Safe to travel alone with PRC GF back to China?

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Oh, I failed to mention that after my 1st trip there, she told me that she'll be bring her mom out to the mountains for a holiday.....good idea....i tot
Talked to her that day & she was telling me that place so nice blah blah and suddenly said she'll call me back cos her mom is calling her...so i said ok
The call never came
Called her like crazy......no answer or power off....it was an intense few days
Suddenly, one afternoon, she called.....apologiesed like crazy said she lost her mobile and all that.
Said her mom has a phone, you could hv sms me from there, then she said her mom's phone cannot send int'l sms......i was like hmmmm......i know all can maybe cant call but sms surely can, then i heard the interference on the phone that she was calling me from.....the kind that you put your mobile near a landline........then i said, your phone ringing liao.......she exploded and said wat u toking, i got no phone...hv to come down the mountain to call you instead you give me attitude.......I backed down

[DO_YOU_BJ]

There was also another incident, on my second trip up, she said she needs to go out for dinner with her dad and will not be back late.......so of cos i said ok lor
She left abt 7+ but came back at 230am
Asked her why so late3, she was telling me that they were discussing so domestic probs etc...i believed and didn't probe further

On my very last trip up, my mate went along wif me, he wanted a holiday and since i have a 4bedroom apt there, he could bunk in so he joined me.
I could tell he wanted to see also because he is someone who is always very concerned about me.......
That nite, he asked me, this place under who's name...i said company...no way i'll put her name...if the kid was born & it was mine, maybe but since she aborted it, no way.
That night after dinner, she received a call.....we were all in the living room and could hear the caller was a GUY! Could see she was very uneasy and after the call, asked her who it was...she actually said it was from a lady friend of hers, I just remarked that unless we're all stupid or deaf, that definately was no gal who called.......then an outburst came and she dashed into the bedroom upstairs
I followed her up and tried to passify her and calm her down and she said she feels very WRONGED! You always suspect me, never trust me......that went in......and i apologised...that nite we made luv and called it a night

Next day, in the afternoon, she said sorry, i forgot to tell you today is my grandpa's bday, so will be heading over there to celebrate....wanna go...so i asked my kaki and of cos he said no, he'll be uncomfortable
It was about 4+ in the afternoon, she took a shower, did her makeup and left.
Before leaving she said she'll be back very very soon! and off she went

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Around 830pm, she came back, smiling and greeted everyone when she walked in & headed straight to the bedroom to take a shower....I was like, wait a minute, she showered before she went out...the only thing logical was to wash the makeup away, but shower??? Not like her......
That night, was about to hug her under the covers and was surprised that she was wearing her clothes.
You see, when we sleep, we're always stark naked but why suddenly wearing clothes?????
So i asked, she said cold. I said wait a minute, i've been here so many day, the temp has been constant why now suddenly complain cold? Then another outburst came out and she said ok ok...then she took everything off and that nite ended there.

The next day, i came back to our island liao

[DO_YOU_BJ]

My mate was telling me on the plane, dude, something is fishy there.....i told him off...she aint like that...we're in luv, an item & she'll nvr betray me!
He stopped talking about it.

Well in sillypore now, still calling her until one night, she said she's accompanying her friend to the KTV to meet her client???????? I was, what? You go for wat? they go tok business you go for wat????? She said her friend shy ask her to be chaperone...i cannot accept this and i resoned her out that business tok, you go for wat...no logic....you go there to be entertainer is it?????? Another outburst ensued but this time i refuse to back down liao.........this happened when my mate was wif me. I hung up the phone on her after. He told me not to be to controlling blah blah, i says, bro, dun make sense...just no logic cannot accept......just then she called again......said not goin liao....i used a very buay song tone and said ok......

Before my very last trip up, she said she was going for holiday to beijing wif her best friend.....the one wif 3 phones...and i said, wait for me lah, we go up together.......she was like cannot lah, she wanna go le, i promise her liao, i made it obvious that i am not happy. When i flew up, she said she decided not to go liao. Make lao gong happy more important...score points

That very nite me & my mate came back, i called her & she said she's goin up to beijing, I said wat? Nabei, you got it all planned liao, wait for me to come back then go...i cant stop her liao.....wat can i say or do???? Ok go lor
Dun worry lao gong, I will give you hotel number, room number so you can call me direct
At the airport, she called me, and occasionally, can hear her friends voice next to her and even spoke to me.......so i had no reason to suspect
We were still in constant when she was there.....5days passed and she went back home

Few days later, she mentioned about the RMB250k which i mentioned earlier in my posts.........so next part and conclusion.....her return trip to sillypore

[DO_YOU_BJ]

I went for a biz trip to macau, asked her to meet me there and she said she got prob going into macau cos of permit of visa prob.........
Well, that nite at the KTV, killed again...this time a gal from XIAN.......did the usual charm and mind F*** on her and she went nack to my hotel room to spend the nite
Next day, a took the $$$ out from my wallet to give to her and asked her, if you take, its transaction, if you dun, we can have a future together....she decided not to take and asked me tonight how??? Do i go to work? I said dun work, gimme your number & i'll call you to come out tonight then she left....another free bonk.......
After that, my partners came to fetch me for breakfast & during then, she called me....I told her temptation here is very strong, i might not be able to control myself....my partners heard and suggested to me to cross over to zhuhai so she can meet me there.......I suggested it to her and ONZ, she catch the next flt to zhuhai to meet me.....
Because of me, the meeting was adjourned to zhuhai.......
That night she came, it was a 13hr flt, cos no direct so alot of time taken.....
Wild lusty nite passed and I asked her why she decided to come??? I am your lao puo, I am doin wat i am supposed to do....again, score points!

Time to go, so took a limo that sent me straight to macau airport and she another limo to zhuhai airport and home we went

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Well, its decided, she coming back to work to feed me since i am supposed to be broke.
So asked me to help her find a place to stay when she's here.....
I bot a condo unit but never told her...told her rented

This period, I was using more brain than heart liao cos so many things that happens just dun add up....doubts were more than truth and no matter how i force myself to give a benefit of a doubt, just can accept it.

Fetched her from the airport when she came and 1st thing i noticed was a brand new Givenchy handbag....that would cost something like 30k and above over there.........then of cos, we spoke and i noticed that all her teeth has been crowned.....wow, that's a damn freaking ex procedure..........
Asked her where she got the money to do her teeth, she said very cheap, cost only rmb600 only...i was shocked.....so i said ok lah,when we go back, u bring me there, i oso wanna do.

During this time, i literally moved into that place i bought...when she walked in, she ask what's the rent like, i said 2.5k per month...she said cannot be, this place confirm very ex one........

1st few days passed, very nice cos she hasnt started work yet.....then she started working.....

1st day was calling me non stop...said very boring, no business etc
2nd day, called me till abt 11 then totally stop liao
At 3, received an sms saying that she goin supper wif customer and will try to come back ASAP
That nite, when she came back, it was 510am.....i was half asleep but funny thing was that she walked straight into the shower and bathed......hmmmmmm
Then she came to bed but she literally hugged herself in a very insecure gesture
I asked her wats wrong and she said i scared you upset cos i went supper....i said work only wat, unless you went to bed with your customer supper is definitely acceptable.
Next day, woke up and soon came evening and we were discussing where to go for dinner before she headed to work, we already decided on venue then her phone rang, the customer last nite called........
She came into the room, head lowered and told me the customer called and ask her to go for dinner.
I already heard the conversation, basically she already agreed but i act blurr....You come in to ask me, inform me or to tell me? She said i gotta hook this customer
From that day on, this customer was smsing her almost all day, and from intel at the ktv, will be there everynite to look for her.
That night, i said he will surely ask you out for supper also, she said no way, where got people go dinner then supper.....ok i said see lor

Choon choon that nite sms came, said will be late again. When she came back, she looked happy...so i asked her why they went for supper? She said no supper, very bo liao...drove to GL lane by lane to see the street walkers.......i replied really......it's 5:30am liao...wat time did u all leave...almost 3 she replied.....wow can go see street walkers for 2.5hrs...not simple but pure BS I said......she started defending her case say can bring her to my friends clinic to do DNA swab etc to proove her innocence.......just when this ended, another sms came from that guy....saying, if month end not enuff money to spend, let me know.....when i saw this, being a full time cheongster, things not so simple liao, but again self denial........

[goodpartner]

Wow, it's like reading a live commentary; hit the browser refresh and got updated posts.

Carry on bro, you got readers

Originally Posted by azzaro23

Do appericate the advices given by the bros over here. Like what other bros say it all up to me if I willing to carrying on this destructive path or turn back while my dignity is still intact.

As for TS, again, pls do so like bro DO_YOU_BJ by updating this thread on your progress too. All these will serve a good purpose for other wannabes. Never mind the criticism or nag from other bros here

Indeed .. and alot to read ...

[azzaro23]

Originally Posted by goodpartner

Wow, it's like reading a live commentary; hit the browser refresh and got updated posts.

Carry on bro, you got readers




As for TS, again, pls do so like bro DO_YOU_BJ by updating this thread on your progress too. All these will serve a good purpose for other wannabes. Never mind the criticism or nag from other bros here

Yup I will try to update on whatever happened. But it is not as complex as bro DO_YOU_BJ with a lot lesser money involved.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Days passed, she was becoming more withdrawn liao....but then, i forced myself to believe it was me who is not doing rite....tried to be super nice etc
One day, she received a call from home and after that call, she cried........said her grandpa fell and might die from it, so very sad wanna go home n see him.....i of cos supported the idea
During this period, she claimed that she refuses to entertain that guy anymore cos she dun wanna make me feel insecure and true enuff, she never called or sms her anymore
Tmr her flt back so tonight, my mistress told her, we'll all adjourn here and have supper then we send you to the airport.....its a date.
2:30reached the ktv and just when i applied my handbrake, i received an sms, saying she'll be late sorry..........so i just said ok, remember people waiting for you at home so i went back
330 passed still no sight of her...called and she answered in a very cold tone.....ask her where she was, at work, why so quiet, cos i come out to talk to you...when you coming back...now..ok then hung up
430 liao....still no sight...called again...this time on...never answer or deliberately hung up the phone again
I told everyone at home, that's it...she's gone....
But her luggage here, she must come home and take it

Well, she finally did come back...at 6am....in a very cold tone, i am here to take my luggage...nothing else...then i noticed, where's your handbag.....downstairs she replied...i told my other mistress to go down n bring up her handbag.............
I had a hunch it was that guy but no proof...when my other wife came up, she confirmed it was that guy.....she was speechless and i wanted to look at her phone...when i opened the bag, i nearly fainted......I found the phone that she claimed she lost while she was in the mountains wif her mom....and on the log, all the sms and phone calls was from that guy.......apparently, that guy got her a sim card......that was it.....the puzzle is finished.

i told her you can F off liao...its over.....she said i hv a feeling you dun wan me anymore.....i told her back, if you were me, will you want you...she replied no...i said thank you...you already told me what to do.
She then said, its so tiring, lying to you.....you're so sharp.........then i took her stuff and threw it out from the door.......before she walked out, knowing that was it, she popped her hear back and said, I will return....and left.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Initially, i was relieved cos i was so angry but after the anger, came loniless...then mental breakdown!
It was my hangzhou mistress that helped me piece up the puzzle......all the riddles, all the loopholes, the abortion why it was done.....it was then i knew, how dumb i was but again, it was only the beginning of my nightmare

She would use her mom's mobile to send me blank sms almost 5times a day until i cannot take it and replied saying that its over and pls dun bother me again...it was then the recouperation began...which i already mentioned earlier.....

Trust me man, aint worth it........a bro is right, even i knew i crossed the point...the sacred line......with all my sexperience, this could not have happened to a season playboy...BUT IT DID!

So, really, think carefully!

Ok that's all folks, now going for a massage cos fingers very tired liao hahaha

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Well, if you got the $$$ to spend, you will not think in your lite.
Remember, all these while, she never asked....I gave....
As for the place in Chengdu, I got my people to go there 2 days after she went back to throw all occupants out......but by then, already move out liao........House still there since i still go up there quite often......so not really a loss.....

That's Y i keep saying, the stress level here is not the $$$$$, but the heartpain at the end.......

[Born2Skru]

totally see where you're coming from....thanks for sharing mannn

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Well, if you got the $$$ to spend, you will not think in your lite.
Remember, all these while, she never asked....I gave....
As for the place in Chengdu, I got my people to go there 2 days after she went back to throw all occupants out......but by then, already move out liao........House still there since i still go up there quite often......so not really a loss.....

That's Y i keep saying, the stress level here is not the $$$$$, but the heartpain at the end.......

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by Born2Skru

totally see where you're coming from....thanks for sharing mannn

No worries mate.....
I am willing to share as long as it can prevent another bro from falling in......
Like my 3rd mistress said, at the end of the day, who is rite, who is wrong.....
She didnt beg you to stay.....you didnt beg her to stay either.....you went in it willingly....so u can only blame it on yourself.
But good thing is that, you didnt loose much material wise but she lost an opportunity to be a person.......and forever stay in the path of a WL......so stupid of her.....

But the story here is not about her, if about guys falling into this trap.
Till now, bro azarro has replied to many threads but still have not mentioned his findings...i sense he's got somethings he cant say......well his choice..

[azzaro23]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

No worries mate.....
I am willing to share as long as it can prevent another bro from falling in......
Like my 3rd mistress said, at the end of the day, who is rite, who is wrong.....
She didnt beg you to stay.....you didnt beg her to stay either.....you went in it willingly....so u can only blame it on yourself.
But good thing is that, you didnt loose much material wise but she lost an opportunity to be a person.......and forever stay in the path of a WL......so stupid of her.....

But the story here is not about her, if about guys falling into this trap.
Till now, bro azarro has replied to many threads but still have not mentioned his findings...i sense he's got somethings he cant say......well his choice..

Well not say I didn't mentioned my findings, it is just that she didn't do anything like picking up calls & acting strange or doing things which arouse my suspicions.

Everything she does is pretty normal. My suspicions which I have is those I imagined out due to the fact I don't trust her enough.

Or maybe I am too dense or dumb to notice it.

Maybe bros can enlighten me what are the typical things which I suppose to look out for and i try to recall from my memory see it got happened.