Just found out my wife has been cheating on me! - Page 5

Chinapuss · #61 07-12-2009, 09:31 AM

TS...sorry to hear bout ur sad news but if i am u, i juz leave her...no point in holding back cause u know tat she will still keep on bonkin other guys and make u a cheapo FOOL....y keep tis SLUT when u can be a STUD?

sammyboyfor · #62 07-12-2009, 10:37 AM

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Originally Posted by firefox_2046

In any case, she has already moved out. I think she has moved to his place but I don't fucking give a damn.

You need blood tests done. She could have caught some nasties from her promiscuous lifestyle and passed them on to you.

Cheonging101 · #63 07-12-2009, 12:26 PM

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Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

You need blood tests done. She could have caught some nasties from her promiscuous lifestyle and passed them on to you.

Well, if that's the case, at least the guy who's fucking his wife now has at least two things in common with TS.

1) Fucking the same woman.
2) Sharing the same disease.

But jokes aside, bro TS, do go for some check-up and seek treatment early if needed.

neyney · #64 07-12-2009, 12:35 PM

pengz...
i also concur that TS should go for some checkup

i am also going thru the same issues.

firefox_2046 · #65 07-12-2009, 04:02 PM

thanks for all your concern brothers!

went for a check-up this morning...now it's just a waiting game...

Cheonging101 · #66 08-12-2009, 11:01 AM

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Originally Posted by BigBoy2

Most men cheat outside of their GF, wife, etc..... but we men cannot accept a cheating wife.

Bro, not that I want to defend men cheating outside or anything...

But the difference is that when men cheat, it's like a "hunt". More to satisfy our ego and bestial needs.

For women, it's more like falling in love with another guy. Not many women can separate love from sex. And from what TS said, his wife cheated on him in both mind and body.

wittyguy · #67 08-12-2009, 12:35 PM

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Originally Posted by firefox_2046

Hi guys,
I have always thought that there is complete trust between me and her.

Bro, I believe there is NO COMPLETE trust between man and woman in this world, even heard of "White lies" ? Do you want to told your wife after fucking FLs ?

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Originally Posted by BigBoy2

.. Most men cheat outside of their GF, wife, etc..... but we men cannot accept a cheating wife. So I think you are clear what you wanna do in life already.

Well said bro, sad but that is true, and all mankind not created equal

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Originally Posted by Cheonging101

WTF? She got connection with this guy and STILL fuck his friends?

Maybe she has high sex drive and can not be satisfied by one guy

wittyguy · #68 08-12-2009, 12:41 PM

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Originally Posted by hornyiceman

Oh that sucks pal. Perhaps its best u move on with your life. Can feel that u r ready to settle down, she isnt. Connection lost is perhaps just an excuse. There's a saying but i wont go on to that. Be strong pal

I believe connection lost is true, maybe there are some other reasons still uncover, like not enough $$

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Originally Posted by kurosaki ichigo

Time to cut the losses and kick her out of your life

Ya, that is what TS should do now, Move On ...

etct88 · #69 08-12-2009, 04:43 PM

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Originally Posted by firefox_2046

thanks for all your concern brothers!

went for a check-up this morning...now it's just a waiting game...

waiting for the next chapter........

SamSeng79 · #70 10-12-2009, 09:33 PM

I always believe one thing... " Never trust a woman completely"... Even the dumbest one can surprise u unknowingly...

Megatronzombie · #71 10-12-2009, 11:56 PM

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Originally Posted by firefox_2046

thanks for all your concern brothers!

went for a check-up this morning...now it's just a waiting game...

bro, I think you can't just sit back and ignore her now. My opinion is, that other guy (who is probably some angmoh being posted here) is only looking for a fling and the way he intro your wife to his frens and get them all laid, he is not serious with your wife (unless you misunderstood what you said, you really didnt explained the whole situation enough) and he will dump her once he leaves Singapore. Get your divorce papers done asap and make sure no alimony paid up. When that other guy realised he caused the divorce and he may be straddled with a slut, he will try his best to dump her. You must get everything for your divorce done by then ebfore she crawl back to you pleading for 2nd or 3rd or 4th chance (depending on how many of his frens she already slept with ;p) and you may have no choice but to delay the divorce or forced to pay alimony.

Otherwise, you must get a PI to look for evidence while she is sleeping with him now. This may not help much though looking at how Singapore law works.

The important thing now is speed and do things right asap!! Hope this helps.

vin69m · #72 11-12-2009, 12:30 AM

I only hav tis 2 say. Wen a woman changes her heart, there is no return. I would not advise u 2 F around or even question urself or her who is wrong. Even if u hav 2 leave u can still luv her in ur heart. After u hav settle n decided wat 2 do then go n live a life wif tis Xperience.........Thats life........Fren.....I know its tough.

SneakyBastard · #73 11-12-2009, 12:00 PM

Totally agree with Megatronzombie. Have some urgency about the divorce. You only have 6 months from the time of discovery of adultery to file for divorce on those grounds. You will also have to submit evidence.

Get those things done quickly, or you will have to shoulder an even larger burden: a cheating wife that you can't legally be separated from.

And very important, we can't emphasize enough: make sure you don't have to pay alimony!

TSO2 · #74 11-12-2009, 02:48 PM

I totally agree with the bros who mentioned divorced.
My opinion is before u do that, ask and confirm the question:

She fucked with others guys...is it becz she is super horny and has high sex drive
or is it becoz she doesn't love u anymore?

If the answer is "doesnt love u"..then divorce.
If the answer is "horny"...got chance to talk, got chance to forgive and work it out--maybe u must give her more sex per week!

try to exhaust all options before confirming signing those papers,bro that's all i'm saying. Hiring PI and all that...well...it's up to you.

neyney · #75 11-12-2009, 09:40 PM

ermm... high sex drive, then can go outside and 'eat' then come back and say sorrie i have no more connections.

in fact, these are the exact words that the fairer sex often rebut us as guys when they caught us having affair. look what are they doing then, divorce us and take alimony from the guys.

Perhaps, my suggestion to TS is perhaps, you should think it over it again. find a nice quiet place, sit down and think about your wife. Do you think about more happy memories or you are quite bothered by the fact she has betrayed you. then think about yourself, how much you want her, can you accept her if she were to come back now, dat is provided she is coming back la? Spend about 1 day to think it over, bro. I fully understand what you are going through.

Because i am going through similarly to what you are going now.

After this, i think you will know what to do.