Gers Are Still Gers

[MoonBlaze]

Originally Posted by Five Stone

KFC 3 piece plate, one time settle all issues lah, no worries, no need to take cover, no need to find excuses.

Good for you.

[OceanEleven]

Originally Posted by dejavu

Not bad ... could be better. Lost in the most undesirable of places and circumstance. How's work? December coming... window dressing starts...
cheers

Got caught and lost in some of the most undesireable situation. No one to blame but myself. True though, not bad but wouldn't mind better.

[MoonBlaze]

Originally Posted by OceanEleven

Got caught and lost in some of the most undesireable situation. No one to blame but myself. True though, not bad but wouldn't mind better.

OK...my report will follow towards X'mas...cos too much bad times nothing good to talk on.......

[Tripster]

Originally Posted by MoonBlaze

I meant you must get Bro Lament drunk in appreciation of his effort to show you around if he makes the trip from Hanoi to HCMC.

Pricky or not is how they are handle. Point to note, they are indeed very emotional charged at times.

So which destination you prefer to go?

Bros,

If you are keen to go HCMC, let me know. My contact there can put you up in a nice hotel (he is the front office mgr) in the heart of Zone 1, plenty of action, grls are nice, pretty and money hungry, fun in the ktv, gf in the room...but please be safe and steady, they can hook you nicely and then you are gone...I lost too many kakis like that already...

BTW, one night one grl = 100,000 dong ~ S$100. If you yian dao, they like...sometimes got discount...but it is also their strategy....

I like to take trips...Tripster

[MoonBlaze]

Originally Posted by Tripster

Bros,

If you are keen to go HCMC, let me know. My contact there can put you up in a nice hotel (he is the front office mgr) in the heart of Zone 1, plenty of action, grls are nice, pretty and money hungry, fun in the ktv, gf in the room...but please be safe and steady, they can hook you nicely and then you are gone...I lost too many kakis like that already...

Me not going. Thanks for the offer to help. Know how to handle the KC Trap so dun worry about getting hook.

[OceanEleven]

Originally Posted by Tripster

Bros,
BTW, one night one grl = 100,000 dong ~ S$100. If you yian dao, they like...sometimes got discount...but it is also their strategy....
I like to take trips...Tripster

Thanks Bro, but the place too far out already, seems that the purpose there is either to bonk or business, better hang around in BKK.

[vesfreq]

Originally Posted by OceanEleven

Got caught and lost in some of the most undesireable situation. No one to blame but myself. True though, not bad but wouldn't mind better.

Recently, I had one of the unbelievable experiences in my life. There was this particular girl. Lovely and sweet looking, as usual. She happened to be a clerk in my client's office.

I thought she looked like a person worth going after. But, before I tried to, I took note of whether she had any ring on her wedding ring finger. At first, I was delighted to find out that there wasn't any.

A few hours after I initiated a conversation with her, she came back to me talking to me and I realised she had a ring back on that finger. My very first reaction was angst...

Later, my client hinted to me that she was really married. I didn't know why this left gave me the impression that she was still unmarried, but all that left immense bitterness in me.

Perhaps, I shouldn't have tried to. To know is greater pain than to live in ignorance. Knowing that one is too little too late everytime is an unpleasant experience of continual tragedy.

At times, I wish I can lie back on the ocean waters and allow myself to be covered by the ocean fading into the deep blue. The topic of emotions seems to yield too much and too many tragedies. It is also tempting to even inquisite whether love was a sin itself.

To love seems to mean greater suffering. To be magnanimous appears to imply to others one's naviety. To be principled seems to show greater inflexibility.

[OceanEleven]

Originally Posted by vesfreq

Later, my client hinted to me that she was really married. I didn't know why this left gave me the impression that she was still unmarried, but all that left immense bitterness in me.
Perhaps, I shouldn't have tried to. To know is greater pain than to live in ignorance. Knowing that one is too little too late everytime is an unpleasant experience of continual tragedy.

If you never try, you will never know. To distinct a person marital status by looking for rings is not a foolhardy way, for the status issue is just because we signed our lives away on a dotted line with that piece of paper recognized by the owner of the piece of land you are standing on. There are no indication of the regulation whereby one’s status need to be signified by the presence of the ring on the finger.

Men are one kind of animals when the odds are good, the imagination starts running wild. You are not to be blame but do not give up so easily, you can always look for a greener pastures.

[Five Stone]

Originally Posted by MoonBlaze

Good for you.

Well, seems too good to be true. Handling one gal is a task, two is definitely a challenge. Luckily things turn out well, with no squabble but fun and laughter.

[MoonBlaze]

Originally Posted by vesfreq

I took note of whether she had any ring on her wedding ring finger. At first, I was delighted to find out that there wasn't any.

A few hours after I initiated a conversation with her, she came back to me talking to me and I realised she had a ring back on that finger. My very first reaction was angst...
.

It is common that the wedding band are not on the finger where it should be at times. Sometime, it is removed due to work(avoid damaging)/washing hands (to dry it) etc. I had learned over the years not to give out too big a portion of my heart when starting a relationship. The more commited, the harder the pain when things dun go the way we want it to/tot it might be.... If you felt angst upon seeing it later rather than disappointment...i guess you might have placed a heavy ante on the whole thing emotionally...a gal that seem to be available and turn out to be not so can leave such "heartache" in you? Unless she had intentionally trying to misled you from the beginning. Take it easy on yourself and muster the same courage you have to close the short chapter as you have used to initatied the conversation with her...

In search of the sometime very elusive "other", one simply can't rush things. Live your normal course of life and be more pro-active to talk to others and take notice of those who can at least meet your minimual standard ..sometimes, you will find something special beneath her physically appearance.

Cheer Up!!!!

[MoonBlaze]

Originally Posted by Five Stone

Well, seems too good to be true. Handling one gal is a task, two is definitely a challenge. Luckily things turn out well, with no squabble but fun and laughter.

Maintain your sanity when dealing with them...Should you eventually decided on one of them and wish to proceed further with her...remember to let the other go...actually she will hint you to do so also given the nature of human. In a serious relation, man or woman alike , one will not tolerate the other to have another option/interest.

[Five Stone]

Originally Posted by MoonBlaze

In a serious relation, man or woman alike , one will not tolerate the other to have another option/interest.

What can I say, after this trip, more like a foundation trip, we had our feelings enhanced, all fair and equal, no special preference over any particular one of them. I think we are all adults and understand the rules of the game. Yes, we have our fair share of intimate moments but that is just lust, desire and pleasures, no strings attached (I hope).

[Five Stone]

Originally Posted by vesfreq

Recently, I had one of the unbelievable experiences in my life. There was this particular girl. Lovely and sweet looking, as usual. She happened to be a clerk in my client's office.
To love seems to mean greater suffering. To be magnanimous appears to imply to others one's naviety. To be principled seems to show greater inflexibility.

Do not let this be a setback but rather as an experience. You never know what you gonna get if you never try. Love and courtship goes hand in hand, wooing the girl of your dream, is a dream come true.

[vesfreq]

Originally Posted by MoonBlaze

It is common that the wedding band are not on the finger where it should be at times. Sometime, it is removed due to work(avoid damaging)/washing hands (to dry it) etc. I had learned over the years not to give out too big a portion of my heart when starting a relationship. The more commited, the harder the pain when things dun go the way we want it to/tot it might be.... If you felt angst upon seeing it later rather than disappointment...i guess you might have placed a heavy ante on the whole thing emotionally...a gal that seem to be available and turn out to be not so can leave such "heartache" in you? Unless she had intentionally trying to misled you from the beginning. Take it easy on yourself and muster the same courage you have to close the short chapter as you have used to initatied the conversation with her...

In search of the sometime very elusive "other", one simply can't rush things. Live your normal course of life and be more pro-active to talk to others and take notice of those who can at least meet your minimual standard ..sometimes, you will find something special beneath her physically appearance.

Cheer Up!!!!

Exactly. Oh well, we can't be too serious with the "hints" which women drop along the way. They are irrational and unpredictable creatures... in the first place.

"Elusive" is the word. I like to compare it with chasing after the rainbow. Once when we were young, the thought of being able to "catch" the rainbow was epidemic. But, years later, this rainbow has manifested itself into the form of a ... woman, which is apparently also impossible to "catch".

Lesson learnt and remembered for the day is, "always take things with a pinch of salt and, if need be, necessary skepticism.

Thanks people. Wish you guys luck in your search for the woman of your lifetime.

[vesfreq]

Originally Posted by OceanEleven

If you never try, you will never know. To distinct a person marital status by looking for rings is not a foolhardy way, for the status issue is just because we signed our lives away on a dotted line with that piece of paper recognized by the owner of the piece of land you are standing on. There are no indication of the regulation whereby one’s status need to be signified by the presence of the ring on the finger.

Men are one kind of animals when the odds are good, the imagination starts running wild. You are not to be blame but do not give up so easily, you can always look for a greener pastures.

"If you never try, you will never know" <- This line sounds divinely familiar.

I must admit that you are absolutely right about the rings on fingers.

If only there is a difficulty level setting for love and courtship, sometimes we all need to have things a little easier to start off with.