the 3 that changed me

[queeniegal]

Originally Posted by curiouslala

haha.. my own birthday present is spending songkran festival in thailand. it would be the greatest birthday gift ever if all goes well..
so, sorry.. I hv to save my salary to go thai and can't have u as my bday pressie.. haha..
or maybe who know, in 2013 or 2014 we can celebrate birthday if I move to there..
let my feet lead my way ba..

sis, don't be so hard on bro E la.. I think he's in his rehabilitation period.. let him be whatever he wanted and not judge him..
*erm.. I think I learn this somewhere*

as the time keep tickling away, my heart pounding fast inside its cage.. I can feel my 'bad-ass' and 'no-gut' self fighting.. should I show my paws and move towards him or should I just sit and lick my wound?

I just back frm Thai lol crazy shopping!

I nv judge him haha.. Just speak freely I'm very blunt in the very first post I post here. I think and I speak. If he could not take it too bad lor

Afterall is just a thread and don't think he so petty man right?

[queeniegal]

Originally Posted by kittymae

Lol..
Live n let live..

Yeah, give bro E a chance la.. )
Gotta give him credit for taking all the arrows shot at him last night

Lol I was jus speaking my thoughts haha if he took it too serious I'm very sorry.

[queeniegal]

Originally Posted by kittymae

U never know what some bleach will do! ((:
Give him a break...at the very least if he is doing that, he aint announcing it to the entire world, that is a change...

Peace peace...

Perhaps? ((:

Haha bleach won't change it he need a doc I feel.
I seen few guys like him. Personally my close buddy he is same like him. But I know why my friend he become like that haha I also encourage him see doc however his ego is high...

This type of man lots of thinks run inside them nobody will able to help him only himself and this type if man they usually very temperamental and their head and emotional are mix up.

So if he belong to this I seriously encourage to see doc if not long run he will suffer. N gal beside him will suffer

That all for now work work work! .

[queeniegal]

I'm not so sugar coating or love liking like two sis here. Haha
In real life and here same personality

[kittymae]

Originally Posted by queeniegal

Haha bleach won't change it he need a doc I feel.
I seen few guys like him. Personally my close buddy he is same like him. But I know why my friend he become like that haha I also encourage him see doc however his ego is high...

This type of man lots of thinks run inside them nobody will able to help him only himself and this type if man they usually very temperamental and their head and emotional are mix up.

So if he belong to this I seriously encourage to see doc if not long run he will suffer. N gal beside him will suffer

That all for now work work work! .

No 2 persons are the same
I feel u shouldn't just generalize a cos of one case. I can't speak about ur friend cos I do not know him, similiarly I don't think anyone of us can judge EoS because none of us truly knows him
This is an online world afterall. Take everything with a pinch of salt
Besides, u also said "so if he belongs to this"- ur use of the conditional form indirectly says it all.

sometimes people don't change because others don't give them a chance but condemn them immediately. If u disagree, does that mean the yellow ribbon project is in vain? For nought? Isnt it about having another opportunity? Everyone deserves a second chance regardless of their past.

Live and let live
If one day u were in the same position, would u want someone in unceasingly pick at u? Or would u prefer to be given a chance?

I should add, I think what u pointed out also gd some merit but maybe put Ina different way

[curiouslala]

sis queenie..
wahhhh.. so nice hur..
I'm so thrilled to go thaiiiii..

I better no comments about bro E.
its his life, he can do whatever that he want..
I don't really care about whatever that he do or did..
as long as me or my friend's not suffered from his wrong doings..
if one of us suffered bcos of him, it'll be my problem..

[kittymae]

Originally Posted by queeniegal

Haha bleach won't change it he need a doc I feel.
I seen few guys like him. Personally my close buddy he is same like him. But I know why my friend he become like that haha I also encourage him see doc however his ego is high...

This type of man lots of thinks run inside them nobody will able to help him only himself and this type if man they usually very temperamental and their head and emotional are mix up.

So if he belong to this I seriously encourage to see doc if not long run he will suffer. N gal beside him will suffer

That all for now work work work! .

Originally Posted by curiouslala

sis queenie..
wahhhh.. so nice hur..
I'm so thrilled to go thaiiiii..

I better no comments about bro E.
its his life, he can do whatever that he want..
I don't really care about whatever that he do or did..
as long as me or my friend's not suffered from his wrong doings..
if one of us suffered bcos of him, it'll be my problem..

Lolz.. Queenie supported the Thai economy for those few days.. The spike in their GDP can be attributed to her

Lala sis..what u said reflects my mantra exactly...
Truly sistas lol

[queeniegal]

I'm very supportive in yellow ribbon. I go for the run too.
I go shelter to help out this guys. I stay at places where. I saw drug addict, gangster, how people nv change and how people change. Cause when my family biz went down I stay in places where all type people ard me..

I speak off my mind. I strongly feel everything happen for a reason. Every drug addict or crime convicts they are given a chance but is the mental will that does not allow them to change.

Those who nv change even lot of people care for them or give them chance because they look down on themselves. They can walk out of the dark side of them.
They feel interior, they think the action they done is only way to gain attention. That why social worker and counsellor come in to walk them out.

That why I would encourage him or who ever to seek for professional helps.

Here a story I would share is a real life.. Few years ago there a lady she met a guy. He was having a professional career. That guy purse her but not as a gf but saying let try things out. Guy told the gal abt the past of his. This gal feel pityful trying to help him. She really put in lot of concern and care.

Eventually that guy get into her pant. She thought he accept Her. But real fact true is not that guy nv fall for her he still dwelling on the past for 6 years he been screwing up gals and making many hearts breaks.
He can't walk out of the darker side of him. He just tell that gal I dun deserve you being so nice to me. He went disappeared.

The gal was my friend she was crazy now went on medication she dont understand why he did that to her. All she want she want to help him care for him she know nobody understand him.. She willing to be that someone.

What I worried the most, this type of guy they went thru lots don't even know hw to get out of it. They choose to disappear and avoid. The person who get hurt is the one who give them all the love, their body their soul...

So to me whoever going thru such or similar turmoil shd go for professional advices. Before they embark with new chapter in life.

I dun wish to hear any woman went crazy or guy went crazy.

Yes here is a virtual world, for everyone to stream off and speak freely. If everyone trying to just hide on dark side and nobody tell them where shd they be heading to or being rude or blunt. They will nv know they need to seek for help.

I'm nt prefect either I know I'm also having my dark side.
I can't let go of something which I'm hanging on. But I don't and try nt to do things that hurt other or myself.

[queeniegal]

Originally Posted by curiouslala

sis queenie..
wahhhh.. so nice hur..
I'm so thrilled to go thaiiiii..

I better no comments about bro E.
its his life, he can do whatever that he want..
I don't really care about whatever that he do or did..
as long as me or my friend's not suffered from his wrong doings..
if one of us suffered bcos of him, it'll be my problem..

Lol I go almost every 5 mths lol

[BernardFrosty]

Wwwaaahhh....this is like some kinda virtual 4P with Mr E in the middle. Envy envy envy.

Speaking from a guy's perspective. It's always the players that makes the best keepers. They've made the most outta it during their game time and when they do settle down.

It is "Been there, done that, pass !!!". There's no more temptations.

It's very often those goody 2 shoes that could not resist when they are being shown a whole new world.

Just my 2 cents from all my buddies around me.

[nonSen5es]

Originally Posted by queeniegal

Yes here is a virtual world, for everyone to stream off and speak freely. If everyone trying to just hide on dark side and nobody tell them where shd they be heading to or being rude or blunt. They will nv know they need to seek for help.

I'm nt prefect either I know I'm also having my dark side.
I can't let go of something which I'm hanging on. But I don't and try nt to do things that hurt other or myself.

Thanks fer sharing ... there is only so much medications can do ... knots have to be undone still ... or else you've got to figure out how to live with it ...

[acidicavex]

Mr E you are the new MAN of this Kitty thread center of attraction liao!!!!

3F 1M

have fun and rem to give us a FR.

[nonSen5es]

Originally Posted by EnigmaofSorrow

If I become gay.. I owe u a coffee... hows that...

hahaha come here kana poke poke poke hehee

I don't think being gay really is down to situational circumstances ... mostly it's just it is because it is ... you can't really change it ...

But then again ... had a guy friend who's always into gals and then figured out that as long as he is "loved" ... doesn't matter the sexuality & he came out of his closet.

[nonSen5es]

Originally Posted by acidicavex

Mr E you are the new MAN of this Kitty thread center of attraction liao!!!!

3F 1M

have fun and rem to give us a FR.

kekeke EOS has been issued a challenge

[queeniegal]

Originally Posted by nonSen5es

Thanks fer sharing ... there is only so much medications can do ... knots have to be undone still ... or else you've got to figure out how to live with it ...

Ha if I need to seek for professional i will as of now work will numb me. So ya.. Thanks.

Medications will just let u forget it. Looking for professional is to open up the nutshell of yr which usually people fear to tell others.

sharing the darkest to the professional they will guide u thru. That the road of recovery at least to me.

I always like to end my day with this self talk. What I done, right or wrong why I done that. I'm nt a saint ha I do make mistake and also did stuff that overboard. I have friend there for me listen to my dark side. I will confess the mistake I did. If my friend said I'm wrong I admit it after some thoughts.

Life is a learning journey everyone need to fall and stand. Need someone to support.. be it friends or stranger. Walk toward the goal we want in life and embrace it. As life is too short to hate, resentment, to live in past.

I myself trying to walk out of the past too (=