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01-07-2008, 11:48 AM
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Re: Safe to travel alone with PRC GF back to China?
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07-07-2008, 09:28 PM
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Re: Safe to travel alone with PRC GF back to China?
Bro DO YOU BJ:
Kudos to you for being so frank and willing to share your life experience! Hope that you would be able to share your sifu's contact with me someday as there are some things in my life which I wish to clear up  -------------- Bro azzaro23: My best wishes to you and the situation you are in. Unless one has actually been in the situation you are in, the person would never understand the anguish you are going through. Go ahead and grief - but the main thing is to keep busy on other activities so that you do NOT have time to think so much about the PRC gf. The main thing I would say, is that you should just come forth and have a heart-to-heart talk with your gf. If you have any doubts, just ask and clarify. No need to think the worst BUT expect the worst, she may have a proper reason for whatever she is doing. Otherwise, just enjoy the time you have with her! Best regards.
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10-07-2008, 02:12 PM
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10-07-2008, 02:22 PM
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#605
11-07-2008, 05:23 AM
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Yes, he met wif my sifu & he's somewhat enlightened........ Again, I am penning this down not to gain attention but for others who may be in the same situation now or in future to use this as a case study for themselves . The sifu said the usual stuff about Azarro which he's heard before but one thing WOKE him up big time....you're her 贵人and she has nothing wat so ever for you....meaning she's in a win win situation whereas bro Azarro is in the loose loose.......money & feelings Of cos, it was hard to swallow but bro Azarro was so taken aback by this that after he walked out from my sifu's place, he was so motivated & gave his PRC chick a call. Telling her some story which i suggested earlier on....that his company is gonna re-structure and he may loose his job.........well, her reaction shocked him....."You will be able to find a job soon!" That's all she said....no comforting or supportive words etc....again, these words are from his mouth..... Sadly, exactly the next day, he was called into his boss's room, and was SACKED! Bro Azarro lost his job........so his current status is unemployed.........he was upset as first but after i told him to pint the finger inwards instead of out...he understood....he was so obsessed with her he kinda neglected his work. When he received this news, guess he nearly flipped and thus called me....I went to meet him immediately and brought him straight to my sifu again....that's the 1st time we met. It was this round that my sifu started to say things...in a strong tone...something i've never seen before after knowing him for so long.......telling bro azarro that he's not the only guy & she's using them all as purse strings....best part, after loosing his job, he called her to tell her wat happened and all she could say is she'll call him later that nite cos she busy playing mahjong then????????WTF!!!!!!!! Azzarro is not a player....like me...as per my sifu's own mouth, thus for him, this KC trap is very dangerous for him.....he must withdraw...he cant outwit & out strategize this PRC. She is way above his league but the signs are so strong, yet he refuses to acknowledge them....poor dude....so smitten. He made bro Azarro do some ritual stuff so as to measure his QI and was reported as very low and weak......but watever happens, he must break his own spell, no one or no rituals can help bro Azarro Well, as bro azarro is so in luv wif her, he seems to be very able to forgive her for everything.....but its things like that that will slowly bite into him.......good...an awakening We talk quite often.........have not met since....but am still encouraging him as much as i can..... He's on sleeping pills now....expected but they've not separated.......he says he cant take the cold turkey treatment and wants to let go slowly...well its his choice but i respect it. Bottomline, what any mortal can do for bro azarro, like my sifu said, have already been done....especially from a stranger, me. Quote my sifu....some people, head bang wall, know pain will learn....some people knock wall till skull break & bleed to death still cant learn....have passed this on to bro azarro & it's all in his hands...my sifu used the term like he kenna "GONG TAO" from her.......not in the literal sense but as good as.......at the end of the day, it's all up to bro azarro......he already knows what's he's in for....current & future......but then again...it's his call....he controls his own life.......i told him i will be there for him as & when he needs a friend.......but that's the most i can do for him.
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#606
11-07-2008, 06:16 AM
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Safe to travel alone with PRC GF back to China ????
Well.......... This depends on individual. I cannot really address as I do not know the gal personnally. Being with the gal sometimes that is why called GF. We need to judge ourselves as how much you trust her. Don't go if you don.t trust her and do not called her your GF also. I travel with my PRC GF back to China and go to the place where she stay alone. I even ask her to keep my passport or vice versa due to pocket full during the trip So this is individual decision Above is my personal point of view and there is no right or wrong, 
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#607
11-07-2008, 08:12 AM
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All said I know of a senior bro here who after QQ with ger fm SZ for just one week and already arrange to fly over for 1 week holiday with the ger
 that was 6 mths back, and he already planning 3rd trip there in Oct ...
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11-07-2008, 09:25 AM
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#609
11-07-2008, 10:24 AM
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Well... at least he is coping with it.
Good to hear that.. good luck to all and please keep your career separated from your love life hoh.. Be professional.
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11-07-2008, 02:16 PM
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11-07-2008, 03:32 PM
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11-07-2008, 11:59 PM
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12-07-2008, 12:05 AM
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12-07-2008, 05:43 AM
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12-07-2008, 06:35 PM
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Re: Safe to travel alone with PRC GF back to China?
Bro Azzaro23,
i guess u r quite young in age, less than 40 years. My only advice to you after seeing that our kind bro Do_U_BJ had already done so much to help him up, is to go out with your friends or cheong kakis to places like pubs or ktv where there are many other ladies their.. drink and chat with those pub or ktv girls there may helps you recover faster and at the same time expose yourself to know more ladies.. do it fast, and hope u recover well..
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