Safe to travel alone with PRC GF back to China?

[otur]

Originally Posted by hoho99

Hi Bro, are you based in china? Wah peifu peifu, only thinking of chatting this qq girl up, but end up calling her everyday. Now..... Haiz, playing with fire only got my finger burnt. (Lucky pocket not burnt)

哈哈，i dun basd in china la. infact many samster here noe me in person. i just go for vacation occasionally nia.

[porscheclub]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

With the blessings from bro Azarro, here's what's goin on.

Bro, thanks for keeping us updated & yes I've met your sifu as well.

Fortuneteller is well, believe it or not but never trust it 110% IMHO. I am a firm believer of fengshui but never let it rule my head, it's never too good to see too deep into the future. Even your Sifu warned me, he can only say certain tips, knowing too much will in fact make things happen & my own sifu once said. It's very bad for their own karma as they're revealing "Heaven's secret" but she's the chosen one.

Anyway, your Sifu told me to let go. I'm like filling the ocean with soil. My gal will never appreciate what I do for her. He was right on a few notes before I even revealed much & I guess both he & I could read each other's mind a little as well. However, what my gal did for me is far more than what any other gals have done for me so I have to judge for myself.

I have to state that my gal is different from some of the situations here as she's not a FL or whatever but like any other normal gal you'd find here or someone you met over gatherings. I've been with her for 6 months, we've travelled together several times. She keeps my valuables & I put her up in a rented apartment so she did what a wife would eg. cooking, washing etc.

I've to take her as any other normal gal I'm dating, cos both of you will feel very painful & highly suspicious if u keep harping on the pass. I've looked pass her PRC status (if you travel, you'll realize that love transcends borders) & China is a growing powerhouse, our little island is seriously nothing more than a tiny city there. They will become educated, cultured, wealthy and sometime in future our kids will want to be married there & be proud as a Chinese.

I know some of you guys will say the KC trap thing, the cooked stories, the banded family & friends etc. & I've been through some of those.

I've already taken a walk on the wild side, just pray that all turns out well.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Bro PorcheClub, you're rite...never let wat is read to you dictate what you do....to me, it's just a guide to be used...not a ruling...
As for what my sifu told you about the soil and the ocean thingy....well, u shud take it as a friend warning you to be more alert and careful.
Harping on the past with anyone not just WLs...will always lead to misery.....that i agree wif you 110%
But what is most worrying is what is going on PRESENT that you r not aware of.....coupled wif the belief or trust that my gal is diff, never like the others, that kinda thing.
Nope, I aint saying she's playing you but I trust my sifu.
Now look at it this way....if my sifu said drop cos of watever reason, do listen. If it's a clear green light then go...No & again, he does not dictate cos you make your own decision...again, what he says is a guide for you to note.

See, my 2nd & third mistresses also went there, he came out with a conclusion, meant to be, will bring you more wealth and their life will follow your line...loyalty blah blah......to date, as posted earlier...swee swee. Once the last one came in....told me fated but drop..many time visit him still say drop......i actually told him what you posted...not like other gals blah blah...dun do WL and so on...well he just smiled....when all ended...went to visit him again...and like i posted...he said fated.......so if you heed his advise, then wats destined may be diverted but if you dun...then await wats destined...........

Good luck on your choice bro, wishing u all the best.....if you need a friend, I'm here for ya....can meet in LP if you want to even...hehehehe

[glooper83]

Originally Posted by azzaro23

To all bros out there,

Seeking advice from those who have traveled back to China alone with their PRC WL which they know in Singapore.

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Damn, why is this sbf threads all talking about the issues i had. I was also head over heels with this girl and had wanted to travel back to china with her. For me, it would be like a vacation to get to know her better and see what she is like. Luckily i snapped out of my self delusion in time and brought myself back to solid ground. I hope that you have. Cheers and good luck !

[aczeta76]

Wondering is Bro Azzaro is "recovered" liao...

[starbliz]

hmm think twice

[Darkstorm]

Originally Posted by glooper83

Damn, why is this sbf threads all talking about the issues i had. I was also head over heels with this girl and had wanted to travel back to china with her. For me, it would be like a vacation to get to know her better and see what she is like. Luckily i snapped out of my self delusion in time and brought myself back to solid ground. I hope that you have. Cheers and good luck !

How do you know your girl is not for real?

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by glooper83

Damn, why is this sbf threads all talking about the issues i had. I was also head over heels with this girl and had wanted to travel back to china with her. For me, it would be like a vacation to get to know her better and see what she is like. Luckily i snapped out of my self delusion in time and brought myself back to solid ground. I hope that you have. Cheers and good luck !

Actually, it wud have been good if you really went back wif her. C for yourself what kinda person she is in her own world and the kind of people she mixes with. Not forgetting her lifestyle, her family, where she likes to go etc...this will actually give you a very clear picture of the person liao........

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

Wondering is Bro Azzaro is "recovered" liao...

Well, i believe he will make an appearance later to give his latest update...hehe...he is now recovering and has stopped all ctcs with that gal liao.......
Ooi Azzarro, audiance waiting for your FR from hell to back...faster lei!!!!!!

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Well, i believe he will make an appearance later to give his latest update...hehe...he is now recovering and has stopped all ctcs with that gal liao.......
Ooi Azzarro, audiance waiting for your FR from hell to back...faster lei!!!!!!

Good for him... cheerios

[glooper83]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Actually, it wud have been good if you really went back wif her. C for yourself what kinda person she is in her own world and the kind of people she mixes with. Not forgetting her lifestyle, her family, where she likes to go etc...this will actually give you a very clear picture of the person liao........

Erm.. i would have. If not for the long waiting queue for the visa to enter china

Anywayz, its just infatuation on my part la. The girl never said anything like she like me or what. So i am just treating her as an "unusual" friend.

But yeh, i would like to keep in touch with her and perhaps visit her in china to absorb myself in their culture and so on. The best tour guide is a local anyway.

Anyway i do believe like what many bros have said, this time spent in Sg is meant to be forgotten once they return to china. So my intention of visiting her would be purely for travelling purposes.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Anyway i do believe like what many bros have said, this time spent in Sg is meant to be forgotten once they return to china. So my intention of visiting her would be purely for travelling purposes.
I luv your replies.....always make me laugh....just need to paint such a noble pic of yourself at all times....ya ya...i believe you...WHOLE HEARTEDLY...hahahahaha upz u dude

[colins]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Anyway i do believe like what many bros have said, this time spent in Sg is meant to be forgotten once they return to china. So my intention of visiting her would be purely for travelling purposes.
I luv your replies.....always make me laugh....just need to paint such a noble pic of yourself at all times....ya ya...i believe you...WHOLE HEARTEDLY...hahahahaha upz u dude

Deh bro DYBJ, what if all of us are actually just simple home dwellers, wifeless, kidless, career-less, cashless but all pretending up to be the cheongster we always want to, but never are. One bro speak of this before - strip off everything, we become we are in cyberspace.

Like your explanation for the HFJ, the only one whom the guys hang flowers on, is actually themselves. The girls are just representations and excuses.

But I do like bro gloopers as well, and I actually do believe him. No need to be really honest, but at least be frank la. If our comments do not really depict ourselves, this forum will be damn stressful to all of us dude. Cheers man!

[glooper83]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Anyway i do believe like what many bros have said, this time spent in Sg is meant to be forgotten once they return to china. So my intention of visiting her would be purely for travelling purposes.
I luv your replies.....always make me laugh....just need to paint such a noble pic of yourself at all times....ya ya...i believe you...WHOLE HEARTEDLY...hahahahaha upz u dude

Thx bro for the points.. Although I sense some suaning hahaz

I mean that if i do visit her, obviously i wunt bring up the past or initiate anything if she has tried to forget about it and has moved on. I'll just treat her like a normal friend i met in Sg lor. Ultimately, if i have urges dun need to buy 1 air ticket just to relieve it mah.. More imptly, in the land of 1.3bil people, i wunt be so hard up for her bah.

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by glooper83

I mean that if i do visit her,

If the ger in your avatar is her, u dun visit, pls pass to me. I will apply visa tmr n fly over asap.