Does the so call " true love " still exist???

[StevenGerrard]

If u can find a gal who loves u more than u loves her,then
she will be d 1 who gives 101%,not u..

[Xdecepticon]

Originally Posted by clans

that she is probably after the guy for things that you coudn't provide, money, security and so on.

My age. After so many years then she "discovered" I too old for her. Thats what made me pissed off.

Originally Posted by clans

From my experiance, i've also learnt that ''what is yours is yours, what is not yours wil never be yours''- no matter how hard you try.

This what I learnt. If you believe in God, dont pray that you would marry the girl you love most. Pray that if the girl you love most is suitable & compatible for you, then let her belong and marry to you.

[Virginhell]

Poems written during my darkest hours:

MISERY

I have nothing to lose,
And nothing to gain,
Maybe I should just jump down,
And end this pain.

As I cry alone in the dark,
I believe my heart is dead.
Nobody besides me
As I’m left for the dead.

You hear my laughter,
You see my smile,
But did you taste those tears,
It is bitter sweet and vile.

An empty heart,
I’m only an empty shell.
What I had in my life,
Were washed away with lies.

Look at how I fell,
A man fallen from grace,
People mock at me in silence,
And say I deserve it all.

I leave it to fate,
But is this my destiny?
To dance with shame,
And hide behind my own shadow.

Is there a pain in my heart?
Why don’t I feel a thing?
Isn’t it strange?
When my heart is crying out aloud.

Others call me a fool,
Why wait for someone who isn’t coming back to you?
But what do I have to lose,
Even if what they say was true.

What is the world coming to?
Is the sky falling?
Where is the sense?
Why does misery keeps showering on me?

Will you comfort me?
May I use your shoulder to cry on?
Where is my pillar?
Help me please,
My world is crushing down on me.



Broken Hearted

Slowly drifting away with the motion of the wind,
Please take me aimlessly into the shadow of the night.
I have no more dreams,
I have lost my will to breathe.

I do not want anybody’s pity,
Nor do I need you to shed a tear for my broken heart.
Please keep your dreams to yourself,
And allow me to wallow in my senseless thoughts.

I wondered for ages when this pain would cease,
The toil showed on my weathered skin,
And the painful images that kept taunting me.
You left me shattered,
Torn and without a dream.

You heard me scream,
My painful cries,
I called out loud,
But you pretended it was all just a dream.

No man felt the way like I did,
Only a beast would put me through this.
All the tears I shed,
You think I was a complete mess.

I begged you not to quit on me,
Why did you have to leave?
Where is your faith in our love?
Have all these years count for nothing my dear?

Why am I such a fool?
To think I have a fighting chance to be with you?
Am I blinded with insanity?
Or have I been worshipping you?

All the times we spent,
All the moments we shared,
All the dreams that we had,
Have they all vanished into thin air?

Why the hell were you with me?
When all these while you were holding the torch for him?
After so many years of waiting,
All you ever wanted was just to be with him.

Now you have your freedom,
You are free to go,
There are no shackles to your feet.
Don’t you worry,
I will be fine,
So please leave before I start to weep.

Watching you go is not the hardest thing to do.
But to stop loving you,
I rather you take my soul.
For all that I know,
I will never be the man who is growing old with you.



Look at me

How could you look into my eyes,
And tell me you no longer love me?
Are you crazy?
Or have I lost my mind?

How could our love end this way,
So sudden and cold,
You made me feel so lost,
I'm just a miserable soul.

Where is the love that we shared?
Bedtime moments that we had,
Stories that were told while hiding from the winter cold,
A prayer for two was whispered as we hugged like all sweet lovers do.

Now you are gone,
I'm out of your life,
Freedom that you have,
You are now walking on your own.

Where are you now?
Have you got nothing to say?
Silence is your game,
Ignorance is your strength.

[playboy82]

Originally Posted by Xdecepticon

My age. After so many years then she "discovered" I too old for her. Thats what made me pissed off.



This what I learnt. If you believe in God, dont pray that you would marry the girl you love most. Pray that if the girl you love most is suitable & compatible for you, then let her belong and marry to you.

Ya, and dun believe totally in fate too... Fate only play a part to a certain extend, its still up to individual to work hard on it to make it come true...

[Xdecepticon]

Originally Posted by playboy82

Ya, and dun believe totally in fate too... Fate only play a part to a certain extend, its still up to individual to work hard on it to make it come true...

Agreed! Fate is just one of those many excuses my ex used to tell me. Say she "if fated, we may reconcile again". Bunch of craps!

[StevenGerrard]

Originally Posted by Xdecepticon

Agreed! Fate is just one of those many excuses my ex used to tell me. Say she "if fated, we may reconcile again". Bunch of craps!

Yes..Just another lame excuse used by gals..
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[orgasmatron]

6 mths ago, my ex left me for a young punk. Just ended with an SMS. Impressive! She said time can heal...........she is really right...

When girls leave u, all kinds of loopholes that she find in u 2 mths prior to the DUMPing, will be magnified. she will use this same reason to make herself politically correct to leave u. Just to ease the guilt.....

Shame on them

[StevenGerrard]

Originally Posted by orgasmatron

6 mths ago, my ex left me for a young punk. Just ended with an SMS. Impressive! She said time can heal...........she is really right...

When girls leave u, all kinds of loopholes that she find in u 2 mths prior to the DUMPing, will be magnified. she will use this same reason to make herself politically correct to leave u. Just to ease the guilt.....

Shame on them

When gals wanna dump u,they can think of all sorts of reasons..Some being
totally ridiculous n unacceptable..

[no_faith]

Originally Posted by orgasmatron

6 mths ago, my ex left me for a young punk. Just ended with an SMS. Impressive! She said time can heal...........she is really right...

When girls leave u, all kinds of loopholes that she find in u 2 mths prior to the DUMPing, will be magnified. she will use this same reason to make herself politically correct to leave u. Just to ease the guilt.....

Shame on them

u rite there bro. they will also find reasons to ease their guilt to make them feel they are not wrong betraying me but i am wrong.
they also can find ridiculous reasons, sumting totally out of my mind to break off wif me.


the most strange thing is when couple broke up, why ppl always think the guys are @ fault first? it could be them mah.

[playboy82]

haiz.... think abt it also sad, how come nowadays, want to find a nice and decent gal to fall in love for also so so so difficult, all we get is wat? all those clubbing gals, if not then is the good gal is already attach .. or the gal " too busy" with sch work(as if i never study poly before, got so busy meh)...
Wat do we get... wat we get is all these cold treatment from gals...

At times in the lonely... i can't help but think, why am i so alone in this wolrd, everyone other than me seems to have a plan with their life, someone who will care and concern for them, accompany them... But all these simple little thing is just so far away from me.... Christmas is coming... i can't help but think, it will be another lonely christmas for me... haiz... What i feel sad is not abt the hard work and effort i put in, but is the sense of HELPLESSNESS, the feeling like no matter how much hard work and effort i put in, it will never work...
I really can't help but feel really helplessness, and can't seems to find anything else to do , other than my beer.....it had become my best buddy nowadays...

Maybe this century is the year of loneliness....

[Lubber]

Whether it exist or not, you got only one life. Live it to the fullest. Go do things you ain't do before, find some thrill and excitement. Why wanna let this 'true love' make you life feel so 'lonely'?

[DTCEPL]

Originally Posted by playboy82

At times in the lonely... i can't help but think, why am i so alone in this wolrd, everyone other than me seems to have a plan with their life, someone who will care and concern for them, accompany them... But all these simple little thing is just so far away from me.... Christmas is coming... i can't help but think, it will be another lonely christmas for me... haiz... What i feel sad is not abt the hard work and effort i put in, but is the sense of HELPLESSNESS, the feeling like no matter how much hard work and effort i put in, it will never work...
I really can't help but feel really helplessness, and can't seems to find anything else to do , other than my beer.....it had become my best buddy nowadays...

Maybe this century is the year of loneliness....

You can look up for me for a drink and chit chat bro, I am one lonely asshole too.

[FL Lover]

bro, true love does exitsts. Sometimes it takes a few knocks and turns in life to get to the right one. I have been several relationships before I married to my OC. I have never regret my decision since then.

Some bros complain that it is difficult to find the right one. True. Fate does play a part in it. But it is you who also need to put in hard work. GO and widen your social circle. Take part in more activities. Get to know more friends. Who knows your miss right is among there.

btw when i say abt widen your social circle, I do not mean getting to know MORE FLS and falling in love with them. Those are not true love. THOSE ARE KC TRAPS.

I have friends who have been unattached for a long time and suddenly find his miss right when his social circle widen through recommendations and meets.

Believe in what you do and results will show one day.

[no_faith]

Originally Posted by playboy82

haiz.... think abt it also sad, how come nowadays, want to find a nice and decent gal to fall in love for also so so so difficult, all we get is wat? all those clubbing gals, if not then is the good gal is already attach .. or the gal " too busy" with sch work...
Wat do we get... wat we get is all these cold treatment from gals...

At times in the lonely... i can't help but think, why am i so alone in this wolrd, everyone other than me seems to have a plan with their life........

bro, i tink i know how u feel.
as days passed, i slowly become more numb. everyday is juz another day.
so i gave up and took another path. love is dead.

[playboy82]

Originally Posted by no_faith

bro, i tink i know how u feel.
as days passed, i slowly become more numb. everyday is juz another day.
so i gave up and took another path. love is dead.

lol.. agree... when love is concern, singapore is a dead town... nothing survive in it..