Dummies Guide to hooking up Sweet local Girls.

[X_plorer]

Originally Posted by old_yet_horny

Ermm... After reading so many different opinions form Bros here, I would ike to share mine...

SYT (Non WL type) likes:

1) Looks.... (Like F4 type or Boy Band 168 type with 6 pack not beer belly)

2) Cars... (Sports car at least a Honda Integra or WRX not Camry or Cefiro)

3) Money... (They dun mind Platinum Card but cash is still best)

4) Personality/ Character (Can click with them and share the same bo liao topic)

Forget about getting properties and showing off to them your assets... They simply can't be bothered... They are too young to understand what is the value of property... Give them another 4 to 5 years, they will pay attention to how much liabilities and true assets you have.

Bro Old_Yet_Horny,

I agree with you but i would say that for looks, no one can change unless go for cosmetic surgeon.

For cars - if you know how to buy/sell, you might be driving for free. I own a sports coupe (Convertible) myself when i was 23. But the car was free and i still earn after deducting all expenses when i sell it off.. Of course opportunity doesn't always knocks on you. But driving a old car with full modification will also do, of course outlook dun be too ah beng, it can be quite tiong look and the car must be fast enough. Because you can tell them that what for drives a WRX, Integra whereas they can't even beat my car.. But of course for me, i still perfer comfort cars, that why i'm changing from tiong cars to normal sedan. More comfortable..

Card / Cash - I think cash would be the best. But you can have cash but no need to spent if off. I've tried before using card and cash as a comparison and research. You can have a platimum card or whatever card you have, and you sign and sign at a high class restaurant, high end boutique. The gal might only think you are a big spender. But if you bring $3- $5K in your pocket, but bringing her to hawker centre or coffee shop with good food, eg like Punggol Nasi lemak Centre. The gal will still think you are rich, and at the end of the day.. Your money is still in your pocket.. Expensive food is not always the best, but nice foods which you consume in regards of the price birghtens up your day. There are so many places with good foods and the price is not expensive at all. And if you wana save even more, go to Malaysia lor.. Even more good food with lowest price. Eating till you bust your stomach and it will never go beyong S$100 for 2 person, and still can save a bit on your petrol.

Personality / Character - You can change a bit intially but shows your tail in the end. Depends on the gal also. If the gal is really your dream gal and she is good to be your future wife. So what is you really change a bit for her but of course change to the better.

[Orgasmic]

Originally Posted by lacoruna69

Hi Bro,
You started off this thread well. But it had de-generated into a 'Dummies Guide To Increasing Your Wealth'.
What about the claim that 'you can still up girls despite not having the wealth factor'???
I think most Bros are interested in your experiences on this score.
Any 3 year old will know hooking up gals is easier if you have the $. Please tell us something different.

Hey dont be surprised some rich man kids just got a big problem with hooking up girls u know.

Despite not havin the wealth factors, I have managed to up girls obviously but its more of a very " PROACTIVE" APPROACH to it.

You really had to waste a lot of time to get them to bed. Serious. Lucky nowadys we have those msn, irc, sms etc tools to speed up the communication and to allow us to say things which we wouldnt otherwise say in person ( face to face )

If you really GOT NO money, try to get close to the girl. Be consistently around her life. Some girls can be really bored. You target this category. Once they are used to your presence, they will automatically cling onto you. Dont hurry them into sex unless they are as horny as u. All these, use your experience and 6th sense. Dont go hugging or kissing a gal first time u met her if not u will find yourself in changi soon.

Relax, strategise your methods and ways to hook them up. talk to them over the phone or sms to test waters.Make it a HABIT.. so that they will be USED to your presence. Once u find that they are auto contacting u daily, bingo, dont contact them for one or two days. It makes them itchy for your presence. Then suddenly contact them and before u know it, she is hooked to u.

Another major factor to consider if u got no $ is really to learn how to be humurous. Girls can accept that u are poor because they think that You may STILL become rich in the future, esp those straight As boys or NSFs boy. We cant blame u for being poor because u are not even working.

A great sense of humour is important. The ability to make a girl laugh, to feel at ease with u. Dont be shy. Girls dont like guys who are shy. Girls love to be tackled, they love to be in the company of winners or jokers because they feel fun to be with them.

If I ask u to be with someone whose face is dull and sulky the whole day, would u? Its the same with gals.

Open up. Talk more and learn to joke around. Sometimes, this is in-born. Some guys are great jokers and they simply appeal to girls and attract girls to them.

[lacoruna69]

Originally Posted by Orgasmic

Once u find that they are auto contacting u daily, bingo, dont contact them for one or two days. It makes them itchy for your presence. Then suddenly contact them and before u know it, she is hooked to u.

Open up. Talk more and learn to joke around. Sometimes, this is in-born. Some guys are great jokers and they simply appeal to girls and attract girls to them.

Very true indeed. I believed this is how Mark Lee (the comedian) got to hook his air stewardess wife.

You might want to share some real life case studies so shy Bros here can emulate. Keep it up!

[colins]

Originally Posted by Orgasmic

If you really GOT NO money, try to get close to the girl. Be consistently around her life. Some girls can be really bored. You target this category. Once they are used to your presence, they will automatically cling onto you. Dont hurry them into sex unless they are as horny as u. All these, use your experience and 6th sense. Dont go hugging or kissing a gal first time u met her if not u will find yourself in changi soon.

Hey, these are very good ideas. Put them to work and it almost works everytime for me. cheers!

[drahcir]

Ya, i fully agreed that you can target homely gal & spend a lot of time with them. These type of gal normally dun have a lot of attitude, juz make them get use to u. Friendly speaking, it is a strictly demand vs supply issue, so dun go to club to hunt unless u are really rich or handsome. The ratio of gal vs boy there is very low.

[Orgasmic]

Originally Posted by lacoruna69

Very true indeed. I believed this is how Mark Lee (the comedian) got to hook his air stewardess wife.

You might want to share some real life case studies so shy Bros here can emulate. Keep it up!

real life incidents?

I am now fucking around with one stewardness who is married. She wasnt my type and i wastn her type. chatted over phone etc for more than one year before both of us decided to bring it further. of course, here and there got dirty talk but thats just all. and we do meet up for those normal exhibitions or shows etc and nothing more than that.

now hooked on it. she keeps calling me every other day till i am pissed cos i gota wife.

[Orgasmic]

Originally Posted by colins

Hey, these are very good ideas. Put them to work and it almost works everytime for me. cheers!

yes, but of course u need some time though. no money never mind but time to talk to them.. normal chats msn, sms, online, phone etc. just to make sure she got hooked to u.

there is such thing as love not in the first sight. haha

[HughGrant]

aiya, need so much effort to hook up SYT. Also have to appear to be presentable and be on best behavoiur all the time. some more no guarantee of success. for me, i dont have the time or bothered to do all this. I want to hook up with SYT, just call the OKT. $200 or so and the SYT does all she can to please me, i no need to try at all.

[Supermanx1]

Originally Posted by HughGrant

aiya, need so much effort to hook up SYT. Also have to appear to be presentable and be on best behavoiur all the time. some more no guarantee of success. for me, i dont have the time or bothered to do all this. I want to hook up with SYT, just call the OKT. $200 or so and the SYT does all she can to please me, i no need to try at all.

it different. fishing for trill

[drahcir]

Ya. Hunting instinct, inside man. Sometime, it taste sweeter when u have to try harder. Dun be lazy, defeat the lazy part of you.

[colins]

Originally Posted by Orgasmic

yes, but of course u need some time though. no money never mind but time to talk to them.. normal chats msn, sms, online, phone etc. just to make sure she got hooked to u.

there is such thing as love not in the first sight. haha

Yeah, thats the slow and steady way, needs patience. I found that if you use this method, even after the bedding part, you can still remain friends with her. And they will treat you well as a close friend.

I dun think there's love at first sight, but I believe that when a girl sees you, she'll assess you and judge you to be either a 'possible' or an 'impossible'. The impossibles will always be given second priority, and guys branded under the 'impossible' usually suffers a lot if they like the girl. So I guess, there is still an element to consider when you make the first impression.

[siangsiang]

interesting thread u started bro orgasmic...

and to wat other bros have said... I think it's all abt striking a balance...

I'm turning 34... driving a nice Audi coupe... stay in my own private property home... I do lotsa holidays... single... but with a 'gf' in shanghai, beijing, tokyo, and san francisco... life is not too bad.

i'm not borned with a silver spoon. i started part time work when I was 14. But i'm fortunate to have things worked out my way.

how to get gals? 2 types of category.

1. u have money
a. be generous.. not extravagent. I dont buy gals drinks... but when we go for a date... I buy them a nice dinner... and then adjournb to my place.
b. bring them for holidays. anywhere overseas means u have a 80% chance of landing in their pants since they are comfy enuf to go away with u alone.
c. never spoil the gals. dun look desperate.
d. and all the rest below.

2. u have some money
a. be humourous... make them laugh... if u r an alpha-male, u will stand out in a crowd. if u r not... single dates will be better.
b. dress well.
c. dun be a slob... work out.. yes we are not all toms and brads... but we can do something to our bods...
d. compliment a gal... and throw in the occasional dirty lines to let them know that u r fun...
e. be a gentleman
f. know how to enjoy life to ur own means.

3. u have NO money...
a. yes... but i have 2 hands!

will share my sexploits next time... and oh... i only like pretty and slim gals... i am very shallow.

[Enstein]

Originally Posted by drahcir

Ya. Hunting instinct, inside man. Sometime, it taste sweeter when u have to try harder. Dun be lazy, defeat the lazy part of you.

Ya, agree bro. Forbidden food or food that is harder to get always seems to taste better.

[Orgasmic]

Hi,

I started off working by walking 20km a day. No joke. Some brainless foreign worker job. Now at least okay with own few offices and factories and nice vehicles to use.

Yes a few things u mentioned in which I very much agree with you.

1. Dont appear desperate. If not gals will get cocky and try to play hard to get. Esp true for singapore gals.

2. Compliment the gals. yes. You just have to say good things about them. Who wont like to hear good things about themselves? Make the gal feel special. Make her feel that u appreciate. Then she will start noticing u.

3. be humourous. girls simply love hanging around with guys who can crack jokes. They just dont like a guy who is quiet at one corner.

Originally Posted by siangsiang

interesting thread u started bro orgasmic...

and to wat other bros have said... I think it's all abt striking a balance...

I'm turning 34... driving a nice Audi coupe... stay in my own private property home... I do lotsa holidays... single... but with a 'gf' in shanghai, beijing, tokyo, and san francisco... life is not too bad.

i'm not borned with a silver spoon. i started part time work when I was 14. But i'm fortunate to have things worked out my way.

how to get gals? 2 types of category.

1. u have money
a. be generous.. not extravagent. I dont buy gals drinks... but when we go for a date... I buy them a nice dinner... and then adjournb to my place.
b. bring them for holidays. anywhere overseas means u have a 80% chance of landing in their pants since they are comfy enuf to go away with u alone.
c. never spoil the gals. dun look desperate.
d. and all the rest below.

2. u have some money
a. be humourous... make them laugh... if u r an alpha-male, u will stand out in a crowd. if u r not... single dates will be better.
b. dress well.
c. dun be a slob... work out.. yes we are not all toms and brads... but we can do something to our bods...
d. compliment a gal... and throw in the occasional dirty lines to let them know that u r fun...
e. be a gentleman
f. know how to enjoy life to ur own means.

3. u have NO money...
a. yes... but i have 2 hands!

will share my sexploits next time... and oh... i only like pretty and slim gals... i am very shallow.

[salla6ue]

Originally Posted by Orgasmic

3. be humourous. girls simply love hanging around with guys who can crack jokes. They just dont like a guy who is quiet at one corner.

it's good to be humourous but overdo it, else u'll be taken as a clown and the gal will not take u seriously. also if u're not good in cracking jokes, don't just keep going and going. u'll end up boring the gal. learn to read signals from the gal. sometimes a funny quote at the end of a conversation is better than a whole night of stupid jokes...