31f in search of a m make out buddy

[siam66]

Originally Posted by infinitiumus

When you are in moderation the best is to communicate via email or wechat and such.
It is much less frustrating.

Those that can respond appropriately via email then yyou move them to wechat. Then those you comfortable chatting can proceed to meet.

finding someone that can click is tough. It takes patience and at times luck.

good luck. I just passing by and kpo a bit.

Well said !!! ...but you forget to say * Patience is a virtue * ... Lol

[DanTheCow]

Originally Posted by autumnbreeze7

Hey Jasp,

Understand and agree that it's better to filter my options after meeting up and chats rather than just based on messages alone. However, you can straight away tell some people will be time wasters just based on their messages alone. And for those who sound like they would be highly suitable candidates through their messages, I can't meet or chat with ALL of them cos that would be unrealistic so naturally I can only shortlist a few to engage more with before I decide on whom I should proceed with the arrangement finally.

I've been meaning to reply to you but a moderated account meant I could only reply to messages and posts every 5 minutes or so. It got really tedious. And I haven't had the chance to reply the last 2 days. Anyways, I've also just pm-ed you. And it seems like the ID you've given me is not showing up under my search.

Yeap, I've been searching for about a year plus, moving on from one arrangement to another because it almost won't work out (for long). I feel like I should give up soon cos I've started to lose faith in men for a while already but the desire to have my need for companionship with a guy whom I can click with and be comfortable with and for limited physical intimacy is still there. I won't go into the details here. Also, local men tend not to be attracted to my thoughts and personality, those who are, for various reasons, we don't work out. This is my last search, I think. Seriously quite tired of a lot of the nonsense I've been dished.

Wow!! Long post. But good to let it all out. At least now everyone knows where you coming from. Anyways dun give up and keep trying. All the best to you TS.

[ayoze]

Hi,

I'm new to this as well. I think I fit into most of the criteria? Haha.. possible to know more about u?

[watsunder]

interesting thread... shall camp for a fairy tale ending! best of luck to all the folks here! Huat ah!

[DCS17]

Originally Posted by tiffanytan

Some guys in real life also try to get into your pants..
Finding a companion online is perfectly fine..
autumnbreeze7 is brave enough to do that, maybe I shall consider that too.. haha!!

Never try never knows. Opportunities are created and never waited.

Looks beyond the looks as only the heart will connect the souls.

[acidicavex]

Originally Posted by tiffanytan

Some guys in real life also try to get into your pants..
Finding a companion online is perfectly fine..
autumnbreeze7 is brave enough to do that, maybe I shall consider that too.. haha!!

So when u want to start a thread so we can apply

[discreeted]

Hi TS,

You might want to consider getting this app called meetup and joining some groups that cater to your interests.. there are a lot of single men there who aren't too weird and if they are, at least you're there because of your interest/hobby, then just don't give them your number or tell them nicely that they are not your type?

Guys are plentiful, if you are the type who wants companionship that can talk back (i.e. not pets), then you should persevere and you'll see that eventually, it pays off.

Good luck!

[Sandunes]

Originally Posted by acidicavex

So when u want to start a thread so we can apply

LOL.. anyway think TS already shortlisted her potential one in a short time. not surprised think the ratio here is like 500 : 1.

but this tiffany looks kinda shady.

[acidicavex]

Originally Posted by Sandunes

LOL.. anyway think TS already shortlisted her potential one in a short time. not surprised think the ratio here is like 500 : 1.

but this tiffany looks kinda shady.

Yah appear like a gust of wind and disappear like the dust.....

Happy new year to u bro

[altec7]

Originally Posted by Sandunes

LOL.. anyway think TS already shortlisted her potential one in a short time. not surprised think the ratio here is like 500 : 1.

but this tiffany looks kinda shady.

Hahaha like the real slim shady?

[Sandunes]

Originally Posted by altec7

Hahaha like the real slim shady?

Maybe "she" can stand up also leh.. lol

[AlexTan07]

Jus passing by here.. scrolled thru all the posts. find that TS is a nice girl with her own strong views and knows how to stand up for herself. Kudos to you!

Everyone has their own right to look and fight for what he or she believes in.

Hope you have found what you have been searching for!

[lookingthru]

oops, i'm late

[onlyhuman]

Hows the search TS?

[Namaste]

Originally Posted by onlyhuman

Hows the search TS?

Hi bro! hows life. Long time no see!