Would you confess if you cheated?

[arbalest]

I don't think I can give u a good answer TS. But let me share a quick piece of wisdom. Firstly think about the reason to come clean or not to come clean. If u wanna come clean, why? Many a times the issue is to want to make yourself feel better. Because telling ur partner gives u a release. But do u know it gives her a huge weight on her heart. She is the innocent party. Why make her suffer? I think if it is girl u gonna be starting dating with yes by all means tell her the truth. Cos at that stage u both haven got that emotional attachment. But if long term already... I think u should man up and be responsible for your own mistakes and not let ur partner carry the weight... Just my 2 cents.

[Spurslover]

Originally Posted by nocumcumout

What if you confessed already..? What can be done?

If she tells you it is ok and after you two have sex, make sure you don't sleep with your mouth open. Becoz many years back a man had hot oil pours down his throat after sex with his wifey, whom found out about his affair outside.

Good Luck.

[LittleDave]

TS, if you really love your SO then dont cheat on her in the first place. In this way, you have nothing to confess and you wont feel guilty

[clintriot]

Sorry to hijack, but what if it's a girl you have broken up with and both of you hate each other now? Will confessing make you "win"? Like purposely stab smth in her heart?

[kgbkgb]

Originally Posted by LittleDave

TS, if you really love your SO then dont cheat on her in the first place. In this way, you have nothing to confess and you wont feel guilty

What are you talking about? He's already done it and not only that, he even admitted to it.
TS, I'm sorry to say, you're doomed ...

[xiaosiami]

Simple....either you don't cheat or you don't tell.

Never admit even in the face of your maker.

[Davidoff9876]

Im about to get wed to a traditional V. Technically I've not cheated on her after I met her. But she's asked me a few times about my history but all I did was just deny and act innocent.

Hell no, she's never going to find out what I did. Why open a can of worms for nothing when you can just keep it cool inside your own memories?

[prettymannequin]

Originally Posted by clintriot

Sorry to hijack, but what if it's a girl you have broken up with and both of you hate each other now? Will confessing make you "win"? Like purposely stab smth in her heart?

Dafuqqqq why would you wanna do that? It's too immature and serves no real purpose. 'Win' already got prize?

[Davidoff9876]

Originally Posted by clintriot

Sorry to hijack, but what if it's a girl you have broken up with and both of you hate each other now? Will confessing make you "win"? Like purposely stab smth in her heart?

Dont do it. Women are dangerous creatures. They may bite back, and not necessarily directly at you

[naan1974]

Originally Posted by nocumcumout

What if you confessed already..? What can be done?

than you better end this relationship else she will hold you by your balls
for the rest of your life. It will become her lifetime entitlement to abuse you.
and you will be a loser for life

[Lauhuu]

U siao or crazy? Admit? Unless caught red handed, pants down and panty in my hands....NEVER!

[iFuck]

Originally Posted by Davidoff9876

Im about to get wed to a traditional V. Technically I've not cheated on her after I met her. But she's asked me a few times about my history but all I did was just deny and act innocent.

Hell no, she's never going to find out what I did. Why open a can of worms for nothing when you can just keep it cool inside your own memories?

Agreed !
Why open a can of worms.
Can't think of good outcome after you ''confess".
Women have good memory when come to this.
YOU CHEATED will always be in her mind.

[sensuous]

Originally Posted by sarahxx

just curious, if ur gf or wife cheats on u wld u prefer her to keep it as a secret forever too?

exactly.

since you've already confessed the best you can do is to show her extra attention. just be extra nice lor. and patient. but if she just cannot let this go and die die want to keep being pissed about it then i think its time for the relationship to go. if she really loves you and really wants to make this r/s work she will forgive and let it slide. if she can't forgive it then eventually the r/s will kill you.

every girl is different. some will be able to get over it and move on. depends on her temperament.

[Lauhuu]

Women might forgive. BUT they neveR Forget!!!!