How to know if she truly loves you or just wants your money

[Peterwong2013]

Originally Posted by lexxxz

all woman want to rich but see like chipers when she do stupid way,

if she love u,she always support u,help u for money management and support to life much better no cheating

1:100 hor... tell me where to find girl like that i go now

[Ttit]

Originally Posted by unfit

Prostitute aka Positive attitude

lol, very positive ah

[Ttit]

Originally Posted by unfit

Alphard suspension tester too

lol siao

[Chillbill]

breakup led me to geylang. a void to fill. Used to pampering my gf. Replaced with WLs. Perhaps I m lucky. The ones I know never demanded. One back in China and wants to start a small biz. Not all are gold diggers. Amitabha.

[Chrisk456]

Originally Posted by Chillbill

breakup led me to geylang. a void to fill. Used to pampering my gf. Replaced with WLs. Perhaps I m lucky. The ones I know never demanded. One back in China and wants to start a small biz. Not all are gold diggers. Amitabha.

Yes, not all of them wants money. Some of them just want to settle in their sweet little village. Hardship of life make them work in an industry like this. The lady Ive known stopped her tour while all her friends signed up for the second leg to Dubai/Taiwan and yet she's not asking for so big. Just treats her nicely and gives what she needs.

[jackjackyyy]

Originally Posted by kid6425

I have moved on.
End of the day, just have to control myself and stop going back to find her. Block and delete her on WeChat.
Now I will just visit random girls even at the same house even if she’s there. Can’t be bothered, when she see me she also just pretend never see me.

To most of them ( be it GL, nightclub, ktv or flower joint ) we are just a customer going to arcade game ( like the 80s, 90s ), they just waiting to see who willing to put more tokens (apart from the visit ).

When I was in Macau 10 years ago, I found the lady massaging me very familiar. Finally I remembered, after chit chat, she mentioned already married, come from zhuhai to Macau to work, surprisingly she still willing to meet me for sex 8 hours and quoted me price.

That said, still possible to meet ladies who are genuine , I have friend who met a lady at flower joint who is genuine.

But few and far between, more likely to get burnt than true love.
Best find someone in your day to day life.
Understand the short term difficulty but it will be over sooner than you thought.

My own experiences, don’t start what you can’t handle both emotionally and financially.

Hope it’s entirely over , no more lingering thoughts

[bradpitt968]

Originally Posted by walao

One of my friend Did that bro....they happily taking care of their twins with his gorgeous ex-Viet WL. Its all fate which I truly believe, respect and mutual understanding. And they are making money and happily ever after, thats what most important. And yes he did settle down there, working in Saigon with his wife and kids with them, but never forget to go back to his wife's hometown up north during winter, which they saved up and built a holiday bungalow. Not expensive, about $240,000 for a 210sqm stand alone bungalow in Thai Nguyen province (50 min northeast of Hanoi). Very beautiful wife and rosy cheeks twin son and daughter. And who said ex WLs cannot come back? As long as they are armed with marriage certs and better still pay income taxes, any government welcome them back.

This guy is rather intelligent and fast learner (from an elite institiuition in Sg and my same year schoolmate). An architect by profession and able to pick up passable Vietnamese language within 5-6mths besides his damn fluent Thai, Japanese, Chinese, Hokkien, Cantonese, Laotian, Russian and English. And luckily for him, his wife speaks passable Chinese eversince she worked in Sg for only close to 1 year. He did a few beautiful hotel projects in Vietnam whule working in an int'l archi firm in Saigon and he is indeed doing pretty well. He is indeed daring to venture out and probably because the power of love. Its all about fate, with determination and true love. And luckily for his wife, she is an orphan with a sec 1 educational level, so no commitment in terms of supporting her too much. Just earn and saving up and guo ri zi for their future. Both couple pretty much entreprenuer. Hardworking and hilarious couple...really do envy them. Wishing them well always. A相夫教子 plus a manicure and pedicure shop owner beautiful wife at the moment with big sparkling eyes and high nose bridge + An intelligent and respectable and ok looking sg hubby. 10+ years apart in terms of ages.

Nothing is impossible in this world, its ai zhor mai zhor nia, ai love truly mai love truly nia....

Wish you well, my 'emigrated' Sg-Viet friend.

Cheers!
Walao

I believe : When there is a will, there is a way.

Most important is both party unite together to make things work. If only one side is doing all the "trying", then it will be tought.

Your friend is very lucky. For 2 person to be together from different background and country is really challenging. But if got enough money, call can settle lah. The problem is if not enough money.