Let me share w/ u 10 ways to increase sexual tension (written by a guru).
10 Ways To Increase Sexual Tension
You see, for some guys you have to teach them the whole “do something to increase sexual tension — then keep doing more stuff” approach, because too many guys are looking for the ONE MAGIC METHOD to getting a woman turned on all at once…
And it doesn’t work like that!
Here’s an analogy….
For most women, oral sex provides the easiest means for orgasm. And yet, there isn’t ONE MAGIC LICK you could do that would make it so that she cums after “one lick”…
Instead, you have to give her a “sequence of licks” if you want the ORGASMIC tension to build.
It works the same way with building SEXUAL tension. So it’s to your benefit to create a list of ST Tactics and then from there, use a sequence/combination of tactics to get her turned on….
If you decide to create a list of ST Categories, as a tip just think of any possible thing that would lead to some sort of increase in sexual tension.
Here’s a list to start with (fill free to add to it…). As you can see, I didn’t limit it to ‘conversation tactics’ or anything like that…
1)Working Out (looking better, improve, pheromones) – Again, this is proof that my objective was to list every possible thing imaginable that could build tension. So trust me, I’m not trying to insult your intelligence by listing obvious things. With that said, working out builds sexual tension in several ways (looking better, being perceived as someone who cares about his health, being perceived as someone who cares about his appearance, being perceived as someone who cares about improving.) In addition to that, the healthier you are, the sexier you will smell – on a pheromones level.
2)Sexual Matching. This works purely on her ability to detect the pattern – even if she’s not consciously aware of it. If every time she has sex, it’s an incredible/great experience, it’s a tension builder for wanting it more in the future. People like doing things that are fun. People like doing things that feel good. Taking it a step further, if she wants hug-like soft sex and you bang it silly, that’s not sexual matching. Sexual Matching is all about identifying what type of sex she wants at the moment and giving it to her.
3)Touching and Caressing. If you’ve been in a relationship before, then you’ve probably created sexual tension by this method. When done the right way, it’s one of the easiest ways to get a woman turned on. When done the wrong way, it’s one of the easiest ways to get a woman turned off.
4)Fantasizing about sex. Thinking about sexual fantasies. Thinking of past sexual memories. Thinking of future sexual encounters. Thinking of a time when she ‘watched sex’ – either on TV or live.
5)Increasing Metabolism. Doesn’t apply to all women. But in general, the metabolic rate has to do with the speed of internal processes. Most people associate it with ‘losing weight’ (the rate of burning calories). It’s more than that. If you understand the true definition, then you’ll realize that it also has to do with speed of horniness because ‘getting horny’ requires a chain of chemical processes that take place in the body. So simple terms: If you speed up her metabolism, then she’s going to be capable of getting horny faster and more often.
6)Gradual Affection. If you ever cuddled and caressed a woman over a few hours, and all of a sudden she wanted to have sex, then it’s because you slowly increased the sexual tension via gradual affection. It’s not limited to actual touching. It could include gradual compliments (verbal caressing), physical rubbing or a combination of both.
7)On and Off Methods. This is a general and one of the basic forms of creating tension (sexual tension and orgasmic tension) Adding pleasure. Taking it away. Adding more pleasure. Taking it away. The best way to understand this is to NOT look at sex as a series of penis thrusts, but rather a series of ‘putting it in’ (adding pleasure) and taking it away (removing pleasure).
8)Hate/Love Swing. This is the more descriptive version of make up sex – emphasizing the transition (swing) from ‘hate/anger’ to ‘love/happiness’. Although ‘make-up sex’ is a concept for most people, technically there are other ‘swings’ that happen that create tension. It’s an emotional version of an ‘on and off’ method.
9)Dramatic Increase in Sexual Value. This is somewhat of a ‘swing’ technique. Instead of building tension via ‘hate/anger’ to ‘love/happiness’, it’s from going from no value to having value or going from value to lots of value. The interesting thing to realize is when you have ‘no value’ in your relationship, you are essentially ‘not a man’. And with new relationships, the woman is often ‘hyper sexual’ (with little effort) because she’s going from ‘no-man/loneliness’ to ‘having a guy who cares about her’. So, increasing your sexual value (especially, dramatically) has a similar effect of her falling in love for the first time all over again.
10)Eliminating turn offs. The idea is to identify things that turn her off and stop doing them. You can go beyond that by figuring out her personal turn offs. Although, it’s technically not a direct tension builder (in most cases), you should still treat it as such.
Bro WB,
Hope you dun mind I quoted the long post above. The methodology described above was meticulous and useful.
I hope to apply the methodology as my next analogy sample. Is like a mixed genre.
Wish me good luck.
Oops, please continue to post more useful tips here.
I was eating my late dinner at jln besar. Came across some shabby red red areas. I saw all the ah tiong bu standing outside.
1) I aim for the one i want
2) I check the surrounding to see if theres alot of public
3) I approach if 1&2 cleared
4) I directly say, i take fancy of you... 150, i open room. Let's get to know each other.
5) I show her the moolah directly and open nego
6) If she gum, we go, if not gum then i change target.
Nothing much to strategize one. Because, they are not meant to be lover.
I like your method! Pls share more stories if you have them. I will surely support your thread
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I was eating my late dinner at jln besar. Came across some shabby red red areas. I saw all the ah tiong bu standing outside.
1) I aim for the one i want
2) I check the surrounding to see if theres alot of public
3) I approach if 1&2 cleared
4) I directly say, i take fancy of you... 150, i open room. Let's get to know each other.
5) I show her the moolah directly and open nego
6) If she gum, we go, if not gum then i change target.
Nothing much to strategize one. Because, they are not meant to be lover.
Bro, tks for sharing.
What you described have slight deviation. What Bro WB discussed here is BYing gals that meet his criteria. He rarely does ST and he offer just to test market.
Anyway will like to read more if you can share some success stories.
Jimmy (not his real name) is a professional paid “escort,” a Gigolo....
XX: Okay Jeremy, since you brought it up, let’s talk about “in bed,” if you don’t mind. What’s your secret?
Jimmy: No secret, really. First, I try to get her to relax and feel real comfortable. I caress her and talk softly. I gently kiss and nibble on all her sensitive places. I ask her to be honest with me and tell me her sexual fantasies. I ask for her sexual wish list, so to speak, and nod approvingly at everything she says. I tell her how sexy she looks and how she really turns me on. You’d be surprised how often I hear that the men they know rarely do this.
I take my time—do everything verrry slowly. I get her to a high level of excitement… I use my tongue….my fingers. I make it unbearable. I urge her to surrender…to let go. I never let go myself until she reaches the absolute height of her sexual experience.
When we are finished I tell her what a great lover she is –the best.
XX: Whew! I’m exhausted. So at the days end you are satisfied with a job well done.
Jimmy: Yes. I think being a gigolo is an honorable profession. The rewards are many ---not just the money.
XX: Thanks Jeremy, for being so open with us. I think I’ve learned a few things.
Jimmy: Thank you, too. May I leave you a few of my cards?
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Bro WB
Gigolo is best lover and made the gal super shiok. IMO, the gigolo had the best sexual skills and techniques.
i agreed that paying attention to gal needs and making sure you tickle every sensitive parts of her body to ensure full orgasms. She can get addicted to this man sex and will repeat many times. I had tried and successful in many times. Making your lover comfortable is the key and dun rush.
Gigolo is best lover and made the gal super shiok. IMO, the gigolo had the best sexual skills and techniques.
i agreed that paying attention to gal needs and making sure you tickle every sensitive parts of her body to ensure full orgasms. She can get addicted to this man sex and will repeat many times. I had tried and successful in many times. Making your lover comfortable is the key and dun rush.
Bro, please have a great day and enjoy yourself.
Cheers.
Tq to bro for posting the above.
Not easi to be gigolo. Tough job to service matured women who had funny needs.
I'm going to re-examine a favourite topic of mine: The Rashomon Effect.
I knew it was a typo or oversight when I used 'morale' instead of 'moral' in my recent post.
When I was searching for the posts in which I used the word 'moral' as a noun correctly, I came across my thread on 'Rashomon Effect."
For example, it took me 3 yrs before I noticed the word 'OUSIDE' in "Picking up KTV gals ouside KTVs." What is OUSIDE?
At this time, I like to focus on a sentence which our dear bro chenzong wrote:
"Moral is what makes the troops not shoot civilians."
Notice that 'moral' is used as a noun here.
Somehow it just doesn't sound pleasing to me. I wonder if it could also be a typo or oversight.
May I offer my 2 cents? Let me try. The following sentences sound more pleasing to me.
"Morality is what makes the troops not shoot civilians."
"Morals are what makes the troops not shoot civilians."
Hv a great day!
Bro WB
Bro just read and learned of the "Rashomon Effect"
"The Rashomon effect is contradictory interpretations of the same event by different people. The phrase derives from the film Rashomon, where the accounts of the witnesses, suspects, and victims of a murder and possible rape are all different.Oct 1, 2016".
True that "Reality is in the mind of beholder".
I love the motto "Morally Upright".
To me, I never believe in hit and run especially when comes to non WLs. If a non working lady willing to have sex with you then there is some morals there that I dun dump her without reasons. Just like soldiers dun shoot unarmed civilians.
Hope to continue reading here. Also hope you enjoy a nice weekend.
I have been taking the little dried red fruit you mentioned for more than a month and its working wonders - for my eyes... I will continue to eat it on a daily basis... I cannot find any health food/supplements that is so effective and beneficial and yet so darn cheap! Btw, I don’t take the extract/juice/concentrate but actually eat the fruit itself by first soaking it in hot water…
Sexual peak and virility is not related to age, though I’ll be happy if I’m half as strong as you when I reach your age. I found that my sexual performance suffers greatly when I put on excessive weight due to over-eating, lack of exercise and stress. A healthy lifestyle with regular exercise and healthy eating will always guarantee sexual prowess! There is no secret or substitute for it. I don’t smoke and I don’t drink excessively – these things put unnecessary stress to the liver and system and in turn affect how we perform in bed.
Something related to sex…
Have you tried asking your gals to suck your dick straight after you’ve cummed (from penetrative intercourse)? Every time my gal does that to me, I’ll scream in ecstasy! I really can’t describe or explain that feeling but its like pain and pleasure all mixed up into something so strong and unbearable yet so shiok. My gal doesn’t know why sucking me dry right after I cum in her Peach Garden Hole can give me such extreme reactions but I told her: what if I licked your clitoris right after you’ve cummed? She said: super sensitive. Anyways, I don’t see the same kind of reaction from Jap AV actors when they put their spent dicks into the AV gals mouth right after sexual intercourse so I’m posting this question here – have you tried it before and if so, do you have the same feeling as me?
Bro WB, I really like bro FA article above back in 2013.
As a senior citizen and aging best to keep ourself slim fit. Overweight will weigh down your sexual performance. I love eggs to keep the virility.
I can share the same sentiments about bro FA's gal sucking his dick just after shooting. The feeling was enormous and will felt totally spent. At our age that would been ultimate.
Hope you can continue to post more and will comment whenever have the time.
23-08-2017, 10:38 AM
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