Is It Possible to Find Love in SBF?

[d(^_^)b]

Upon reading Ur post, I cried. I really cried. I really really cried…

As a guy, and I know that I should be strong, yet I still cried.

U might be angry with me. But I do not blame U coz I'm e one at fault bcoz I've a GF yet at the same time, I still wanted to be with U...

I hope U'll understand that matters of the heart are hard to control and can only blame myself for falling for U so deeply and everytime I m with U, I feel myself getting excited and in the end, I'm struggling and jostling between happiness and suffering. Thus I sincerely seek Ur forgiveness.

Man once define life as a journey. That two person falling in love should be together could only be said that man meeting the other gender to be the right person and at the right time. But we falling in love could only be described as the right person but meeting at the wrong time.

Thus our end could only be said it's neither Ur fault nor my fault but that the current situation does not allow us to be together.

Life is juz like the galaxy, and everything that we do or the people we meet are juz like the stars out there. Yet our love is juz like a shooting star. Though shortlived yet splendid.

To have known U is considered a kind of fate and whatever our decisions might be, I'll always treasure this kind of fate and even if U do not consider me as a friend, but to me U'll always be a friend and I'll remember U forever...

[asdfghjkl]

Actually I was in the same situation as you before.. quite hard to take it..

[QUOTE=SiakSiBabe]Dear all,

1stly, what kind of standard of you there looking for sex on a commercial sex forum......

[Harrier24B]

Are you really sure it's love? Could it be infatuation? Could it be because of the novelty of having another person?

Love can be found ANYWHERE and it could be possible for things to work out IF it truely is LOVE.

However, if the version of love is to keep falling into the safety net (GF) whenever any problem arises, then forget it and just keep walking on the same path till the day you depart this earth and know that you took the SAFE way out of your love life...

My 2 OLD cents worth....

[WatLoveAbt]

Love is alway a headache...
So many thing to take care and think abt when u in love...
It is so hard to find one tat can click with u,
and it is even more hard to meet each other at the right time...
If i am u, i go all out to love him, even if i am hurt before,
at least i try my best for my true love before, no regret in life...
As ppl say, love itself is stupid, but u are brave, not stupid...
if u are hurt, jut pull urself together again and walk on,
u got none to lose, at least u learn things in tat relationship,
u grow mature and see/know more things...

[LED...]

LOVE is a feeling too difficult or profound to be define in just a few lines...

Happiness is the key to your life, you know that ya happy when you feel happy but most of the time unsure about love...........whatever you do or decide, you should try not to hurt others and be happy yourself.........then your life will be simple and fulfilling

be happy , simple and enjoy life cos you only live once

[youngboy_jb]

maybe i should reveal some of my past experience here..

i was a foreign student, and i had a gf for abt 5 yrs while i was overseas. Recently, i came back, and i feel so lonely that i got a 2nd gf. The main reason i get a 2nd gf is not because of the sex. Rather, i need someone to spend time with me, cook with me, and build a family-feeling for me. To a lot of ppl, i look/behave like a player, but actually, i am quite a family man.

Recently, my 2nd gf left me. She told me that she cant foresee any future with me as i am still reluctant to give up my 1st gf. Although i love her, i had to let her go. I felt that i must settle my own issues first before i re-ask her to be my gf. After serious consideration, i realise i cannot let my 1st gf off. I just love her too much. All other flings are JUST flings. No one can replace her in my heart. These few days, another of my friend start to express her interest in me, but this time, i decided not to hurt another ger (or fren).

My advice to the threadstarter and the guy involved,

Please take a step back , think about your own partners.

(especially the guy: whats wrong with your gf? At this moment, the threadstarter might seems sooo much better than your gf, but this is due to the 新鲜感，or freshness)

Is there any future at all between you 2 (threadstarter and guy), do not risk a friendship if theres no future. At least if you put this matter to a rest, you 2can still be friends in the future.

Dont rush into such a relationship, the ending might not be pretty at all. I have several serious flings in the past (behind my 1st gf's back), and everytime, i hurt those fling's emotions so badly. Sometimes, if you care for the ger, then dont be with her, especially if you dont see a future

Dont let lust rule your lives! cock and pussy can be easily found, but friendship and love are hard to get. also, not all hurt/pain can be cure by time.


Just my humble opinion

another irrelevant thread? schools should stop kids from having holidays

[SiakSiBabe]

Originally Posted by youngboy_jb

Although i love her, i had to let her go. I felt that i must settle my own issues first before i re-ask her to be my gf. After serious consideration, i realise i cannot let my 1st gf off. I just love her too much. All other flings are JUST flings. No one can replace her in my heart.

My advice to the threadstarter and the guy involved,

Please take a step back , think about your own partners.

(especially the guy: whats wrong with your gf? At this moment, the threadstarter might seems sooo much better than your gf, but this is due to the 新鲜感，or freshness)

Is there any future at all between you 2 (threadstarter and guy), do not risk a friendship if theres no future. At least if you put this matter to a rest, you 2can still be friends in the future.

Sometimes, if you care for the ger, then dont be with her, especially if you dont see a future

Dont let lust rule your lives! cock and pussy can be easily found, but friendship and love are hard to get. also, not all hurt/pain can be cure by time.

Thanks all for the time spent reading the thread and sharing advices. Appreciate it, specially to youngboy_jb, I think I'm thinking along the same line as you right now.

Despite telling me how much he want to let her go, I just dont see V making the effort to break off with her. He says he doesnt want to pressurise or hurt her and is waiting for the 'right' time to do so. I dont know if there's ever a 'right' time to break off with someone. No matter how you time a break-up, the dumpee will definitely be hurt & the dumper guilty (if the dumper has a conscience). Different people has different views & ways of handling personal relationships, and I'm not going to impose mine on him. If he was sincere all along to break up with her, he'll do so on his on time. If he's like youngboy_jb who realised finally that he still loves his gal, I guess I did a good thing then, making him realise what he nearly lost. Meanwhile, I'll just cherish the feelings I have for him from afar & hope that our friendship will survive this.

[DOM1]

Originally Posted by d(^_^)b

To have known U is considered a kind of fate and whatever our decisions might be, I'll always treasure this kind of fate and even if U do not consider me as a friend, but to me U'll always be a friend and I'll remember U forever...

Bro V,
Now that I know that you're V, it's so much easier to address you instead of that d^^b nick of yours!

To sis siaksibabe, I can only say one thing about V......if V is that d^^b......he's a sincere and VERY caring person. He cares about buddies like malayboy and his affairs so much that he even bothered to ask me about him after many months later. Do seriously consider him!

Cheers!

DOM the clown

[jemz]

In my point of view,

i think it's pretty impossible to find a partner here. I think it would take alot of liberalness in a lady to accept a guy who bonks for the fun of it and comes back to her and well, do her. Together with the full risks of unwanted diseases and emotional trauma of finding a cheating bf and well... illnesses, curable or incurable.

Ladies and men view relationships very differently, personal and business. Therefore, conflicts always arises at workplace and home.

Look girl, the guy, i don't know him, neither can i make a good judge of him, but from what i read, i think it's time for you to move a step back and wonder if it's right for you. There're many other great guys in singapore. isn't it every girl's dream since we were little to find someone we could love, trust and depend on entirely? If he cannot fulfill those, and you are going to live in constant insecurity and dread, perhaps you should let go and don't put yourse;f through the torment. I know you've already put your heart into it, it's hard to take it back, but you will have to try. Maybe reducing your msning, smsing and webcams will slowly lessen your pain. Love cannot be blind, surely you've gotta love someone with your heart AND head as well.

You need someone to talk to, PM me your email and i add you to my msn and we talk there okay girlie?

concerned coz i've done that also... my ex-bf in australia, and webcam with me everyday, i also donno what he thinking and doing.

[GarlicBread]

there's no rational answer in relationship question!

jus ask urself do u've the time to spare if things don't goes ur way?

ask urself do u feel safe to've him as ur the other hlf?

are u tired of ur single lifestyle n wish to settle down?

if u think yes for the above questions then try ur fate,if not better slow things down n wait for fate again

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by DOM1

To sis siaksibabe, I can only say one thing about V......if V is that d^^b......he's a sincere and VERY caring person. He cares about buddies like malayboy and his affairs so much that he even bothered to ask me about him after many months later. Do seriously consider him!

Cheers!

DOM the clown

Alamak dom you going into matchmaking biz ah???

[DOM1]

Originally Posted by Frankiestine

Alamak dom you going into matchmaking biz ah???

Bro Frank!

How are you? Long time no chat with you.

Well, if I don't engage myself in this kind of activities (like matchmaking,...okay....I hate to admit it, but hack! it's matchmaking alright!), I would have nothing to do in this forum other them lurking and skulking and reading others' postings. Don't forget I'm the William Hung of this forum! I can't cheong! I can't write real fr (no cheong how to have real fr?)! You wouldn't know what to say about me! LOL!

Hey! Boss's alfresco cafe is getting hot with those WP Baru kiddos tramppling over all other APs supporters man! What's your view?]

Cheers!

Warmest regards,
DOM the clown

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by DOM1

Bro Frank!
Hey! Boss's alfresco cafe is getting hot with those WP Baru kiddos tramppling over all other APs supporters man! What's your view?

Cheers!

Warmest regards,
DOM the clown

Politics and woman dun mix that why you dun see many woman in politics...i prefer it that way so at least they leave the woman folks for the fl scene..as for me i prefer woman..