Problem .... how you will solve it

[ct75]

Woman nowadays........ are no difference from men. They fuck around even when married and yet they say they love every men they fucked. Pardon me for being harsh but your friend should live with the consequences of her actions. If her angmoh lover love her then he would marry her after she divorces. If he doesnt, means that he just treated her as a Asian fuck object..... just like how most angmohs treat our asian girls.

I dont think any man can take it that his wife fuck behind his back, for those that can and can forgive.... only one thing to say. Got no fucking pride as a man, let a woman climb over your head and you still forgive!. Although I dont condone abortion, it might not be a bad thing. Everyone is saying how its taking an innocent life. But have anyone ever thought of what kind of life the child is going to have? Relatives talking behind the child's back, the child realising that he or she is "different", being bullied in school and called "Chao Angmoh Bastard" His or her childhood would be a living hell...... To me that is worse than death.....

[tokkon1]

[QUOTE=chenggh]

Originally Posted by +++kon1

Thk brother for the effort in finding the above information for me. Till now she have no contract me so no much of update of the case. I have copy the information u given me. If i got any chance to meet u sure treat u coffee or tea. thk thk man

Still no decide whether want to forward her yet...

Like most brother say & advice, keep quiet just listen ( No advice)..

No problem at all bro...glad to be of help. Will accept your cup of coffee if got chance to meet.

Originally Posted by ct75

Although I dont condone abortion, it might not be a bad thing. Everyone is saying how its taking an innocent life. But have anyone ever thought of what kind of life the child is going to have? Relatives talking behind the child's back, the child realising that he or she is "different", being bullied in school and called "Chao Angmoh Bastard" His or her childhood would be a living hell...... To me that is worse than death.....

I fully agree with you on this point.
What is good for or stand morally may not be good for the person themself.

Those prolife people should give some leeways to exceptional case.

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by chenggh

Just have a tcss with 1 of my female friends.

She is around 30 marry. She is pregnant now. The problem is that she is not sure whether the child is her husband. Ask her how she get into such proble. She tell me that during her business trip to oversea she get drunk & done it with her collegue & also the night b4 she go for the business she also done with her husband...


The problem she really don't know who the baby is?? Worst still the collegue is an American.
Sincerely pls give some sensible advice as it is really happen to my friend..

Thk you

hate to say this but if in doubt then better do something quick especially since there is a possibility that baby might come out to be ang mo one...then how is she going to face the rest of the world especially her husband..one option she may try is go for DNA test now...

[Hazeline]

Originally Posted by see see only

WOW mus admit my lau tu and my mistake, so amazed by this invention. Thks for the info, +++kon1, apolgise to other party involved 2. will add ur nick into my story to apolgise, hope for 4giveness.

Hehe will i get my reward too , u may do it with the next 24hrs

[lao_uncle]

I am sincerely sorry abt what ur friend is going thru now. What i think, rite now, there isnt anyway to solve this issue. But to prevent it happening again, and create unneccessary confusion, i do suggest you tell ur friend only to offer her ass to ang mo, blacks, and other races than chinese.

[tokkon1]

Originally Posted by ct75

Woman nowadays........ are no difference from men. They fuck around even when married and yet they say they love every men they fucked. Pardon me for being harsh but your friend should live with the consequences of her actions. If her angmoh lover love her then he would marry her after she divorces. If he doesnt, means that he just treated her as a Asian fuck object..... just like how most angmohs treat our asian girls.

I dont think any man can take it that his wife fuck behind his back, for those that can and can forgive.... only one thing to say. Got no fucking pride as a man, let a woman climb over your head and you still forgive!. Although I dont condone abortion, it might not be a bad thing. Everyone is saying how its taking an innocent life. But have anyone ever thought of what kind of life the child is going to have? Relatives talking behind the child's back, the child realising that he or she is "different", being bullied in school and called "Chao Angmoh Bastard" His or her childhood would be a living hell...... To me that is worse than death.....

Let's not be too judmental here. The fact that this woman is now torn by worry and frustration not knowing shud she abort in case the child is her husband's goes to proof that she is still 'virtuous' to her husband and values the child she carries.

A callous woman will simply get an abortion and be done with the whole episode.

It is easy for people to get involved in multiple relationships be it man or woman as we are all born wif a capacity to love or lust more than 1 person. Humans are not monogamous by nature unlike cranes, penguins. We are born wif the the instinct to find multiple mates. In today's society where the opportunity abounds for both gender to mix freely especially in a working environment, relationships are bound to happen no matter how strong a person will is. Men are as much to blame as women, maybe even more. How many of us have not tried to flirt wif the oppsite sex even tho some may be married. And how many of us will hold back if there's a chance for sex wif somebody's gfs or wives esp. in the setting of an overseas assignment.

Even the pope will just call them wayward sheeps rather than sluts. It's the human nature and we shud be more understanding. My 2 cts worth.

[Optimus_Prime]

Originally Posted by ct75

Although I dont condone abortion, it might not be a bad thing. Everyone is saying how its taking an innocent life. But have anyone ever thought of what kind of life the child is going to have? Relatives talking behind the child's back, the child realising that he or she is "different", being bullied in school and called "Chao Angmoh Bastard" His or her childhood would be a living hell...... To me that is worse than death.....

Frank and Honest Reply.... BRutally HONEST but dats life. It's a sticky mess and I think she needs real brutal honest advise and not just for you to sit on the fence.

expect 5 Transforming Auto-Pts in ur CP soon.

U have basically offered another view that I think the threadstarter has to consider.


Member of The League of ExTra HorNy GentleMEN

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by chenggh

Don really know how to advice her..

Should be "... how to ADVISE her...."

"Advice is a noun.

[waypastprime]

Originally Posted by chenggh

She is around 30 marry. She is pregnant now. The problem is that she is not sure whether the child is her husband. Ask her how she get into such proble. She tell me that during her business trip to oversea she get drunk & done it with her collegue & also the night b4 she go for the business she also done with her husband...

Allow me to get some things clear first. It is just her getting drunk or both parties?

Pardon my bluntness. If I'm drunk on that particular night, I cant even get my prick erected and most probably I will lie on the bed sleeping like a log. So there is no way I can impregnant a gal willingly.

And if it's just the gal being drunk, the intentions are perhaps clearer for the other party. Maybe that guy wishes to get a fling out of it and more likely this guy will not be responsible for his actions.

[ct75]

Originally Posted by +++kon1

Let's not be too judmental here. The fact that this woman is now torn by worry and frustration not knowing shud she abort in case the child is her husband's goes to proof that she is still 'virtuous' to her husband and values the child she carries.

A callous woman will simply get an abortion and be done with the whole episode.

It is easy for people to get involved in multiple relationships be it man or woman as we are all born wif a capacity to love or lust more than 1 person. Humans are not monogamous by nature unlike cranes, penguins. We are born wif the the instinct to find multiple mates. In today's society where the opportunity abounds for both gender to mix freely especially in a working environment, relationships are bound to happen no matter how strong a person will is. Men are as much to blame as women, maybe even more. How many of us have not tried to flirt wif the oppsite sex even tho some may be married. And how many of us will hold back if there's a chance for sex wif somebody's gfs or wives esp. in the setting of an overseas assignment.

Even the pope will just call them wayward sheeps rather than sluts. It's the human nature and we shud be more understanding. My 2 cts worth.

No offence and Im not flaming you or starting a fight, must make it clear first. This forum can get heated at times... Okay my thoughts on this? Well I dont believe that humans are born to cheat, yes there are the scientific theories and all. But if we can't even control our lusts, frankly are we not like animals? We are human hence we can think and reason the good and bad, the consequences. If we just say "oh its human nature to stray, then we might as well all give in to our desires and start humping each other"

For the lady in this scenario, my thoughts is she is not being "virtous" to her hubby hence the dilemma. Its simple, abortions are not as easy as we think, its a very painful process both emotionally and physically, There are also risks in which the lady can get complications, the worse is she can never have children again. ITs more for herself.... and the part about getting drunk and hence didnt know what they were doing? Its more the Ang Moh had been eyeing her ass for the longest of time and she was also wanting to be fucked by him.... If she was not so willing, unless she was dead drunk, she would know when a dick is ramming her. If she really didnt want it, even when high she would still resist. The point is simple, she had been attracted to the angmoh fellow and wanted to be rammed. Just that she and him are dumb enough to do it raw.....

[kaizer]

wah lan eh.. the ger very the cb leh.. how can be so unfaithful de.. well, see whether she wana take the risk of giving birth to e kid lor. if she wan, den muz bo pi dat a half ang moh kid will not come out. haha.

[tokkon1]

Originally Posted by ct75

No offence and Im not flaming you or starting a fight, must make it clear first. This forum can get heated at times... Okay my thoughts on this? Well I dont believe that humans are born to cheat, yes there are the scientific theories and all. But if we can't even control our lusts, frankly are we not like animals? We are human hence we can think and reason the good and bad, the consequences. If we just say "oh its human nature to stray, then we might as well all give in to our desires and start humping each other"

For the lady in this scenario, my thoughts is she is not being "virtous" to her hubby hence the dilemma. Its simple, abortions are not as easy as we think, its a very painful process both emotionally and physically, There are also risks in which the lady can get complications, the worse is she can never have children again. ITs more for herself.... and the part about getting drunk and hence didnt know what they were doing? Its more the Ang Moh had been eyeing her ass for the longest of time and she was also wanting to be fucked by him.... If she was not so willing, unless she was dead drunk, she would know when a dick is ramming her. If she really didnt want it, even when high she would still resist. The point is simple, she had been attracted to the angmoh fellow and wanted to be rammed. Just that she and him are dumb enough to do it raw.....

Dun worry bro, this is a forum to exchange views and and frankly I respect you for your opinion on this matter. I'm not saying what she did is OK and shud not be reprimanded but what I'm saying is sometimes humans are weak especially temptation of the flesh. We always assume that when us men stray it's understandable and forgivable but when a woman does it, it's to be condemned and she must face the repercussion.

A lot of advice had been given here ranging from abortion, divorce, single motherhood and hooking up wif the ang mo lover. Quite a number of derogatory adjectives had also been thrown at the woman in question. Ultimately this thread was posted to find means of helping her and that was my main purpose. Sorri bro, no offence meant at all to anybody especially yourself.

[yanki1]

Originally Posted by waypastprime

Allow me to get some things clear first. It is just her getting drunk or both parties?

Pardon my bluntness. If I'm drunk on that particular night, I cant even get my prick erected and most probably I will lie on the bed sleeping like a log. So there is no way I can impregnant a gal willingly.

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its not the first time that she fuck with her colleague. the other times, they used condoms. just this once they forgot. i read from earlier post. so she shd take the responsibilities. i mean she has been fucking behind her husband back. i pity her husband.

[ct75]

Frankly to me, Men and women who cheat are never condoned. Im not the type who say Men who fuck around are studs and women sluts. To me if you want to have a marriage and a gf then stay faithful. If not then dont have one. Seen so many guy friends from all walks of life having affairs with pub waitresses etc etc.... married with kids somemore.... recently even seen a female colleague with kids "restart" her life by seperating with her hubby and finding what is single life all about and meeting new guys.

I have seen too a friend who after working his way up from nothing to becoming a millionaire has his wife have a affair outside and telling him "you can keep the kids, I just want an divorce and my maintanance"

When you cheat, you might think you are happy, you are winning, you are having the time of your life, romantic, exciting but the other party that you are cheating on. Have anyone ever thought about them? To me my parents might not have been perfect. My dad was a drunkard in his younger days and you can say I came from a pretty dysfunctional family. Family violence and all was everyday thing. But in the end my Dad changed and today they have had a marriage of 33 years. How many of us today can do that without fucking some SYT or some handsome colleague at work along the way?