Does the so call " true love " still exist???

[Freman]

hi,

anyway, read thru so many post.... including the more recently transformer postings (good 1 brothers)....

frankly, I would not think that true love doesn't exist.... being in the 'game' for so long.... I do come across alot of gals who are sincere and not materialistic like some that are encountered by brothers here.....

for every post that exist here, there's probably some gals out there complaining that sg guys are so hopeless....

the fact is, true love... can it come from 'fei mei' (fat gals) ? ugly girls ?

if your answer is yes.... then there are many gals out there for you.... they don't care if you got good job, got car or not..... just HDB (stay with parents also don't mind) will do....

so.... that's what's the logic ? of course, if we want only TRUE LOVE from CHIO BU.... then ask yourself..... what would make them choose you ? The world is cruel..... choices are made based on parameters.....

[Mighty Megatron]

Originally Posted by slyer

i feel tat when comes to findin gf most guys based on looks of the gal. when comes to wife, personality is veri impt cos we haf to live with wife for many yrs to come... no pt gettin a pretty wife n quarrel everyday

True. Girl not pretty nevermind so long not ugly until cannot fuck. Wife pretty but sleep around with other people every other day you better off marrying an ex-whore.

[Mighty Megatron]

Originally Posted by Freman

frankly, I would not think that true love doesn't exist.... being in the 'game' for so long.... I do come across alot of gals who are sincere and not materialistic like some that are encountered by brothers here.....

for every post that exist here, there's probably some gals out there complaining that sg guys are so hopeless...

Agree bro but usually those nice girls already taken. Have heard it a dozen times how some my female friends keep telling me that I make a good husband great boyfriend etc but won't introduce any girl to me. Meanwhile I got to put up with listening to their boyfriend problems

Singapore guys are not hopeless, just that these girls practice double standards. A local guy brings them out for a dinner under the stars in an open field the guy is cheap. But if it was an ang moh he becomes romantic.

[no_faith]

in cruel reality,

if a woman has quality, why she would chose sumting in low quality...wich also applies to man.

end of day, it is not the true love tat brings them together.
observe couples ard u.

to me, money>love

[Xdecepticon]

Originally Posted by slyer

i feel tat when comes to findin gf most guys based on looks of the gal. when comes to wife, personality is veri impt cos we haf to live with wife for many yrs to come

Not many man would put Love before beauty/looks. Normally the latter would be the first to ignite any future relationship. But also equally important thing is that after marriage the wife must also ensure to watch her weight/beauty and be more sensitive to their husband needs.

[Xdecepticon]

Originally Posted by Freman

read thru so many post.... including the more recently transformer postings (good 1 brothers)....

Haha, just to loosen up or else this thread so serious and melancholy.

I suppose like we guys, woman also fussy about man too. But the trouble with gils are after period of time they would change of heart and literally swallow their words/promises they made during those courtship time. And the worst are gils who made the first move to start a relationship and also the one to initiate the split. Damn it!

[Xdecepticon]

Originally Posted by Mighty Megatron

Singapore guys are not hopeless, just that these girls practice double standards. A local guy brings them out for a dinner under the stars in an open field the guy is cheap. But if it was an ang moh he becomes romantic.

100% agreed with you, my Lord. When come to age barrier, is always a problem for the local guys. Too old for her lah. But you can see so many old qwai lou holding hand in hand with young local gils (young enough to be his daughter/grd daughter). Double Standard indeed!

[no_faith]

"many old qwai lou holding hand in hand with young local gils"
maybe the date of withdrawing cpf is near.

[curious79]

Originally Posted by Xdecepticon

100% agreed with you, my Lord. When come to age barrier, is always a problem for the local guys. Too old for her lah. But you can see so many old qwai lou holding hand in hand with young local gils (young enough to be his daughter/grd daughter). Double Standard indeed!

Yap Bro saw many these type of couples lately....well....maybe double standard but I cant help to feel it is a bit sad in a sense....for both the old man and young gal.

Haha, told myself I will not want to become like this; as much as I dream to be in love again, I have mentally prepared myself to walk finish my life journey alone.

Like Hua Yi Xiong (Hero), I think I also "ming fan gu xing" haha (damn if only I am so good looking and got kung fu ) then at least not tat bad!!

[Xdecepticon]

Originally Posted by no_faith

"many old qwai lou holding hand in hand with young local gils"
maybe the date of withdrawing cpf is near.

That dont seem the case here. I am referring to those old qwai lou foreign "talent" aka ang mo quee. Problem with sillyporean are they still look up on their "colonial master". What to do. Qwai Lou consider themselves white. We are yellow in their eye. They are double standard I can understand. But our local gils (including their parent) also double standard too when come to choosing the bridegroom. They would not hesitate giving their daughters hand of marriage to a 60+ yrs old qwai lou.

[Xdecepticon]

Originally Posted by curious79

but I cant help to feel it is a bit sad in a sense....for both the old man and young gal.

I doubt the gal sad lah. Gold diggers! Can see how proud they were, holding and kissing in public. Show off. Kind of like owing an Amex Card whereas you local holding debit cards.

[no_faith]

bro Xdecepticon, u mean ang mo kou?
bo bian their curreny is gd leh.

look at all influences ard, itz all ang mo style. many want to be fake ang mo.
wif their currency and the influences, wat to do.

sumhow, why sum feel sibei proud wif a ang mo bf? sibei big f meh?
skali back to their country, u kana forced to act porn to contribute
our sammyboy exchange link.

[Mighty Megatron]

Originally Posted by Xdecepticon

100% agreed with you, my Lord. When come to age barrier, is always a problem for the local guys. Too old for her lah. But you can see so many old qwai lou holding hand in hand with young local gils (young enough to be his daughter/grd daughter). Double Standard indeed!

No lord please! Just plain old Megatron After all we both fellow decepticons.

Yah man. When with lou qwai lou it becomes true love. When with lou ah pek it becomes disgusting. Then again let's be fair to the girl. Seriously some of them are so bad that their chances of marrying a local is 0.

[Xdecepticon]

Originally Posted by no_faith

bro Xdecepticon, u mean ang mo kou?
bo bian their curreny is gd leh.

Yes. Ang mo kwai. Honestly you ever notice any old Chinese, Malay or Indian man or ah pek holding hands with any SYT local Chinese, Malay, or Indian gils? Hmmm....

[Microsoft]

Originally Posted by slyer

i feel tat when comes to findin gf most guys based on looks of the gal. when comes to wife, personality is veri impt cos we haf to live with wife for many yrs to come... no pt gettin a pretty wife n quarrel everyday

Actually look can chg... A colleague of mine join the co 7 yrs ago. First impression jus another average looking girl. As time goes by, i get to noe she is actually quite a gentle lady with a very nice personality. Somehow... she shine nowaday whenever i look at her. If u ask me now... i will def take her as wife if i'm not oredi married. How sad can it get when the right i come along n u oredi belong 2 someone else.... Haizzz

Another colleague i know frm a ex co. First impression wow chio bu arrr... As time goes by... Yike! get to know she oni going aft richman, backstab others to get promotion, bad mouth ppl frm the bad, look down on lower rank colleague n whole load shit of cmi behaviour... looking at her make me 1 2 puke... If u ask me now how much she's worth, i can tell u $100 60/1 and nothing more.