Regret raising son of wife's Ex.. How?

[rockafella04]

Well since he willingly entered a legal binding marriage and did know about her past before the marriage what is there to complain.

If he is really not happy and wants a divorce I would say go on with it.

Whether his own assets gets a 50% split which I think is highly unlikely unless there are evidence to show that his current wife has also contributed to his house and also monthly expenditure for the household.

There are cases where even monthly maintenance need not be paid but your friend will really need to have a strong case against his wife but of course he will need to collate evidence for it too. As for his 1st child it all depends on how the court rules, if the wife hires a lawyer and goes strongly on the women's charter then he might have to pay maintenance for its 1st child.

Oh you mentioned the current wife is pregnant now, if that is really his child he might have to go on a custody case with his wife in any case if the custody of his unborn child falls on the wife then maintenance for the child most definitely needs to be paid which unless like what you have mentioned, he suspects that its not his and manages to proof that point then good luck I am sure he can divorce easy and not worry about his own assets or monthly commitments he might have to make.

[sun814]

ts, i think your bro is really a joker, if he really think in this way, i think the best way for him to seek a divorce, it is good for him, his wife and their step-son and soon-to-be born child.

i can tell you that i am in the same situation as him but minus such negative thoughts, my step-daughter is 17 this year, we had known each other a few months after i know my wife six years ago, married 3 years now but without our own kids for now.

i and my step-daughter get along very well, in fact we never really treat each other as "step", she will call me daddy and i will call her my daughter as well. haha sometimes my daughter will even cook for me (which of your "real" son or daughter will cook for you?)

and so what if my wife has half of my assets? i think she deserves it, as she has also contributed alot into this family.

another thing is my wife is an ex-fl and i was her customer, but so what? what is most important is now and the future!

[joscklee]

Originally Posted by sun814

ts, i think your bro is really a joker, if he really think in this way, i think the best way for him to seek a divorce, it is good for him, his wife and their step-son and soon-to-be born child.

i can tell you that i am in the same situation as him but minus such negative thoughts, my step-daughter is 17 this year, we had known each other a few months after i know my wife six years ago, married 3 years now but without our own kids for now.

i and my step-daughter get along very well, in fact we never really treat each other as "step", she will call me daddy and i will call her my daughter as well. haha sometimes my daughter will even cook for me (which of your "real" son or daughter will cook for you?)

and so what if my wife has half of my assets? i think she deserves it, as she has also contributed alot into this family.

another thing is my wife is an ex-fl and i was her customer, but so what? what is most important is now and the future!

No offence but out of curiosity: since your wife is ex-FL, does she know who is the father of your step-daughter?

[Austere]

This is Singapore. Divorce = Stupid, Men will give half of what he has to the China Girl.

So,Go check DNA of the Child. If its his, congrats. If its not his, Just dont bother about the children, Tell him to learn to let go, Live his life, the china girl will stay with him anyway.

The son one day will understand one, Still, i believe the son living expenses also you pay one... so yea..... chill brother.

[sun814]

Originally Posted by joscklee

No offence but out of curiosity: since your wife is ex-FL, does she know who is the father of your step-daughter?

of course she knows, but who cares? we treat her like our very own, that is the most important thing.

[sun814]

Originally Posted by Austere

This is Singapore. Divorce = Stupid, Men will give half of what he has to the China Girl.

So,Go check DNA of the Child. If its his, congrats. If its not his, Just dont bother about the children, Tell him to learn to let go, Live his life, the china girl will stay with him anyway.

The son one day will understand one, Still, i believe the son living expenses also you pay one... so yea..... chill brother.

so what if you needs to give half of your assets if she deserves it?

[Austere]

Originally Posted by sun814

so what if you needs to give half of your assets if she deserves it?

Your bro gave her a new light in life. Still want to give more ar ?

If baby his, I think he lan lan still have to take care of the other elder son.

If the baby not his, He better secretly find lawyer to help him ensure she dont lose any asset to the wife.

[Gal12]

Ur brother agree with tat there no way to regret now he sure think carefully before accpet it

[kenl8888]

Maybe your bro can send the child back to his father..
He has the responsibility for raising him..