Divorced

[Greendevil]

Sorry to say, even not marriage for 3 yrs, still can divorce. It not buying HDB, cannot sell for 5 yrs lor. just use another clause will do. Seen it before

[dreamz2289]

Originally Posted by Greendevil

Sorry to say, even not marriage for 3 yrs, still can divorce. It not buying HDB, cannot sell for 5 yrs lor. just use another clause will do. Seen it before

Agreed. There are at least 3 other clauses which provides provisions for divorce . As for HDB, unless you forfeit a huge amount of money, can't sell. Think most courts will suggest for counselling and therapy first rather than divorce if its under 3 years though, especially with a child on the way. Good luck bro, hope she will open her heart and give you one more chance.

[esssinine]

brother u champion lah, ppl divorce worry about the care and comfort of the offspring they bore and their welfare thereafter but u seem more concern about not losing too much money

i salute u brother , u are the ultimate cheongster

[Greendevil]

Originally Posted by DesEMmond

Thanks bro for being devil and ur advice , base on what u see, chances of losing?

You mean divorce and child custody? Well bro, ans your qtns with a qtns.

6 month old baby, both parent parting way, and both want custody, now you are the judge, who you think the baby is better off with from a very NEUTRAL point?

[newyorker88]

Originally Posted by DesEMmond

and this time round is like , bcos im helping baby to bath and i ask her to help me carry baby to bed and apply those powder etc , then she tsk me , i was like wth why tsk me somemore infront most of my family , so i asked her why u tsk me , maybe the way i ask sound rudely , so she nv ans , and i keep ask her for number of times and she tsk again , i hear liao i more angry so i keep ask her why tsk me , then she tsk again and say rudely dont ask la, so i was damn angry , then i tell her if she not happy then dont do for baby lor and i push her away and i do it myself

Sorry to say this, bro... both of you are like kids. Perhaps, both of you need more help in managing family affairs from your elders. While both of you adjust to the situation.

To begin with, do you both want to stay together for the rest of your life? You have to consider many consequences of divorce and custody of baby issue, especially the baby is so small. Money is one issue, but responsibility is another.

Since you both have the baby already, It is not so simple case of parting. The ultimate loser is the baby.

Counselling may help to a certain extend and will help out in the short term. Perhaps, help from both parents side may help, especially in caring for the baby, while both of you as a couple work out the differences between both of you.

Don't use divorce as a threat to each other. It adds on hurt and does not solve the problem if you truly want to stay together.

Coming here to ask for advice is a way to let out your frustrations. Hope all the best for you.

[Ahxi]

After all the scoldings, advices, warnings and sympathy, no updates? :P

[DesEMmond]

thanks for everyone scolding advise and everything . i really think im childish too. but im now trying my best to save this r/s . but still like this. haiis