Heart broken

[Cheonging101]

Forget about men, go and find ANIMALS!

[Bangster]

THat'd be worse.

Animals do their mothers and siblings, you know?

[HCISB]

guys hate it when they are confronted ... they hate to admit their mistake or wrong doings .... they give excuse to beautifie their betray .... they change the topic and ask n Expect forgiveness as they like girls to be forgiving and Big-hearted ...............

sorry in advance if the above offended and guys here,

berrys : u gotta think it hard and through ... can u move on and forgive and forget ... and stay by his side.... and does he give u a promising furute u can seen aft a few yrs from now ..........

[Fail]

Originally Posted by berryss

It that call life for guys... all bro from sbf here, totally no guilty to ur gf/wife?

Sad to say, for those that I know...I don't think they feel guilty wor

[baby85]

tings would be easy to be say but tings nid u to do urself

wat if e brothers and sisters here ask u to leave him .. will u ??

no right , cos ur e one who is with him , not us here ..

for me , if i really love e bf of mine , i will close 1 eye n carry on , as long he book a gal which is fark n go with no feelings in den ok why not ..

since guys mostly cant stick to 1 partner usually , u gonna give n take to make it a happy r/s

for me , my partner is same like ur bf but i choose to close 1 eye to it

lastly decision is up to u anyway

take care n carry on with ur life instead of being upset over it

good luck sis ... all e best =)

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by baby85

[COLOR=\"SeaGreen\"]for me , if i really love e bf of mine , i will close 1 eye n carry on , as long he book a gal which is fark n go with no feelings in den ok why not ..

since guys mostly cant stick to 1 partner usually , u gonna give n take to make it a happy r/s

for me , my partner is same like ur bf but i choose to close 1 eye to it
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Wah liao, if oni every gal is like you.... ur bf is a lucky bastard man

Not sure how the saying; quoted from the radio; fits in the context of this thread:

All human being has two psychological needs, the first important need is to be unconditionally loved. Because it is the only moment in life that u can be singing out of tune, your lover will still listen with admiration. The 2nd important psychological needs is the need to be number one, in other words \"I want to be your top priority\".

But somehow I still think that the closing one eye thingy is BS because it just take a temptation for you to do the same back to your bf. Just pray that you wont be in the wrong place at the wrong time and gather enuff courage to do the wrong thing from what you already know about your bf\'s infidelity.

[SourSoap]

As wat many ppl here have say..

1) move on

2) find time to chat with him

3) treat it as nothing have happen

4) find a man and revenge( this is the most stupid, u will lose out but the guy who up u.. GAIN!! )



if i will you and i really love him/her i will chose 2... then 3.... if happen again.. then lastly 1.

But u should be old enough to know..

Guys are always hungry...



Take care~

Cheer up =)

[IcyMula]

Cheer Up Sis

You need to think about it ba, have a tok with him first den you make your choice.

Think about your future ba ^^

Take Care~ Chin up!

[AAconnection]

Originally Posted by sex4LiFe

Well, there's always a few choices to ponder over..

3. Walk off and find yourself a new partner. And continue to believe there's true love and fidelity out there. As much as men are born to be bastards, I honestly believe there are still a few good ones out there, and I'm a man.

There's really no good or wrong choice.
You just have to make a decision and not regret it, ever.

Hope this helps!

Second your point no.3 Be positive most men are good only one or two dun know how they think. There are many a reasons behind that people do things and these people do not wish not to explain maybe because of face. I believe everyone also do things that some people may accept and some may not accept that including me. Let the person self actualise and give time for adjustment.

[pussyidol]

Originally Posted by Cheonging101

Forget about men, go and find ANIMALS!

U forget that man are animals too

Originally Posted by Fail

Sad to say, for those that I know...I don't think they feel guilty wor

That is the norm of thousand years of practice, and remember in our grandparents days, man can have several wives. Only recent 50 years, the one husband one wife policy is established for only some of the mans in this earth In man's DNA, still 1 husband more wives formula

[Fail]

Originally Posted by pussyidol

That is the norm of thousand years of practice, and remember in our grandparents days, man can have several wives. Only recent 50 years, the one husband one wife policy is established for only some of the mans in this earth In man's DNA, still 1 husband more wives formula

Yeah tat's why I tell myself if I do ever get married in the future, my hb can do whatever he wans, just don't bring the other woman/women home, don't bring diseases home, and must know home is the priority..I think I'll be contented enough.
But of coz I'll do what I can on my part to prevent him to find outside food la...haha...maybe make him too "exhausted" so that he can't steal outside?

[newbieboy]

moral of the story is... REFORMAT LAPTOP before giving it away

frankly, i don't stray when i'm in relationship. how can that be achieved? because i always break up when i know i won't be happy anymore. man and woman to me is the same, if you can keep me happy and occupied i won't have the 闲情逸致 to go outside and look for other women.

not putting the blame on you, but ask yourself if you're satisfying him, and i'm not even referring to sex. i don't stray, but i will initiate break up and whatever i do after that i don't have to answer to anyone. which do you prefer? him breaking up with you or him fooling around outside? this is a false dichotomy btw, you can always do other things, like break up with him, chop off his dick, etc etc

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by pussyidol

U forget that man are animals too

In man\'s DNA, still 1 husband more wives formula

It is also in the DNA that man can have many women, but each of those women must NOT have any other man

[Xtang]

1st time posting... sorry bad english..

wow.. quite surprise abt the feedbacks. it's happen that most of all bro r having the same view as all sis. confront him, break off, etc, etc...

hee hee, i tot many of us also got some hanky panky while in relationship...

Well, my view may not be right to most or all of them.. but thats human being.... with animal desire in it.... well.. my 1 cents view....

I personally think that love and sex is totally two different things in live.. we can't mix it up togeher.. cos you can be in love or be love but no sex or less sex activity at all... but you can also have sex but totally no love..

yes, you may say.. its abt commitment when u have a gf or bf... but commitment and desire is just between a single line either crossing to your left or your right. just like doing bad things n good things... love someone or hate someone.. he or she can have sex with someone (not referring to those that "run lion" playing cheating game..) but that doesn't mean he or she dun love you. your relationship is not stable...

look at our bro "Peter Pan" here.. his story may or may not be true.. but.. its the love and their fantasy that makes their relationship even more stronger. cos they open to each other...

I believe many of us when using our 5 great buddy or twin tower, most of the time we are thinking of someone else instead of our partner ye or not? everybody has their own fantasy. be it MMF, MFF, Orgy, exchange, etc, etc....

What i'm trying to say to our sis here is... If you really love him n you know that or feel that he really love you... then open up the topic with him (not into fight ye).. talk to each other abt yours n his view.. understand each other feeling abt this... who knows you will get to know even more things n things get better by..

1.. he know that you not happy with him having a booking or even "tou chi".. he will stop the activity..

2.. you found out that you r open to some of his fantasy n you join in with him to make u two relationship to the next higher level...

3. you may allow him to have fun outside but no serious 3 party... and well you can also have the fair share one in awhile if you like to...

4.. sad ending.. both cant get into agreements n you left him.... which most of our bro n sis suggested...

Last word... Love is abt Believe, Open and Communication......


thanks...

[Blue_gal]

Originally Posted by berryss

I found tat my bf going to book a gal from this forum. how would u do? since im love him so much but he hurt me so much. Im heart broken. I really nd advice. hope sis n bro here can gv me some advice. im totally lost. he duno i know about this...

sista, its hard to get a man who only SEX U alone in this world....there is bUt not every GAL is LUCKY to have such MAN.....

to make the MAN only SEX u and not other woman, will NEED a lot of "power" to do so.. not only u alone .. to make it work but both party.. ..

so talk to him.. both make it work...if he progress improve of not "eating" outside then can "SAVE" else ... change another ONE .... SO many FISHESSSSS.. in the ocean ....

Remember.. u love him so much doesn't means that he will LOVE u as much as u .....in LIFE ... dun believe in FAIR....as long as u are HUMAN....

Cheer~
Bitchy Blue AUntiE