Just found out my wife has been cheating on me! - Page 4

Cheonging101 · #46 04-12-2009, 02:44 PM

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Originally Posted by firefox_2046

I have already confronted her and she has also confessed that she has been sleeping with this guy from work and also a few of his friends. When I asked her why, she told me that she feels that we have lost the connection with each other and that she feels this connection with this guy. I am utterly heartbroken and truly all trust lost.

WTF? She got connection with this guy and STILL fuck his friends?

Good luck to that guy also lor. He will kena same problem as you if he marries her, bro. Give him lah.

hell4lif · #47 04-12-2009, 03:15 PM

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Feeling darn low at the moment...any advice on how to move on from this?

Bro! talk to her about it!...see you both of you can trash things out!..remember to TALK.not argue or shout or accuse her of anything.. try your best at least..
i really hope things work out!..good luck with that!
its important for a couple to understand each other!..

SneakyBastard · #48 04-12-2009, 04:35 PM

Bro, I completely empathize with you. Get your divorce, and make sure you don't pay any alimony. And before she signs the papers, don't get caught screwing around.

I've had this type of woman before. They're nothing but leeches. They're not worthy to be called whores. Sluts maybe... Whores get paid to get laid...

I know what hurts more is the lying more than the sex. In all likelihood, since you've posted her past stories, you're probably turned on by the sex.

Be strong. Don't think about it for now. Throw yourself into your work or something else.

And if she comes to you & proposes sex for any reason, don't do it. At least until after she signs the papers. Sex during separation voids the separation, & means that she can screw you over all over again.

Move on & learn to be happy with your life. Be glad you at least got to nail the slut, but don't go back. Women are a dime a dozen. This one didn't even make herself worth a single penny. You must belive that you will find another who will be more worthy of you.

Although I wasn't married to such a slut, I nearly did, so I speak from experience.

sammyboyfor · #49 04-12-2009, 05:01 PM

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Although I wasn't married to such a slut, I nearly did, so I speak from experience.

Women who sleep around are sluts. Men who do the same are studs.

NightHawk88 · #50 04-12-2009, 05:13 PM

TS,

In life, there are things that we don't want to happen but have to accept, things we don't want to know but have to learn, and people we can't live without but have to let go.

On the brighter side;

Giving up doesn't always mean you are weak; sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go. Especially when love is lost, and trust is betrayed………….

Time to move on…. and learn from this incident; learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart.

Cheer up TS.

hornyiceman · #51 04-12-2009, 05:43 PM

Oh that sucks pal. Perhaps its best u move on with your life. Can feel that u r ready to settle down, she isnt. Connection lost is perhaps just an excuse. There's a saying but i wont go on to that. Be strong pal

ebichu03 · #52 05-12-2009, 12:30 AM

Well sad to say you're not alone.

I also found out that my wife is having an affair with her colleague, and the worst things is we still have a kid at home.

and now while awaiting courts order, i still have to bear all the nonsense like she been staying over at her lover house.

so just to cut short, if you think you can forget this whole incident. try to salvage your marriage, if you cannot... MOVE ON~~~.

firefox_2046 · #53 05-12-2009, 12:43 AM

Thank you guys for all your advice and encouragement.

I guess what I can't get over is the fact she was willing to throw away what we have for someone she met only a few months ago when he was posted to work here in Singapore. And then moving on to even sleep with his friends. It just feels like betrayal at its most ultimate.

In any case, she has already moved out. I think she has moved to his place but I don't fucking give a damn.

BlackerKnighter · #54 05-12-2009, 01:18 AM

I hope your story is not some school holiday hoax but if it is then its too bad just move on la what else you want?

Both men and women cheat. I have heard of people who bitch with such hatred about their cheating slut wives but conveniently forget that they also kio kway and cheong KTV. No mirror ah?

Maybe your wife is just a nympho so she has different needs. I think its not the tao chiak that kills it but the lies and other behavior of betrayal. Its all in the past so move on la.

jekyll69 · #55 05-12-2009, 01:24 AM

well she's probably enjoying her last few years of pre-expiry
when the decomposition starts, she'll be crawling back to you
but its all too late

cheer up..
greener pastures ahead

kurosaki ichigo · #56 05-12-2009, 04:36 AM

Time to cut the losses and kick her out of your life

BroRelax · #57 05-12-2009, 11:36 AM

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Originally Posted by firefox_2046

Thank you guys for all your advice and encouragement.

I guess what I can't get over is the fact she was willing to throw away what we have for someone she met only a few months ago when he was posted to work here in Singapore. And then moving on to even sleep with his friends. It just feels like betrayal at its most ultimate.

In any case, she has already moved out. I think she has moved to his place but I don't fucking give a damn.

Forget about her la, she is a useless woman liao... She throw herself to her male colleague is 1 thing, but let herself fuck by his friends is way too much.

Wonder if her male colleague and his buddies are in this forum.

Glock · #58 05-12-2009, 06:33 PM

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Originally Posted by firefox_2046

I guess what I can't get over is the fact she was willing to throw away what we have for someone she met only a few months ago when he was posted to work here in Singapore. And then moving on to even sleep with his friends. It just feels like betrayal at its most ultimate.

looks like you married a Standard Singapore Girl

best option is to not marry her in the first place

second best option is to DIVORCE HER NOW THAT YOU CAN

like earlier bros said to you , go get proper evidence ASAP so all the paperwork done

dont give chance for her to come say that it is all your fault in the first place then she have to suck a lot of cocks in order to "forget how you have hurt her heart"

god damned cock sucking singapore bitch

kurosaki ichigo · #59 05-12-2009, 06:43 PM

There are nice local girls around just that he happened to choose someone with a wild side.

Girls who do the following are not going to be wife material:

1. Constantly seeking attention from men even when attached

2. Only take but don't give (read: Upbringing is important)

3. Thinks the world of herself

TS chose someone who's willing to engage in sexual romps with what security guards???

Shows some kind of slut she is and its further proven now.

old_yet_horny · #60 07-12-2009, 06:19 AM

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Hi guys,

I know I have posted some rather erotic stories about my wife's sexual past but up till I found about her cheating. I have always thought that there is complete trust between me and her.

I have already confronted her and she has also confessed that she has been sleeping with this guy from work and also a few of his friends. When I asked her why, she told me that she feels that we have lost the connection with each other and that she feels this connection with this guy. I am utterly heartbroken and truly all trust lost.

The lucky thing is we don't have children so moving on and separation would not be as messy.

I understand that many of you may think that I'm unreal. Sorry for that.

Like that also can??

For me.. no need to talk..lets go seperate ways..