Advice from Everyone please..

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by Lumix

for some ladies to lose it is something that would be on the memory, it kinda sucks to sy i lost my virgin to a dildo sia haha.

u are bro right? or sister? i read through your past posts and u seemed like a guy? if u are a guy, how do u lose your virginity to a dildo? u poke your own ass? can explain or not? u dun happen to know the cut forehead skin guy right? just kidding ah....

[Lumix]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

u are bro right? or sister? i read through your past posts and u seemed like a guy? if u are a guy, how do u lose your virginity to a dildo? u poke your own ass? can explain or not? u dun happen to know the cut forehead skin guy right? just kidding ah....

Nb i guy la haha Ok maybe i put it in a wrong way , what i'm saying is

U suggested using a dildo right

Think about TS's gf how she would feel to know she lose her V to a dildo




P.S I dun like dildo poked into my ass , i rather my FB to lick it

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by Lumix

Nb i guy la haha Ok maybe i put it in a wrong way , what i'm saying is

U suggested using a dildo right
Think about TS's gf how she would feel to know she lose her V to a dildo

Haha, u definitely did put in the wrong way. But cool.

My point is to break down her barrier. Why is there a need to let her know that the first time is a dildo? Just use the dildo to cause pussy sore, so that she believes she is no longer a V. then TS can have real sex with her subsequently. Plus medically, u only lose your V when a penis enters a vagina. Even after inserting a dildo, technically she is still a V.

[Sam_Pro]

Originally Posted by flameout

I feel you bro. Me an my ex went thru the same thing. I don't know if it helps, but i'll relate my experience anyway.
We did everything on bed, except having sex for around 4 or 5 years.

First few years, she was afraid of my lil bro going anywhere near her meimei.
After a while, it just proceed to grinding our groins. Then occasionally i will use my lil bro head to rub against her meimei, initially she was scared, of cause, then i will stop rubbing. This goes on for a long time, till she is used to it, and trust that i won't just slide my lil bro in conveniently, So lil bro rubbing meimei becomes a norm on bed. After some times, it just proceed to putting lil bro head peeping a tiny bit into her meimei while rubbing, like doing a fj. Same thing, this goes on for quite awhile until one day while doing the lil bro peeping thing, she just grab my ass and push it in inches by inches.

I guess the only way to overcome the barrier, in my case was trust, making her comfortable and not rush things.

Ha.. Bro, I told my gf about what you told me.. She just pretend as never hear.. But it's a good way.. I'll try in future.. Lolx..

[Sam_Pro]

Originally Posted by Lumix

By now she shd be wet enough alr , just go slow with her and let her know that it would not be a painful experience and if u ever penetrate her, go slow and dun be like a machine, let her overcome her phobia of u entering her first slow action and make sure even though she's wet, get lubricant to ensure that the action will be a smooth process

Thanks for your recommendations. I tried all those mentioned before but once I tried to enter.. E-Brake.

[Sam_Pro]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

How? my idea can work or not?

Ha.. This is quite a new idea.. But like what the other bros mentioned, losing virginity to dildo like not very responsible leh.. Ha..

[Van Persie]

Haha, I wonder ... think about it most of us guys if not all lost our virginity to our hands

[Frankiestine]

hullo got kang hu no need to knock gal out....monster deflower virgin pussies and also virgin arse before and none of them suffered the pain factor...it is how you make them shiok prior to the penetration...

[otamay]

Originally Posted by Frankiestine

hullo got kang hu no need to knock gal out....monster deflower virgin pussies and also virgin arse before and none of them suffered the pain factor...it is how you make them shiok prior to the penetration...

monster....you are great, would you like to share some of your tips for the benefit of some of our bros/sistas here for the finer techniques....

[Starlite]

Bro, you need to have long enough foreplay before penetrating. Focus on her sensitive areas for 5 to 10 minutes, kiss and hugging also careress her clitoris etc. Make her feel shiok and when she is high, she may give you signal in the form as hugging you tighter, or feel her wet pussy. Then go in slowly. You need to apply alot of KY to ease / lubricate the entry.

Hope that this suggestion is useful to you.

[easybaby]

I guess she's been too convinced that it's gonna be painful. Who knows the people who kept telling her it's painful may be virgins themselves and heard about this "painful" thingy from elsewhere. You might want to ask her about the credibility of those who said it's painful, whether she heard it from people who have experienced sex or people who have yet to even try it. Perhaps if you can convince her mentally, she won't be so reluctant about it.

Anyway, I believe that she wants to do it with you too just that she is unable to overcome her barrier, since she mentioned about doing it when she's unconscious. When you guys do everything else other than sex, does she get wet? If she does, it means she's physically ready but just mentally uneasy about intercourse. So.... what i think you can try is to get her drunk, into a subconscious state such that she's still aware of what you're doing but unable to push you away

I believe it will be painful if she's not properly lubricated and you force your little one into hers. Make it a wonderful first experience for her. Choose a place of a suitable ambience, with some slow, soft, and sexy music if possible. Standby lubricants. Since you guys have done a lot together, you should be clear about her sensitive spots. Start off by stimulating these spots to arouse her. Be generous with your kisses and soft touches. You might want to finger her before the real intercourse to slightly loosen her tight opening. Keep your fingernails short. The point is to always be slow and gentle.

Have a heart to heart talk with her too. Tell her that sex is something special to you and it would only be meaningful for you to do it with the one whom you really love. Tell her sex is a "togetherness" thing and not just for the physical enjoyment.

Hope these help. Good luck

[yashirob]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

Why dun u do it her way and deflower her when she's unconscious? It's not sick if that's what she wants u to do right? Sometimes for ladies, once they think of losing her virginity that way, convincing her otherwise will lead to more anxiety for her. I know it's not the normal way to have sex but hey, it's only for the 1st time right? Once she's deflowered, she may want to be awake in future.

I know you may feel u are raping her but u know that's not the truth. Both of you got psychological barriers. The girl dun want to be awake (that can't be changed or helped) and the guy dun want to make love to an unconscious partner( i think u do this by changing how u look at the situation).

If you really cannot make it, i give u an idea. once she is unconscious, u insert a dildo into her and push in and out 40 times. Expand her vagina and make it sore. Then when she wakes up, u tell her u had deflowered her! She wun suspect a thing because her pussy will be sore. Then next time when you have real sex with her for the first time, 1. she will be awake and 2. u wun be fucking a sleeping lady.

How? my idea can work or not?

i think ur idea is very out of the box lol

[shoutcast]

dun ask for it , make her want it

[Cocky]

Originally Posted by topcook1

My advice is to save it for marriage perhaps she will be more ready for it. In the mean time go and try Wls and Fls around. There are too many choices now adays dont waste time in thinking of bonking your GF. It might hurt your relationship if you cant get it from her.

Well say TC.

[Mumm-Ra]

Originally Posted by Cocky

Well say TC.

Kekeke should be "Well said". Past tense.

Looks like I got infected already...