects the women, even if they commit adultery.

Yea sometime this women charter is full of shits......... Well all i want is at least i did something to fight for it. i don't want my kids to instill any corrupted idea of their father couldn't be bother to fight to keep them. At release when they grow up and understand stuff. I go friends whom come from broken family and the father or mother will tend to poison their mind that the other party is at fault. I told them this why not u go listen to both side of the story. Of cause some reply it been so long what is there to find out. However i have a friend whom went to find out she learn that her mother left her dad because the mother deem the father as useless cannot afford car cannot afford holiday. Well that drive his father to work extra hard and finally own his business he even provide evidence of the wife adultery evidence. Although my friend finally know the truth but after so many years she had never stay with her father she felt strange.

[Lionhard]

There are others way apart from fighting for custody. Why make matters more acrimonious?