I just read an email from a badass gentleman, a guru on seduction n sex, on an interesting subject:
Turn the tables on any hot woman
His two steps approach is worth sharing here.
Hi Bro Warbird,
There are a ton of different approaches I've used to
build attraction with women over the years.
But let me tell you something...
...If a woman doesn't want to sleep with you, it comes
down to one simple thing:
It's because you are not TURNING HER ON.
That's it.
She just isn't horny around you.
If her panties are on fire for you, nothing else
matters. She'll blow past her cockblocking friends and
use just about any justification to go home with you.
All you have to do is not screw up epically.
But...
...If she's not turned on, NOTHING you say will make a
difference. She just won't be interested.
So, what works to turn a woman on?
Well, first let's talk about what DOESN'T:
If you've been around a while, you've heard me say this
probably DOZENS of times...
Good looks don't work. Big muscles don't work. Money
doesn't work.
90% of the time, you're gonna turn a woman off with all
this shit.
Why?
...It leads to the single most unattractive, repulsive
behavior you can do to a woman:
...BRAGGING.
It doesn't matter if you're outright bragging to her
about your car...
Or if you're subtly hinting at the fact you have dated
beautiful woman in the past.
She'll pick up on it, and it will turn her off.
You see, when you brag to a woman, she instantly senses
that you're trying to "prove yourself" to her.
And a woman's "dream man" (and "dream lay") is a man
with NOTHING to prove.
In fact, it's a man who SHE has to prove HERSELF to.
Which means, if you cut out all "prove yourself"
behavior around woman...
And replace it with behavior that compels HER to "prove
herself" to YOU...
You're already 90% of the way there.
So, what REALLY turns her on?
Here's a simple formula:
STEP ONE: Eliminate All Behavior Where You're Trying To
"Prove Yourself"
The top 1% of men who are ridiculously attractive to
women NEVER brag.
They don't have anything to prove. So they let women
find out about all the great stuff going on in their
lives on their own. They make them WORK for it.
You see the difference?
When a woman senses you are one of these men, her
interest piques. Her body starts getting hot for you,
and she doesn't even know why.
And look: even if you have to "trick her" into thinking
you're one of these guys, like I'm going to teach you...
once she starts getting turned on, she can't control
herself.
SHE'LL be the one seducing YOU.
So, after you've got the "no bragging" rule down...
STEP TWO: Transfer Your Sexual State To Her
Basically, it involves "transferring" your sexual
attraction and horniness onto her.
You can use it to make a woman feel happy, make her feel
like she wants to see you again, make her feel a deep
emotional bond with you... quite literally anything.
Put this trick to work and send me your successes!
Talk soon,
Mr Guru
I agree w/ the guru. Transferring your mental state to your girl requires dominance, supreme confidence, strong mental frame n emotional mastery. You suck her into your world and your reality becomes her reality. You become her master.
When a "Don Juan" w/ women meets his "dream girl," he is magically transformed to a "nice guy" n before long he is sucked into her reality. That would be the kiss of death for him.
Let me be clear. A man could use money to buy a lot of chio pussies, but the guru is talking about turning on a doll, SEXUALLY n romantically. Yeah, and getting her addicted to YOU. No amount of money could do it. Regular CVOs n emotional bonding would certainly help, haha.
Lastly, always be 100% non-needy, whether you hv been w/ her 3 days or 30years.
Just my two cents.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Bro WB
Another interesting arcticle above.
Fully agreed with the guru and you. Transfering the mental state to the gal.
I hope to be Don Juan too.
Hope to continue reading and will contribute soon.
It is very true that self-esteem is very important. Many guys failed badly because oft his self-esteem issue.
Often or not, guys never think more positive and always think impossible for me. The reason many failed to get their hot gal becuase they always think they will never get her.
When I was reading your thread, I enjoyed so much because you shared so many real life example and theories from guru.
I hope to be more proficient to court more gals.
Please dun stop sharing with us.
Have a great weekend.
Some of us are shy to talk to girls that we like .
I like to express my sincere gratitude to all samsters who hv supported this thread over the years. Your input, encouragement, suggestions, and criticisms have made it meaningful for me to continue posting. I hv also learned from many true masters among you, who must hv elected to keep a low profile. I can only hope that you will share more of your secrets and expertise in the near future.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by RagnarKlavan
Bro WB
Thank you for reply. I will try to be Al Capone.
Have a great Sunday to you too.
Bro,
I hope you succeed.
You need to be a man of your word and you must be very courageous. And you hv to be very kind and generous...
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Thank you for nice kind words.
Will try to be the prize.
Bro,
You ARE the prize.
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Originally Posted by LoveSexy
Bro WB
Reading the above thread was interesting. I want to be good guy and not nice guy. I dun want to take shit from women and rather want the women to like me,
I hope I am not asking too much.
Love the way your thread discussed all these theories and practical all in one.
Hope you continue to post more guidance.
Have a great week ahead.
Bro,
Be a good guy who is dominant and manly...
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Originally Posted by QuantumSC
Bro, very good topic and good advice you gave to regards to "How Often your wife have sex with you".
IMO, should have sex daily otherwise why bother to get married. I also agree with you that best to divorce if wife not interested in sex because better to suffer short pain.
I also wonder why need to marry if you knew gf not interested in sex. Nowadays pre-marital sex is not taboo. Also guy dun mind the spouse past and most important is future.
Any comment?
I hope to learn more form you here.
Cheers!
Bro,
Treat marriage as if it's a biz transaction.
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Originally Posted by QuantumSC
Bro
Reading this post proved that you are a good man. You really take care of your LPs.
Hope all the best to you.
Cheers.
Bro,
I never short change a LP. I can be very generous if she deserves it.
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Originally Posted by Zalo
Bro WB
Many happiness to you and love your great thread here.
To me your taste for women is still good criteria. Thewomen all will lovely and elegant. Keep up your good taste.
Want to discuss your next topic here "How to lose woman fast"
What you had described above is accurate and interesting. Just that many of us men dun have the idea that we are behaving exactly as you describved above. Jealousy is a no no and killer blow to any relationship. Makes the man ugly and needy.
Hope to read more of your marvelous thread and wish you good luck.
Will learn from here.
Bye.
Bro,
We must be the best person we can be, and we should never settle for 2nd best.
Jealousy is a killer for any RS. It means the man believes his woman is the prize and that he is inferior.
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Originally Posted by AlexManninger
My comment is can have gf and no have kids too.But still dun need to marry.
Just my personal opinion.
Bro,
Yes, a man can hv a LP and kids w/o a marriage license.
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Originally Posted by MikePence
Bro, I am keen to become Al Capone too.
Hopefully I am not dreaming.
Bro,
Tell us about your progress. Be a Capone who is a law-abiding citizen.
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Originally Posted by FollowUS
Bro WB
Very nice article above. Fully agreed that many men behaved too desperate. The guru mentioned perfectly that desperation leads to very ugly man. A very insecure and needy. Also full of jealousy.
I have a friend who throw money around with gals but one day met his special gal and that's it. The special gal told him to move North he will not dare to move South.
Really love your amazing thread and hope to learn more.
Have a happy weekend.
Cheers.
Bro,
Women can detect desperation in a man 100 meters away.
There is no such thing as a special gal or dream gal. It's an unhealthy addiction.
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Originally Posted by Craze4Sex
Bro WB,
Nice thread you had here. Fully agreed that yin and yang must matched to have the best flow.
I enjoyed reading your stories about BY LPs. In order to taste more pussies you need to chop and make. Newer gals will always available to keep you fully erected and interested.
Maybe you can share with us who is your best LP and how long you had her for?
Will try to read up more here and contribute whenever possible.
Hope you continue your ktv sexploits.
Enjoy your weekend.
Cheers!
Bro,
It's difficult to say which LP is the best.
My three current LPs are certainly among the best, in terms of looks, figure n character. They are THE most frugal ones and they all treat me like an emperor. And, best of all, I hv spent the least on them. Prior to meeting them, yr 96 Lisa or LS was the most frugal.
Among my current LPs, the youngest is yr 97 KT who turned 20 two months ago, and the other two LL n PL are in their early to mid 20s. I met all three in the month July 2016, LL around 6th, KT 16th and PL 26th. They became my LPs quite easily, after their initial rejections. Reflecting on my saga w/ them, I hv learned a lot. I'll provide details n analysis of these cases. Of course, I was in the right place at the right time. But most importantly, It was my mindset and all three are classic examples that buttress the validity of the popular sayings:
"You need to let go to get what you want."
"Things that you want 'lightly' come easily."
I met all three current LPs for the first time last July. From June thru August 2016 was the most hectic months for my xiao didi.
In those 3 months, I had a secret gf CF, a 21 yo CQ gal whom I met at Lido. In June, a tall 25 yo Chengdu model came to spend 3 weeks w/ me. Some bros found her very attractive. But not me. She has been trying to return to me. She is serious about having a kid w/ me and a LT relationship. But I don't know her well enough and don't trust her completely. She is also a spendthrift. KT is very frugal, just as tall n pretty, has bigger boobs and is much younger.
In the months of July and August , I had two new LPs, a TW student n a tall real estate agent from Fujian. My oldest LP HW or WX also came to spend 3 weeks in August.
Within minutes after meeting my three current LPs, I offered to BY them. Yeah, even though I had 3-4 OTHER LPs at that time, all in SG. Thankfully, all three said no initially. After they rejected me again, I just walked away. What if all three accepted me initially? I would think of ways to delay the consummation of the RS, of course.
I returned to Gotham City near the end of August.
KT said yes in mid Sep 2016. She was in CQ at that time.
PL said yes the day after my return to Sg in late Sep. LL said yes in early Oct.
All three agreed to be my LPs because I was non-reactive when they rejected me. Additionally, I was very bold n reiterated my desire for them, then walked away, never looking back. In fact, they all initiated contact w/ me to say they wanted to be my LP.
The amount of my financial support for them was not even mentioned before they agreed. Not even once. Then I worked out the terms n details of the BY w/ them.
They hv been w/ me since late Sep to mid Oct 2016. All three are students. One of them may return to China early next yr. Her parents want her to get married. But she wants me to keep her in Xiamen. I like her but may not hv time for her.
I hv a new Sichuan gal n an ex LP who want to come to Sg next month. I also hv a cute 18 yo Hakka virgin, a first yr student at Qingdao University, who wants me to keep her in China. And my oldest LP HW or WX and yr 96 Lisa also want to return after CNY next year. I like them but may not be able to keep all of them.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by JoelMatip
Hi Professor
It is very true that self-esteem is very important. Many guys failed badly because oft his self-esteem issue.
Often or not, guys never think more positive and always think impossible for me. The reason many failed to get their hot gal becuase they always think they will never get her.
When I was reading your thread, I enjoyed so much because you shared so many real life example and theories from guru.
I hope to be more proficient to court more gals.
Please dun stop sharing with us.
Have a great weekend.
Bro,
Your mindset and behaviour are the keys to how girls, women and others will treat you and react to you.
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Originally Posted by Craze4Sex
Bro WB
Another interesting arcticle above.
Fully agreed with the guru and you. Transfering the mental state to the gal.
I hope to be Don Juan too.
Hope to continue reading and will contribute soon.
Have a great week.
Bro Aspiring Don Juan,
A very good article.
Yeah, never brag.
Transfer your sexual state to her.
Get your gals addicted to you sexually and emotionally.
But a word of warning.
You may become too successful for your own good. Must pick your gals very carefully.
If you dump an emotionally unstable gal or worse, a psychotic, she may stalk you and harm you physically. Or she may commit suicide.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by EasternWind
Some of us are shy to talk to girls that we like .
Bro,
Go out and approach 500 gals in the next 10 days. Would Al Capone be shy?
Bro,
It's difficult to say which LP is the best.
My three current LPs are certainly among the best, in terms of looks, figure n character. They are THE most frugal ones and they all treat me like an emperor. And, best of all, I hv spent the least on them. Prior to meeting them, yr 96 Lisa or LS was the most frugal.
Among my current LPs, the youngest is yr 97 KT who turned 20 two months ago, and the other two LL n PL are in their early to mid 20s. I met all three in the month July 2016, LL around 6th, KT 16th and PL 26th. They became my LPs quite easily, after their initial rejections. Reflecting on my saga w/ them, I hv learned a lot. I'll provide details n analysis of these cases. Of course, I was in the right place at the right time. But most importantly, It was my mindset and all three are classic examples that buttress the validity of the popular sayings:
"You need to let go to get what you want."
"Things that you want 'lightly' come easily."
I met all three current LPs for the first time last July. From June thru August 2016 was the most hectic months for my xiao didi.
In those 3 months, I had a secret gf CF, a 21 yo CQ gal whom I met at Lido. In June, a tall 25 yo Chengdu model came to spend 3 weeks w/ me. Some bros found her very attractive. But not me. She has been trying to return to me. She is serious about having a kid w/ me and a LT relationship. But I don't know her well enough and don't trust her completely. She is also a spendthrift. KT is very frugal, just as tall n pretty, has bigger boobs and is much younger.
In the months of July and August , I had two new LPs, a TW student n a tall real estate agent from Fujian. My oldest LP HW or WX also came to spend 3 weeks in August.
Within minutes after meeting my three current LPs, I offered to BY them. Yeah, even though I had 3-4 OTHER LPs at that time, all in SG. Thankfully, all three said no initially. After they rejected me again, I just walked away. What if all three accepted me initially? I would think of ways to delay the consummation of the RS, of course.
I returned to Gotham City near the end of August.
KT said yes in mid Sep 2016. She was in CQ at that time.
PL said yes the day after my return to Sg in late Sep. LL said yes in early Oct.
All three agreed to be my LPs because I was non-reactive when they rejected me. Additionally, I was very bold n reiterated my desire for them, then walked away, never looking back. In fact, they all initiated contact w/ me to say they wanted to be my LP.
The amount of my financial support for them was not even mentioned before they agreed. Not even once. Then I worked out the terms n details of the BY w/ them.
They hv been w/ me since late Sep to mid Oct 2016. All three are students. One of them may return to China early next yr. Her parents want her to get married. But she wants me to keep her in Xiamen. I like her but may not hv time for her.
I hv a new Sichuan gal n an ex LP who want to come to Sg next month. I also hv a cute 18 yo Hakka virgin, a first yr student at Qingdao University, who wants me to keep her in China. And my oldest LP HW or WX and yr 96 Lisa also want to return after CNY next year. I like them but may not be able to keep all of them.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Bro WB, great thread here that I enjoyed reading. I stop for sometime and now back to read.
Fully agreed that we need to let go in order to get what we want. But things that you want lightly comes easily is easier to say than done. Many of us here dun have contact to the gals and so hard to get what we want easily.
Since you had shared so many of your LPs, and when you let the LPs go, do you actually pass them to your friends or recommend to other guys?
You need not to reply if the question above was sensitive. Dun mean to spoil your happy days.
Thanks for reply an agreed that women have sixth or seventh senses.
Have a great day bro!
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Originally Posted by JoelMatip
Bro, thank you for taking time to reply to me.
Will remember your valuable advice.
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Originally Posted by Lewanbowski
Awesome thread here, support.
Have a great week ahead bro WB.
Bros,
Tks for your posts.
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Originally Posted by CaressPussy
Bro WB, great thread here that I enjoyed reading. I stop for sometime and now back to read.
Fully agreed that we need to let go in order to get what we want. But things that you want lightly comes easily is easier to say than done. Many of us here dun have contact to the gals and so hard to get what we want easily.
Since you had shared so many of your LPs, and when you let the LPs go, do you actually pass them to your friends or recommend to other guys?
You need not to reply if the question above was sensitive. Dun mean to spoil your happy days.
Anyway will continue to read and contribute.
I too love to have many gals if possible.
Cheers to you.
Bro,
Be more resourceful and connect w/ more girls/women.
I like to see many hundreds of gals before focusing on 2-3 who appear to be the most attractive to me.
My LPs are not easily transferable to a friend. They don't do FL and some never worked in the nite scene. Oftentimes, I part way w/ them because of their visa expiration. I hv dumped quite a few. Some of them hv forgiven me and still want o return! The last time I was dumped by a LP was in April/May 2010. Read my posts on the tall 18 yo. She came back on tourist pass in 2013. I refused to fuck her because she wasn't so attractive by then.
I had tried to intro BF to a few ex LPs and they felt insulted. So I won't do it again.
BTW, it's natural for both men and women to desire multiple sexual partners. This desire has been modified and/or suppressed by social and religious conditioning.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by bruth
Support excellent thread by bro WB.
Cheers.
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Originally Posted by TMen
Yes, very true .
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Originally Posted by RobinGibb
Happened to come across this thread, so much things to learn from Bro WB.
Really awesome and inspiring to note that he had slept with 5k women.Very impressive.
I think I had slept with maybe 100+ women so much lesser.
Bro WB, how many women you had slept with?
Hope to read more in this thread here and continue my inspirational.
Hope you have a jolly good time.
Rocking goodnees!!
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Originally Posted by TomDickorHairy
Just sleeping only?
Bros,
Not just sleeping. I like to make passionate love to them.
How many women have I fucked? Not sure. I prefer long term relationship and quality over quantity. Of course, at least many hundreds.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Good afternoon to all samsters,
As I hv mentioned in my previous post, my three current LPs all rejected me initially, not once but twice.
Approximately 2/3 of all my LPs hv rejected me initially in the past 8 1/2 years. It has been great because over 95% of ALL gals I hv approached say yes, eventually.
I hv some musings on rejection and how to turn the dire situation around.
Everything hinges on how you react to the rejection. Most men will get angry or feel dejected. A few become violent. These are idiotic losers! Very immature n childish. Zero emotional control. This behaviour is screaming to the girl's primal brain: I'm a loser! I'm a frustarted man who can't get gals.
Always agree w/ her decision to reject you!
Remain very relaxed n calm n totally non-reactive.
This will demonstrate to her your emotional strength and self mastery. Most attractive masculine trait for survival, as far as her primal brain is concerned.
Don't forget you're always the PRIZE and it's her big loss to reject you. Feel very sorry for her...
Yup, that is the right mindset.
Any comments?
Cheers!
Bro WB