1 tree better than a forest?

Originally Posted by Nayate

Yeah, what every bro here said is somehow what had crossed my mind before.

Think I would be avoiding her for a while and see how things goes. Or maybe I'll ask her if she would leave FL for me which I believe it's highly impossible.

But without trying, I won't know. If she refuses to leave FL, then I can tell myself to give up.

If you do that then she will ask you how much? So everything depends on how much you offer, if she sincere small amount, else, she will suck you dry

[louis2002]

I ever bonk this particular Thai girl from #2 WH. I was told by the OKT I’m her first customer in Singapore. True or false I don’t know…..

I bonked her almost once a week in her 2 year tour here until she retired recently. I purposely visited her again on her last day of work. Before she left, she gave me her Thailand contact number but I never try contacting her.

Dun really understands why but I kind of miss her. Falling for her, I don’t think so. Miss her good service? Maybe………...

Cheers..........

[Mojo Jojo]

Originally Posted by desk13

If everybody does that, guess the supply will not be able to meet the demand.

Yes. When that happens there will be 'global warming' as bros who do not have trees to 'cool' off their fire will get very hot indeed.

Originally Posted by louis2002

I ever bonk this particular Thai girl from #2 WH. I was told by the OKT I’m her first customer in Singapore. True or false I don’t know…..

I bonked her almost once a week in her 2 year tour here until she retired recently. I purposely visited her again on her last day of work. Before she left, she gave me her Thailand contact number but I never try contacting her.

Dun really understands why but I kind of miss her. Falling for her, I don’t think so. Miss her good service? Maybe………...

Cheers..........

Wow, bro, you really can control and resist the temptation ...

For most I think maybe want sole rights liao and maybe ...

[cheongsan]

Originally Posted by Nayate

Not sure if this is had been brought up before.

Have you ever bong a FL just once, then you just feel that she is the only girl you would ever bong again.

Or have you ever bong this FL and continue to bong other FLs but thought that every FL that you've tried after the particular FL is not good at all?

Share your experiences?

For me, I've been bonging FLs for one year plus. Frequency was like 2-4 times every week. And you could say that I've bonged women of all sorts and of all the standards countries such as Korea, Japan, Thailand, Europe countries and etc.

But recently, I bonged one of the FLs for the first time. I couldn't stop thinking about her everyday. Even though she command a relatively high rate for her services, but I would still try to book a slot with her whenever I can, to the extent of twice a week.

And very recently again, I couldn't get in touch with her, so I went to bong the others as well. But I found that I have no interests in the other FLs. I booked for two shots session, but yet even finishing the first shot is like so tasteless. It happened a few times.

Have I got KC for this particular FL?

Any bros can share their experiences?

I believe that your favourite FL must have accepted your frenching, provide you with unhurried sex and probably giving you the impression that you are one of the few men whom she would cum for. This explains why you still think of her even though she was expensive and is no longer available for your booking. In short, she had provided you with excellent service. In my experience, normally this type of woman is in heavy demand by many men. So what you are experiencing is understandable.

[justl00king]

Bro Nayate,

If that's how you feel about her then go for it! Live life with no regrets man!

Why not let her know how you feel about her and see if she's also into you? Having said that, I believe for any relationship to work both parties must put in effort and come 50% of the way.

If she's willing to stop FL for you then...Congrats!

But if she stills prefer to put making $ before you then I think you need to seriously reconsider.

[louis2002]

Originally Posted by bogeyman

Wow, bro, you really can control and resist the temptation ...

For most I think maybe want sole rights liao and maybe ...

Honestly I had some strange feeling towards her. Maybe its because I'm her "FIRST CUSTOMER" in Singapore lor......

Feeling is feeling lah..... Your mind set must be straight when you come out to play lor......

I had this rule etched in my big head.... WL are here to make money..... I am a "CHEONGSTER" paying money to get happy....

After all the glorious fire works, at the end of the day there are someone waiting for you at home.... It can be your wife, girlfriend or even your kids......

[Nayate]

OK, some new developments for my favourite FL. =)

But let me reply to some Bros comments first

I've emailed this FL about my feelings for her as per suggested by some friends and bros. She said the email is sweet but there isn't other response from her beside this.

But at least things are clearer now, knowing that she knows my feeling for her and for her side to "do" something?

Originally Posted by bogeyman

If you do that then she will ask you how much? So everything depends on how much you offer, if she sincere small amount, else, she will suck you dry

Originally Posted by justl00king

Bro Nayate,

If that's how you feel about her then go for it! Live life with no regrets man!

Why not let her know how you feel about her and see if she's also into you? Having said that, I believe for any relationship to work both parties must put in effort and come 50% of the way.

If she's willing to stop FL for you then...Congrats!

But if she stills prefer to put making $ before you then I think you need to seriously reconsider.

Bro, you're right to say that she accepted my frenching, provided me with unhurried sex, though not the impression of one of the few mans that she would cum for, since I already knew how popular she could be? I would say she attracted me the most where chemistry is concered.

She is still available for my booking and in fact I still look for her at least once every week since the first time I 've booked her.

Originally Posted by cheongsan

I believe that your favourite FL must have accepted your frenching, provide you with unhurried sex and probably giving you the impression that you are one of the few men whom she would cum for. This explains why you still think of her even though she was expensive and is no longer available for your booking. In short, she had provided you with excellent service. In my experience, normally this type of woman is in heavy demand by many men. So what you are experiencing is understandable.

And now for my update to all the Bros who might be concerned about this. ^^ I just met up with her yesterday for a couple of hours, not for bong, but as friends chilling out.

I mentioned about the FL industry, she seems to be avoiding the question but I guess I knew her answer. Nevertheless, I sent her to her next customer : ( Along the way, we held hands, we frenched and parted unwillingly and made arrangements to meet up to chill out again next week.

Guess this is the birth of an open relationship? Where there is no status but just companion in a way?

[kendory]

Hi Bros,

1. Better keep it business like to avoid any type of happiness.
2. Yes, I have a FL that I only bonk regularly... she's more like a bonk mate.
3. We treated each other as friends... she share our personnel problem and cheers wach other.

We are very open and not kid each other... no need for mushy stuff....

she's married and me too. She have sex for money... I had it for release....
she's lonely ... me too....

it 's true that after a while I'll not want to have sex with others,,, but I don't mind because I know everytime I calls her she'll try to entertain me... even just to talk cock.... we tease each others alots....

lately found out she only had sex with me partly because she is worried about contracting illness and AV..... well u may think she's lying... I don't think so.... I have ways to find out...

it's good to stick to one FL.... but take care don't throw yourself too deep..

ken

[sadfa]

Originally Posted by Nayate

Guess this is the birth of an open relationship? Where there is no status but just companion in a way?

bro wad are u then? she already got okt i think.
so u the chauffeur or bodyguard?

[Lubber]

Originally Posted by Nayate

I've emailed this FL about my feelings for her....
But at least things are clearer now, knowing that she knows my feeling for her and for her side to "do" something?

Bro, lets say she's really into you and you vice versa with a r/s going on like a normal couple but still at the same time she's still in the trade for some reasons of her own, are u able to endure it? Endure the process that ur 'girl' is still being booked by others till the day she leave the scene?

[B.U.T.T.]

Originally Posted by Nayate

I mentioned about the FL industry, she seems to be avoiding the question but I guess I knew her answer. Nevertheless, I sent her to her next customer : ( Along the way, we held hands, we frenched and parted unwillingly and made arrangements to meet up to chill out again next week.

Guess this is the birth of an open relationship? Where there is no status but just companion in a way?

Hope you do not mind this newbie butting in with his 2 cents but so long as both parties are happy why not let it be as it is. I guess your companion needs more assurance before she willing to make a committment. Hope it works out for you bro!

Originally Posted by Lubber

Bro, lets say she's really into you and you vice versa with a r/s going on like a normal couple but still at the same time she's still in the trade for some reasons of her own, are u able to endure it? Endure the process that ur 'girl' is still being booked by others till the day she leave the scene?

I think from wat I hv read, some people really can take it. For me no. But I think difficult for us to put ourselves in the other guy's shoes ... maybe that is true love to them.

[WillamSexsphere]

Originally Posted by Nayate

OK, some new developments for my favourite FL. =)

Guess this is the birth of an open relationship? Where there is no status but just companion in a way?

There is no right no wrong. The only thing that matters is your capacity to deal with honour and integrity to yourself and others in your journey of life. We are flawed human beings anyway. Hurt no one is the best principle to adopt.

We humans are capable of adapting to situations and changes. Most often we have to be rational. Most sporeans are pragmatic/pratical folks, so i believe you would have learn to accept her WL/FL situation and be friends/FB.

One word of caution though. You have to be careful in developing relationships. Once you sink in too deep, you will became part of her life and be entangled fully, sorting things out for her as she would sort it out for you too, messing it up usually.

Once such confidences are shared, reliance builts up and with it comes possesive love in the guise of care and concern, which will flare up to a much regrettable confrontation later, for the fact that other men will and can continuely be served by her.

In short, presently you may accept her as she is, but as the relationship developes, you will not be able to do so, no matter how much you deny this natural undeniable human failing, for we are not hevenly beings.

My suggestion is, harden your heart, be superficial about the 'relationship', just show a bit of concern but do not allow it to grow outside the bed. If not, in the end you will suffer the fate of tirakships or shattered dreams of hopeful expectations....history often repeats itself in the form of different actors.

Either you love her totally and take her out of WL/FL or none at all. Love never deals in half measure.

Take care bro. We sg men may look strong, rational and calculative, but deep at heart on the emotional level, we can bleed, painfully and silently....


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[no_faith]

Originally Posted by Nayate

.....for her side to "do" something?

do wat?
now to me, it looks like juz one sided.
held hands, frenching etc, parts and parcel of a FL and her customers.

but as long u happy, can liao loh.


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