Sexually frustrated

[DemonicSS]

Hi TS, Do emphasize that not everyone here have a happy relationship nor a sexual one. They are in their own way finding their direction. It's the rubbish that people say or make that they learn. Congrats that you made your choice. Fare Dee well

[jason_]

mutual masturbation is not sex, if both are virgins they remain virgins. it is heavy petting, allows couples to recognise sexual needs yet abstain from sex and remain virgins until after marriage. end up if they do not get married, both still leave each other as virgins. not much different from hugging and kissing and fondling.

[justanothergirl]

Originally Posted by jason_

mutual masturbation is not sex, if both are virgins they remain virgins. it is heavy petting, allows couples to recognise sexual needs yet abstain from sex and remain virgins until after marriage. end up if they do not get married, both still leave each other as virgins. not much different from hugging and kissing and fondling.

I never said it was sex. I merely said that it's still wrong. Cheers!

[selflick]

Originally Posted by jason_

another way is, since he is too tired out with his business, that you do all the work in bed and let him just lie back and relax. not sure if you do blowjob, if no better learn, suck his balls, etc, just make his dick hard and then ride him cowgirl, if do not know how to ride cowgirl then better learn.

if he just lie back and relax then he will be more obliging. and you will get his hard dick inside you more than what you are getting now.

Agree. If he is too busy or too tired, you should try to serve him without asking for anything back. "Ask not what he can do to you, ask what you can do for him."

Treat him like a sex toy. What you can do are:
1) Masturbate in front of him, and look at him sluttily. When you are cumming, say out loud "Dear, I am cumming...cumming..." After you have cummed and he still bochap, let it be.
2) Self lick nipples in front of him. Look as if you are enjoying yourself a lot.
3) Suck his cock. Do it until he cums even if he doesn't give a hoot about it.

The key thing is, treat him like he isn't there even if he is. Pleasure yourself and him. Fine tune your mindset to remind yourself not to ask for anything back. This is reverse psychology at the highest level.

Soon, he will be tempted....

[crood]

Gal, u wan to try cowride him At least u can control the momentum and not to let him cum that easily.

[curious11]

Apart from taking the lead in sex... how about u taking the lead in exercising also? then when both of you are all sweaty and stuff, go back have a shower together and then make out before sleep lo..

Im not talking about long exercises, just do interval training exercises. It doesnt take long, maybe half an hour? but it does make u sweat.. this way at least he doesnt need to purposely go to the gym (which obviously has opening hours which might not be convenient for him to arrange time for?)

[ColdBlood99]

trust your bf TS.

living is singapore is stressful enough, further more he start his own business