Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by jackbl

Tick YES will go into office and ask question.... i kenna before. Was once rejected fr coming into sgp, so thou hv to tick yes... later found out that it is alright to tick NO.....

For your case, i think best is u go bring her back. Tick Yes and if kenna office, at least u are in airport to help her answer.

you mean you kana rejected for coming into Sillypore? ...
joke aside...

I am thinking of tick YES... so there is no false declaration. But will ICA be reasonable even if I go in office talk to them.

4 years ago, i did ever bring a viet gal to malaysia. When come back, she go office, I try to talk to the officer, he ask me to SHUT UP as he is asking the gal, not me. KNN... that is the last time i bring gal go U-turn liao..

[SingViet]

Just do what you think is most appropriate.

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by jackbl

later found out that it is alright to tick NO.....

What do u mean by it is alright to tick NO ?

[casannova03]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

this is a headache question... what if tick YES?
This means NO false declaration. But what is consequence?

what if tick NO?
This means false declaration and may affect future application on other matters right?

Bro, tick "YES"!!

Like Jack said, it better to go thru the process of interview than break any laws that will make your Gf harder to come here...

My Wife's friend also tick no.....end up they found out that she was deported before.

Charged for false declaration and end up in prison for 3 mths.

Dun play play with garment...

[jackbl]

The gal was rejected fr coming in, same as many many gals hv experienced before, so the next time she come, i tell her to tick NO. Later found out that only those who hv been deported needs to tick YES.

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

What do u mean by it is alright to tick NO ?

[excudus]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

you mean you kana rejected for coming into Sillypore? ...
joke aside...

I am thinking of tick YES... so there is no false declaration. But will ICA be reasonable even if I go in office talk to them.

4 years ago, i did ever bring a viet gal to malaysia. When come back, she go office, I try to talk to the officer, he ask me to SHUT UP as he is asking the gal, not me. KNN... that is the last time i bring gal go U-turn liao..

i was told by a fren who has frens having similiar issue whereby viet gfs was deported. After a year, they just get a ROM date and bring their gers into spore 2 wks before the ROM date, just show the documents to the airport officers and that's it, they are allowed to entry to ROM in spore. Of cos the officers will ask 'how u know each other' 'really here to get married' etc.. But no appeals to MP or ICA needed.

Is it true? Any bros here heard of any similiar case as above?

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by excudus

i was told by a fren who has frens having similiar issue whereby viet gfs was deported. After a year, they just get a ROM date and bring their gers into spore 2 wks before the ROM date, just show the documents to the airport officers and that's it, they are allowed to entry to ROM in spore. Of cos the officers will ask 'how u know each other' 'really here to get married' etc.. But no appeals to MP or ICA needed.

Is it true? Any bros here heard of any similiar case as above?

If its that easy, many bros with viet gfs will not be having headaches now

[JaViEr84]

can any bros here help me with the below . i do nt know wat it means.


Khong bit ngay mai ra sao nua?! ma co ra sao cung chang sao

my gal had been ignoring me for a week plus.. she say she will meet me if she feels ok.. in btw i did went to her house area and was discovered by her . she went back home .a while later ask me to go to her house downstairs she gave me a xmas present but quickly go back again. ask her wat happen she say next time then say. ask her to come out on xmas day she reject.. told her i got her a xmas gift also. she nvr say no need giv her but also nvr say when can giv her . just ask what is it. i am now very confused. not sure what it means now.

Previously on last sunday i think i pisss her off when we had some misunderstand(i am not able to lend her a promise amount for her to lend her friend in vn whose husband had 3rd stage cancer need op. i told her i can afford 70% of the promised amount as this yr govt bonus realli sucks) on sat and the next day i went to look for her at her workplace wait for her to knock off.. and she was drive crazy whenever i appear at her workplace..

[jackbl]

IMHO:If now she starts to get angry/sad/etc with money matters, i guess later u will hv more problem.... better avoid this gal.....

Originally Posted by JaViEr84

Previously on last sunday i think i pisss her off when we had some misunderstand(i am not able to lend her a promise amount for her to lend her friend in vn whose husband had 3rd stage cancer need op. i told her i can afford 70% of the promised amount as this yr govt bonus realli sucks) on sat and the next day i went to look for her at her workplace wait for her to knock off.. and she was drive crazy whenever i appear at her workplace..

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by JaViEr84

Previously on last sunday i think i pisss her off when we had some misunderstand(i am not able to lend her a promise amount for her to lend her friend in vn whose husband had 3rd stage cancer need op. i told her i can afford 70% of the promised amount as this yr govt bonus realli sucks) on sat and the next day i went to look for her at her workplace wait for her to knock off.. and she was drive crazy whenever i appear at her workplace..

The above is a common ruse...dun fell for it...there is no such thing as free loan because all loan comes with 15% interest per month.

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by JaViEr84

can any bros here help me with the below . i do nt know wat it means.

Very difficult to understand your english... but can say 1 sentence. "Forget abt her, why make yourself look like an idiot infront of a woman?"

One day cancer, next day another way to rip u off.

[JaViEr84]

Originally Posted by jackbl

IMHO:If now she starts to get angry/sad/etc with money matters, i guess later u will hv more problem.... better avoid this gal.....

what is IMHO?

I am going through a thinking period of cool down before making decision. but the xmas present i bought i dun feel like keeping i do not know how to pass to her. she is upset and disspointed at me not keeping my promise in the lending $$ part , furious at me for going to her workplace make her lose face when she try to avoid me by exiting another exit n i saw it i ran to that exit. let her colleagues saw it. she say make her colleagues misunderstand think she did something wrong.. and after that she went home all the way keep silent not even talk to me when i told her i can spare afew hundred bucks more.. in the end she jus say she will think whether to lend from me agaion. ask me to bank to my a/c first. (she had a supplementary atm card to my a/c.) in the end she still broorow . then the next incident was on the fri she caught me going to her house park without her knowledge (i did not expect to see her . i even message her but no reply . i jus want to go there n sit duno y).. up till now she nvr message me nor reply my message.. from yesterday till now i forced my self not to message her.. heart really shattered... now i am just not sure what she want to do bout us.. if dun wan me y not tell me straight , y buy xmas gift , still wear the jacket i gave her to pass me the present but still dun want to talk to me in person . so confusing

[JaViEr84]

oh sorry.. English all short form. what i mean is .. can any bros help me to translate the below .

Khong bit ngay mai ra sao nua?! ma co ra sao cung chang sao

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by JaViEr84

what is IMHO?

.. and after that she went home all the way keep silent not even talk to me when i told her i can spare afew hundred bucks more.. in the end she jus say she will think whether to lend from me agaion. ask me to bank to my a/c first. (she had a supplementary atm card to my a/c.) in the end she still broorow . then the next incident was on the fri she caught me going to her house park without her knowledge (i did not expect to see her . i even message her but no reply . i jus want to go there n sit duno y).. up till now she nvr message me nor reply my message.. from yesterday till now i forced my self not to message her.. heart really shattered... now i am just not sure what she want to do bout us.. if dun wan me y not tell me straight , y buy xmas gift , still wear the jacket i gave her to pass me the present but still dun want to talk to me in person . so confusing

I remember briefly your past story now...anyway you had already created a first for almost everything....so really nothing I can advise you about anymore...it's all very messy affair...


IMHO - in my humble opinion...

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by casannova03

Bro, tick "YES"!!

Dun play play with garment...

Thanks... my intention as well.

Originally Posted by excudus

After a year, they just get a ROM date and bring their gers into spore 2 wks before the ROM date, just show the documents to the airport officers and that's it

If this is 1 of my option, I will not be having headache liao...
too bad, I do not have such option yet.

Thanks anyway...