Heart broken

[cherubim1646]

normally what i can say is that when men say next time they won't do it. They will do it again.

Only thing i can say is eat outside but don let me catch you.

But guess you caught him red handed. Another thing is as long as what he do outside is for fun and clean. it's still ok. He better don f already then fall in love.

Cause the reason most men do it is because they couldn't tahan the temptation. Unless you sentance them to exile, then they got no temptation.

[RUNWEST]

Sis,

Your memory will never fail you as long as you are still breathing.
You WILL NEVER be able to trust him again.

to prevent further agony, just move on..
else u will be in depression soon..

anyway you already have your answer

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by Fail

Yeah tat\'s why I tell myself if I do ever get married in the future, my hb can do whatever he wans, just don\'t bring the other woman/women home, don\'t bring diseases home, and must know home is the priority..I think I\'ll be contented enough.
But of coz I\'ll do what I can on my part to prevent him to find outside food la...haha...maybe make him too \"exhausted\" so that he can\'t steal outside?

Sis, if I ever get married in future, u are the type of women I will consider

Unfortunately, no matter how much you exhaust him, he will still have room for a quick dessert or something (I know I will). So only can fall back on your so-called contentment.... but I betcha u wont be able to stomach it.

The only such women I know exist are being the type that is being abused by the hb and helpless to do anything else. As long as you have a choice, and most if not all modern women does, u will ditch him or otherwise eat outside yourself

[fenwick]

Originally Posted by Blue_gal

sista, its hard to get a man who only SEX U alone in this world....there is bUt not every GAL is LUCKY to have such MAN.....

to make the MAN only SEX u and not other woman, will NEED a lot of "power" to do so.. not only u alone .. to make it work but both party.. ..

so talk to him.. both make it work...if he progress improve of not "eating" outside then can "SAVE" else ... change another ONE .... SO many FISHESSSSS.. in the ocean ....

Remember.. u love him so much doesn't means that he will LOVE u as much as u .....in LIFE ... dun believe in FAIR....as long as u are HUMAN....

Cheer~
Bitchy Blue AUntiE

You're very RIGHT sis!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[pussyidol]

Originally Posted by goodpartner

It is also in the DNA that man can have many women, but each of those women must NOT have any other man

Ya, agree, you are really a good partner for our beloved ladies

[Fail]

Originally Posted by goodpartner

Sis, if I ever get married in future, u are the type of women I will consider

Hahaha...sorry..first time I hear somebody say tis to me, can't help laffing
anyway am not looking forward to marriage. rather than being the poor wife stuck at home wondering what the hb is doing...I rather be the other woman being pampered by the guy...am I weird or what?

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by Fail

Hahaha...sorry..first time I hear somebody say tis to me, can\'t help laffing

..am I weird or what?

Sis, as the saying goes: there is a first time for everything.
Well, if there is something that u still have not yet have the first time at, u know who to approach

4 posts and already I think u will be very popular here.
Enjoy the company of all the horny guys (and gals)

[divababy]

Originally Posted by berryss

I found tat my bf going to book a gal from this forum. how would u do? since im love him so much but he hurt me so much. Im heart broken. I really nd advice. hope sis n bro here can gv me some advice. im totally lost. he duno i know about this...

Sry but to ask... is it u cannot satisfy him? Guy these days .... If u can't accept it... Its best to leave him. Dun suffer under his hand.

[oldghost]

aiyah...mayb his boss/superior/brother/friend etc etc use his laptop to make communication in this forum....... He lend them bcos he got nothing to hide from u, and expect more trust fm u...

Mayb he was being paid to churn out those FR???

mayb he is living in his imagination when he churn out those FRs ( must see Doctor if this is the case.)

Sista, ask him lor... mayb he got other valid excuse.... If you dun wish to ask...please give him the benefit of the doubt....

[Mman]

Originally Posted by divababy

Sry but to ask... is it u cannot satisfy him? Guy these days .... If u can't accept it... Its best to leave him. Dun suffer under his hand.

this is why marriage these days is so unlike the past. there isn't a lot of eternity marriage, forever love etc. it takes both hands to clap. parents sleeping together did not mean they are still in love.

it's just one woman who is happy with her life without the part cracking her brain trying to sextisfy her husband need. and husband foolishly thinking that his wife's intuition is failing.

[Xccess]

Man trade sex for love as oppose to women, women on the other hand "in general" will only sleep with a guy when she's emotionally right towards him. My point of view is that your BF is booking a girl thus money will be involved. Paid sex is just a trade with no emotion exchange . I know this sounded unfair to girls but that's the build of a man mentality, it has been like this since cavemen existence. There's also a reason why prostitution is legal in Singapore.

[may1983]

just hope your guy got caught during the anti vice raid lor - this is only thing you can pray, provided you given up on him - if not then try to open up your mind.

[rav_taz]

Sis, if you really cant accept it then its time to move on.
Dont waste your time n effort to try to forgive n forget if u cant.
Only make urself suffer while ur bf may still continue his activities.

I feel that most impt is your own happiness.

[Bangster]

think TS got over it liao bah....?

[ericgo18]

Many yrs back before i was married, i asked my than gf which is my wife now. 'would you rather catch me having an affair or would u rather catch me at geylang kio kway?' so what do you think was my wife answer?