Anyone tried picking up ML after work or off hours?

[whackithard]

What’s the point ? Pick up after her work and smelling other ppl lanjiao in her mouth and Pussy ? Doesn’t make u a loser ?

[Newsasap]

Originally Posted by amox

very interesting replies and experiences shared by all the bros here. i thought I'd chime in with my own experiences too, and this has been what works for me multiple times over the last 15 or so years.

i go to a MP, meet a ML that I kinda enjoy being with and who also enjoys being with me. maybe we can do FJ in the MP, maybe not, depending on the joint. sometimes the familiarity triumphs over the particular service.

then if i feel there's some chemistry going on, I ask for her number. i never text them for chit chat or share whatsapp forwarded messages, mostly opening with whether she's working or not, and eventually asking very openly if she wants to meet outside (even during the working hours). many times the ML will tell me to book her out, pay for 2 hours of her time, and we go to a nearby hotel. sure, it may not be the most cost efficient, but a lot more relaxed and fun than being in the MP. never had a bad session (by then you already know her and she already knows what you want/like). I always insist on paying (market rate), even if/when she insist to not receive payment.

but i guess my motive and objective is purely transactional. i'm not looking for a relationship or a gf. depends on what the goal is.

A lot of ladies are doing this to fetch side income, is only many people are not aware of it and still many thinks massage ladies are there for massage only.

[Linnie]

Originally Posted by lonelyfish

I believe this can also happen to any girl local or otherwise. So it makes no difference whether it is a ML or not. A ML is probably an easier target for bros to make their move since you can start intimate acts on her during the sessions. But there are plenty of MLs around and you can try picking those lone ML hoping that they are neglected and be the one (or few) to satisfy her needs.

I especially like your part "no difference whether it is a ML or not".
I have the same mindset. To me all is human, same shit.

[Linnie]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Women not like men lah. They can go without intercourse for a period of time.
Big player throw big amount of money to bed a ML. Heard stories of throwing $2K-$3K as a proposal to overnight the ML. Big player got big pool of ML to choose.
Small player will need build rapport, be the selected ones to make the ML comfortable to open leg. Thus bobian, need slowly unlock
Ever got ML tell me that if she want to anyhow spread leg, she will just go work in those FJ joint already. Why would she work in CAT 1 joint. The key work is "anyhow spread"

As long as money can purchase sex from this person, she is a prostitute. $3k, $1k or $50 all same = prostitute. $3k you most likely also can afford but just unwilling to pay the price.

[lonelyfish]

Originally Posted by amox

i go to a MP, meet a ML that I kinda enjoy being with and who also enjoys being with me. maybe we can do FJ in the MP, maybe not, depending on the joint. sometimes the familiarity triumphs over the particular service.

then if i feel there's some chemistry going on, I ask for her number. i never text them for chit chat or share whatsapp forwarded messages, mostly opening with whether she's working or not, and eventually asking very openly if she wants to meet outside (even during the working hours). many times the ML will tell me to book her out, pay for 2 hours of her time, and we go to a nearby hotel. sure, it may not be the most cost efficient, but a lot more relaxed and fun than being in the MP. never had a bad session (by then you already know her and she already knows what you want/like). I always insist on paying (market rate), even if/when she insist to not receive payment.

but i guess my motive and objective is purely transactional. i'm not looking for a relationship or a gf. depends on what the goal is.

I don't want to FJ in the MP. Unless we are doing it raw, I'm going to take a long time which will become a problem. I've ever thought of just paying for her time and take her out, but since we already built chemistry, she agreed to have overnights in my extra room after work hours, why not? Don't even need to pay the shop for the massage or hotel fees. The overall cost is still less than a short time at GL PRC.

I'm single and have nothing to lose. If she's willing, I don't mind to develop the relationship. It can probably improve the feel and might even cost lesser. If she can move to a MP near to me, I might let out the room to her with conditions, benefits to her living expenses and gives me the convenience to have her all the time.

[lonelyfish]

Originally Posted by Linnie

I especially like your part "no difference whether it is a ML or not".
I have the same mindset. To me all is human, same shit.

I see several of my friends ended up in divorce because their wife slept around. Ever since I start going around and bed girls locally and overseas, I threw the thoughts of them sleeping around out of the window. I don't think the lone MLs slept around with guys more than us with girls. WLs definitely yes, but lone MLs probably no. Most of the time, they just HJ, I don't care about their HJ counts and I've probably roam more girls than the number of guys roaming her.

That's why my summary, no difference.

[Linnie]

Originally Posted by lonelyfish

I see several of my friends ended up in divorce because their wife slept around. Ever since I start going around and bed girls locally and overseas, I threw the thoughts of them sleeping around out of the window. I don't think the lone MLs slept around with guys more than us with girls. WLs definitely yes, but lone MLs probably no. Most of the time, they just HJ, I don't care about their HJ counts and I've probably roam more girls than the number of guys roaming her.

That's why my summary, no difference.

I like your chill and positive rationality in looking at yourself and the world. Very cool mindset. Your ride with the ML will be a breeze, enjoy.

[lonelyfish]

Originally Posted by Linnie

I like your chill and positive rationality in looking at yourself and the world. Very cool mindset. Your ride with the ML will be a breeze, enjoy.

Sometimes we can't just look one-sided. Are we that clean lol?. I think we sleeping around the world is worse than her simply HJ / roaming and the occasional FJ (if any).

[re3ken]

Originally Posted by amox

very interesting replies and experiences shared by all the bros here. i thought I'd chime in with my own experiences too, and this has been what works for me multiple times over the last 15 or so years.

i go to a MP, meet a ML that I kinda enjoy being with and who also enjoys being with me. maybe we can do FJ in the MP, maybe not, depending on the joint. sometimes the familiarity triumphs over the particular service.

then if i feel there's some chemistry going on, I ask for her number. i never text them for chit chat or share whatsapp forwarded messages, mostly opening with whether she's working or not, and eventually asking very openly if she wants to meet outside (even during the working hours). many times the ML will tell me to book her out, pay for 2 hours of her time, and we go to a nearby hotel. sure, it may not be the most cost efficient, but a lot more relaxed and fun than being in the MP. never had a bad session (by then you already know her and she already knows what you want/like). I always insist on paying (market rate), even if/when she insist to not receive payment.

but i guess my motive and objective is purely transactional. i'm not looking for a relationship or a gf. depends on what the goal is.

So bro, how much you usually spent after added up all the cost ?

[amox]

Originally Posted by re3ken

So bro, how much you usually spent after added up all the cost ?

hotel + 2 hour massage (probably $100?) + tip (at your discretion)

[fullmetallice]

I only visited this ml twice, we chatted a bit during session. She touch my abs and asked me if i go to gym when in reality im just skinny ass dude, so thats why my abs is visible. Met her a 1 month amd a half later for a 2nd time and she still remember me. I’ll always booked her around 8.00pm.Next session she asked me take the last slot with her before the shop close. I wonder if there is any special. Any bro have experienced this before?

[fullmetallice]

I only visited this ml twice, we chatted a bit during session. She touch my abs and asked me if i go to gym when in reality im just skinny ass dude, so thats why my abs is visible. Met her a 1 month amd a half later for a 2nd time and she still remember me. I’ll always booked her around 8.00pm.Next session she asked me take the last slot with her before the shop close. I wonder if there is any special. Any bro have experienced this before?

[pistoncrosshead]

Originally Posted by lonelyfish

Sometimes we can't just look one-sided. Are we that clean lol?. I think we sleeping around the world is worse than her simply HJ / roaming and the occasional FJ (if any).

Cannot agree more..

[wahhero]

I have this regular who will on and off ask me out after she finished her work to hotel or dinner...sometimes on her off day, will also jio me go hotel...I think they also want to have some love love showered on them...to me not so commercialised as never ask for money...but better draw a line just in case...do enjoy while it last

[loneyheart]

Originally Posted by fullmetallice

I only visited this ml twice, we chatted a bit during session. She touch my abs and asked me if i go to gym when in reality im just skinny ass dude, so thats why my abs is visible. Met her a 1 month amd a half later for a 2nd time and she still remember me. I’ll always booked her around 8.00pm.Next session she asked me take the last slot with her before the shop close. I wonder if there is any special. Any bro have experienced this before?

Don't ask bro just go wo expectation then u will be in heaven