Regret Marrying A China Wife?

[Max77]

Originally Posted by Peggie83

PRC gals and SG/Msia gals is the all same kinds - 



Well they still need a cock inside their pussy once in a while. Tat's when ppl like me become useful

Romance is like a box of chocolate, it either melt away in a matter of time or they can go wasted.

Ppl who wished to consider marriage better think properly the reason(s) to get married carefully. Bcoz u can oni sacrifice as much as the romance last.

[Peggie83]

Originally Posted by Max77

Well they still need a cock inside their pussy once in a while. Tat's when ppl like me become useful

Romance is like a box of chocolate, it either melt away in a matter of time or they can go wasted.

Ppl who wished to consider marriage better think properly the reason(s) to get married carefully. Bcoz u can oni sacrifice as much as the romance last.

We can marry those non-拜金女 or ladies with realistic expectation.

Chinese gals (PRC/SG/Msia) mostly very 拜金 nothing wrong about it.

But what they demand is normal working class guys cannot give them

[OKTmarlborotann]

Originally Posted by Max77

Well they still need a cock inside their pussy once in a while. Tat's when ppl like me become useful

Ppl who wished to consider marriage better think properly the reason(s) to get married carefully. Bcoz u can oni sacrifice as much as the romance last.

Agreed with you

[Max77]

Originally Posted by Peggie83

We can marry those non- or ladies with realistic expectation.

Chinese gals (PRC/SG/Msia) mostly very  nothing wrong about it.

But what they demand is normal working class guys cannot give them

Err...everybody changed. Wad happen after married liao then become "Bai Jin Nv"? U wanna contribute to the high divorce rate ah?

Wah u so fierce one pole sweep 3 countries' gals into the water ah?.

Aiyah everybody got demand. I also got. Everybody got expectation ah. I also got. Can't blame them for having high expectation right? Like tat economy then can improve mah. My expectation not high as them. If fuckable and don't talk nonsense too much ok already

[Waha]

Right now due to the environment we are living in now, expectations are high and most of the time to the extend forgotten our abilities could justify our own spending power.

Everywhere there are goods and bads but so much so that the PRC ladies, Thai or viet seen in SG but relatively on the ugly side. Like those 3 countries they are looking to those who are give their family and them a better life just like alot of SG gals who prefer ang moh... Stating Ang Moh are more romantic, more capable and even much more gentlemen than local guys.

My best buddy who had a Taiwanese gf, that gal even more powerful in digging money. Spending what my friend able to earn to some extend... Just that they are not much taiwanese gal here also...

The more different countries of people we are expose to, the more uglier side we will see...

[Peggie83]

Originally Posted by Max77

Err...everybody changed. Wad happen after married liao then become "Bai Jin Nv"? U wanna contribute to the high divorce rate ah?

Wah u so fierce one pole sweep 3 countries' gals into the water ah?.

Aiyah everybody got demand. I also got. Everybody got expectation ah. I also got. Can't blame them for having high expectation right? Like tat economy then can improve mah. My expectation not high as them. If fuckable and don't talk nonsense too much ok already

If we don't show them the gold first, I don't think they will marry us

They deserved it because Chinese women is extremely material

[Max77]

Originally Posted by Peggie83

If we don't show them the gold first, I don't think they will marry us

They deserved it because Chinese women is extremely material

Being materialistic not good meh? Wad u hold in ur hand is wad u really got mah. If u don't like tat type then ignor them lor. I'll go after those type of financially i'm more loose. Can widen my knowledge and experience

[psp100]

Originally Posted by Peggie83

If we don't show them the gold first, I don't think they will marry us

They deserved it because Chinese women is extremely material

They only go for the 5C you had.

[Black_Hawk_Up]

come on. guy want to married a rich woman too if possible isn't it all this basing is quite pointless.

at least i honest to admit that. it is an added advantage. who doesn't want a better life.

[bigangry]

Originally Posted by applepie99

Hi Bros,

I am in my late 30s and planning to get married to my PRC girlfriend next year. She's in her early 20s and working in a 5 star hotel as a GRO in Beijing. I actually first got to know her when I was a hotel guest there. Then we exchanged phone numbers, and since then, she became my regular date whenever I am in Beijing for business. It wasn't hard to bed her, happened after our 2nd date. We have been 2 years together, and lately she's hinting me to to marrry her and not carry on like this. She said her mum has been pressuring her to get married, and have kids so that her mum can help us to look after.

I don't really know her real past, I can only listen to her side of the story. She said I am her 2nd boyfriend, and the first boyfriend was actually puppy love when she was 19. She's very nice to me, and always show concern about my work and my parents. So far, the only bad habit she has is playing mahjong during her off day, which is ok to me because this would occupy her time when I'm not with her.

As we all know, PRC girls are very good actresses good liars, and plain lazy. I believe that she's only revealing her good side to me. I don't know I am making the right decision to marry her because 2 years is not enough to understand her. I dated my first girlfriend for 6 years, and we still end up seperate ways. I heard many stories that PRC girls have 2 faces. In fact I have a friend that married a PRC SYT, and she's really lazy and good for nothing, even for sex. She only likes missionary, so that she doesn't need to exercise. She doesn't do housework or cook, and complaint to his friends that he is not good enough for her, although he's earning 5 figure income. Imagine they have to get their dinner everyday in the foodcourt. I also have a friend that divorce his Singapore wife and marry a PRC girl, and later regret, after the PRC girl revealed her true colors.

So far, I've not heard of any success stories, and this is a big concern. While I love my girlfriend, I don't know if I will regret later, especially wth our age difference. I jus like to hear from bros who have PRC wives to share their views here. Many thanks.

very easy, bring her go back packing for 2weeks

you will see people's true color when u travel and do things 24 hr.. when the going get tough.. people character come out.

[Super Jay]

Bra...............less.................my advise, give up! I have seen and heard alot. Even from my friends who are dealing with them. Told me so many cases but out of 100, so far 1 is true. But again it is my opinion.

[Max77]

Originally Posted by Black_Hawk_Up

come on. guy want to married a rich woman too if possible isn't it all this basing is quite pointless.

at least i honest to admit that. it is an added advantage. who doesn't want a better life.

U r very right in my opinion. But Ofcoz there's black sheep among them who hurt other ppl during the process. Their conscious deserve to be punished.

Originally Posted by bigangry

very easy, bring her go back packing for 2weeks

you will see people's true color when u travel and do things 24 hr.. when the going get tough.. people character come out.

U like to test ppl? Next time u hav wife not doing sex, dishes and wash clothes for a year she must be 'testing' u too. I wonder u still love her the way u were. Pardon me if i offended u. I admire ppl who test themselves rather then other ppl-they r not ur white mice in a cage.

Actually u don't need to test them to get wad u want. U can observe them fr their daily movement/conversation to hav a rough guage (but most in love r always 'blind'). When u test ppl a lot, thru ur life u'll feel tat u've been played-out by ppl whenever things don't go ur way.

[Ohayo]

My advice:

Go on vacation with her somewhere in China and see how living with her is like.
It is totally different between going on dates and living together(even for a short while).

Dated a PRC in China and she does have a different aspect to her.
You'll get to know her better if u spend more time living with her.

Originally Posted by applepie99

Hi Bros,

I am in my late 30s and planning to get married to my PRC girlfriend next year. She's in her early 20s and working in a 5 star hotel as a GRO in Beijing. I actually first got to know her when I was a hotel guest there. Then we exchanged phone numbers, and since then, she became my regular date whenever I am in Beijing for business. It wasn't hard to bed her, happened after our 2nd date. We have been 2 years together, and lately she's hinting me to to marrry her and not carry on like this. She said her mum has been pressuring her to get married, and have kids so that her mum can help us to look after.

I don't really know her real past, I can only listen to her side of the story. She said I am her 2nd boyfriend, and the first boyfriend was actually puppy love when she was 19. She's very nice to me, and always show concern about my work and my parents. So far, the only bad habit she has is playing mahjong during her off day, which is ok to me because this would occupy her time when I'm not with her.

As we all know, PRC girls are very good actresses good liars, and plain lazy. I believe that she's only revealing her good side to me. I don't know I am making the right decision to marry her because 2 years is not enough to understand her. I dated my first girlfriend for 6 years, and we still end up seperate ways. I heard many stories that PRC girls have 2 faces. In fact I have a friend that married a PRC SYT, and she's really lazy and good for nothing, even for sex. She only likes missionary, so that she doesn't need to exercise. She doesn't do housework or cook, and complaint to his friends that he is not good enough for her, although he's earning 5 figure income. Imagine they have to get their dinner everyday in the foodcourt. I also have a friend that divorce his Singapore wife and marry a PRC girl, and later regret, after the PRC girl revealed her true colors.

So far, I've not heard of any success stories, and this is a big concern. While I love my girlfriend, I don't know if I will regret later, especially wth our age difference. I jus like to hear from bros who have PRC wives to share their views here. Many thanks.

[bigangry]

Originally Posted by Max77

U like to test ppl? Next time u hav wife not doing sex, dishes and wash clothes for a year she must be 'testing' u too. I wonder u still love her the way u were. Pardon me if i offended u. I admire ppl who test themselves rather then other ppl-they r not ur white mice in a cage.

Actually u don't need to test them to get wad u want. U can observe them fr their daily movement/conversation to hav a rough guage (but most in love r always 'blind'). When u test ppl a lot, thru ur life u'll feel tat u've been played-out by ppl whenever things don't go ur way.

i dont mean test people, i meant bring her out for travels to observe cause i feel through travelling you will understand each other more. but yeah you are love is blind so it will be difficult even if you see problem before your eyes

anyway i share chores with with my partner at home.

[RealEstateGuy]

Brother, two follow up questions: 1) Do her parents know you slept with her and also do things like BBBJ and other intimate relations with her and 2) are you spending time with her and her family during the Mid-Autunm Festical?

As and additional follow up question, have you had a one on one or one on two discussion with her mum and/or her dad about the course of this relationship? What I mean is have you had discssions in her abscence.

Throw in another one brother, what did the PI say? You have not hired one to check that this "offer" has has not been made to other SG brothers or local men she might be simulanteously courting?

Post your answers and then we can ask some more follow up questions after analyzing the facts.