Re: What is your opinion on Sugar Dating or FL better?
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Originally Posted by romanx24
It is just new words and names for same ole stuff.
Just because some hooker has profile on sugar-dating site does not mean she is worth sugar, they are many plain avg ones or FL who make profile in such sites, but end up only ONS type of deals which is not really sugar deals if wanna have specific meaning.
Sugar/sugardating/sugar-babies = like a 21st century mistress, full Girlfriend experience possible, long-term, for guys who like quality and not in rush to cum into whatever. Not affordable by most.
Cost: $$$$ highest if quality, and hiring for ONS is not real sugar stuff, its just wrong word
-- next best would be High Class GFE Escort - usually college girl or young, can have conversations, play around, dinners, movies, and sex with girlfriend experience. Costs less than sugar, since On Night Stand type of deals. Not affordable by many.
-- next best would be regular Escort- costs Medium, provides variety of medium/avg college girls, working women, etc. GFE possible with few who become regulars, usually plain sex with less emotional or GFE fun. Affordable by avg person.
-- next best would be the avg FL - experience depends on specific girl, can be great to yuck. Cost is low, and can be fun but only if you cannot afford higher range. Affordable by many.
-- next best is your legal hookers - they atleast get some medical done, etc compared to the next group. Affordable by most
-- next best is avg hooker - can be bait-n-switch, show one pic but reality not so pretty. Affordable by all, but not suitable for most.
BEST THING - Fwb, cost vary from zero to very high, quality depend on who you pick/hunt, and experience vary depend on how you train/play together.
And if you have wife, options can be many more depending on how open minded is the wife and hubby relationship.
very true and as a man who has experienced all.. I prefer sugar
Re: What is your opinion on Sugar Dating or FL better?
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Originally Posted by mattrayham
Both got its pros & cons. It depends also on what you are like as a person and what you ultimately want.
FL Pros:
- Relatively cheaper & the price more a la carte. You only pay for the 1 or 2 hours for that 1 or 2 shots. Even if overnight or book an FL for a couple of days, the price is transparent. You know what you're paying for.
- Can try a wide variety depending on availability and budget.
- GFE or not, they can't say No to fucking you, 'cos that's part of the package.
- Usually more experienced with sex and you can be experimental with them and try out kinks if they're willing.
- Unless you yourself KC them and try to seduce them, they won't be clingy or needy with you. Once session is done, it's done.
FL Cons:
- Hit or miss, sometimes get those with good GFE, sometimes low GFE. Or sometimes they're actually good at GFE but you got them at a time they're tired.
- Not much human connection beyond just the sex. But not everyone's into this, so this could be an advantage.
- Some risk of catching STD's or other infectious diseases if not careful, since they tend to meet a few people in a day.
- Let's say you like an FL and want to book her for a day or an entire week (talking about escorts in some other countries where this package deal is available) - the price is fixed, can't be bargained (unless you got good bargaining power with the boss), usually expensive.
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Sugar Pros:
- If you want to really connect and get to know a lady beyond just the sex, this is the best route besides actually finding a girlfriend, wife or lover.
- If there's chemistry, GFE comes along with it, just that how the GFE manifests depends on the personality of the sugar baby.
- Also can have a variety, sometimes exotic nationalities that are not available as FL's (or come as more expensive FLs).
- If you set your terms and boundaries right, they also have to respect your boundaries and not be needy or clingy with you.
- Gives you the feeling of conquering sometimes hard-to-get ladies.
- If you have a good thing going with your sugar baby, good chemistry and she possibly likes you beyond the sugar arrangement, sometimes you get bargains or discounts or extras - like spending a whole week or weekend with you without necessarily paying more for her time (e.g. I spent an entire week with a sugar baby who's a 10/10 Brazilian model for just 1,000 USD - where according to market rate for the same time and same type of escort would've cost maybe 10,000 USD at least - plus we were exclusive at that time and we like & trust each other enough to fuck raw - and one time she was my wingwoman and we got another girl to be with us in a threesome)
- The amount you pay them for their time - either monthly or as pay-per-meet - is elastic and stretchable if you're a decent person that they like to spend time with.
- If you're exclusive with 1 sugar baby, assuming she's trustworthy on her word and so are you, lower risks of STD's.
Sugar Cons:
- Some of them can get not only clingy but also ask you for more money beyond the arrangement because of some emergencies - most won't do this, but you just have to watch out and know how to deal with situations like this.
- It's a bit like having a girlfriend - having her as your sugar baby doesn't mean she's your sex slave. She can have periods or tired or just not in the mood for sex. For the long run, you just have to respect her wishes in occasions like this.
- Because the relationship is beyond sex, feelings can get involved and can get messy.
great share.. to all the new bros.. take note of this
Re: What is your opinion on Sugar Dating or FL better?
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Originally Posted by elt0n
Bro, sugar babe, FL, FWB or any other term you choose to call it, the fundamentals are the same. Service in exchange for cash. To put it blatantly, a whore. And I think the old advice sums it up best. Pay, fuck and forget. However we try to delude ourselves, whores are for fucking and not for GFE, not for companionship, not for friendship and certainly not for building a relationship. With that, I would go with a FL and absolutely no strings attached.
Sorry if it came across crude but it is the cold hard truth.
I agree with you bro.. i use sugarbook.com because when i have SB i usually bring them to meeting or accompany me to go drinking and I like the GFE experience
Re: What is your opinion on Sugar Dating or FL better?
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Originally Posted by SammyLee88
many people do suffer of economic dow, now is because of the pademic, sugarbook or tinder they do have FL and sugar dating, through conversation, you will know what both of you need
not necessarily.. through sugarbook.com or tinder the sex scene in SG has changed drastically due to covid
Re: What is your opinion on Sugar Dating or FL better?
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Originally Posted by cavemao
bros, give some advice??? i'm married with kids, but due to being caught years ago, my sex life is now zero, can say r/s with wife on surface is good, but underneath, i've been dry for years (zero sex life in my marriage)..... recently i started on tinder but somehow duno is it i've been out of dating game for ages, can't vibe with the girls, except for one who i'm now talking on telegram..... should i take this one step further or just go back to FL? fuck and forget????
well solve one problem and one time... dont take the risk and time from texting some girl.. just visit fl or sugarbook.com and ppm. Fuck and forget