Relationship with someone 15 years younger?

[phallusman]

Years ago, when I was a student overseas, I met a gal 10years my senior. We hit it off so very well. She was from HK, helping her father in a Chinese resto.

I was a virgin then. And so, she had the honour to have my virginity. She was like my big sis then.

Just that somehow, I was very comfortable with an older gal. Younger gals just dun seemed to click with me at that time. Just dunno why leh.

After a while, I was speaking canto almost like a hongkie......

We agreed that it was just a relationship of convenience and as such, a short term r/s. We had a great and memorable time together. It ended when I had to return to SG.

[phallusman]

Originally Posted by wakatipu

Just some thoughts as to why younger gals like to go with older guys.

One could be that she wanna to be with a fatherly figure, like she lacked fatherly love in her younger days and sort of make up for it.

Another is that she gets pampered by a sugar daddy, like buying her stuff, bring her to expensive resto, when younger guys just cannot afford.

Another one here - older guy can last longer in bed, so that she can reach the big "O" together. Younger guys just tend to fire off their loads far too fast la.

Just my 3cents worth of thinking to share.

Hahaha, it didn't occur to me then, but, it might be true that she was a wee bit like a motherly figure to me.

And at that time, I was only 22yr old. And I always cum very, very fast. So, got to rest 1/2hr to go for a second helping, this time last somewhat longer for her to have her game too.

[cutepig]

I personally think the age difference is not the problem. The main problem is TS is married. Play at ur own risk. Anything happens, dun cry.

[peanuts100k]

my advice,if you are itchy,pay for sex with a pro instead of committing into a relationship with another gal behind her back.trust me,u be sextisfied for a while,but martial and many problems will come aftermath.I seem too many cases.

[fdomme]

Originally Posted by GeGe

$$ can shorten any gap, whether it is age gap or distance gap

Bro well said, lets make more $$ in the tiger year so we can shorten all the age gaps and everyone are 18y old

Gong Xi Fa Cai

[actionmaomao]

Haiz. Think of your child. You know how sad it is for children with broken families? I suggest you stay out of trouble and stay faithful to your wife!

[icYcreamj]

Originally Posted by fairlady12

sounds so similar to my situation but from a lady's perspective.. I am around her age, and he is 15 years older. With 2 kids. Sad thing is, it lasted only less than a month. I cannot believe he rejected free sex (we did it only once or twice and he gave me the feeling that he wants it out..). I am not ugly nor fat or whatever. I offered a FB relationship, not explicitly but yeah (i love him but i know realistically speaking, I dont foresee nor expect him to be divorcing and stuffs). I used to text him only when he is at work (ie not with his wife), even then i do not flood him with messages. I feel it's because he felt he has more to lose if the relationship gets exposed. kind of sad. haah

Sometimes age is not a problem like many replies. $$ works.

In my opinion,80% are jus seeking for fun or some type of excitement.mayb some minority will give you problems like breaking up fam,etc...But since TS is thinking of stepping onto another boat.Must make sure got bring float out and must know how to self-help (:

Like abv in my case,me too, nv ever flood 'him' with my msg or give him midnite calls etc...
Letting his wife know,is not a gd thing really... mayb the current situation shld jus stay as it is.
Oops: OT

[Newbie129]

wow..sounds like me man.....but i want to get out of my r'ship soon...