Trouble with a capital T...

[woodywoody]

worst case, just pretend that you are the elder or younger bro of yourself if you actualy have to meet the father....after 20 yrs, i think chances are quite high that tis will work if you can act well. if not, if you have to meet the father, just tell the truth that you got to know the daughter by coincidence and when she showed you the father's pic, you recognised him and therefore decided to hatch a plan to surprise him with the help of her daughter's arrangement. The daughter will be shocked, which u can explain as part of the total surprise....and i doubt she will be dumb enough to clarify there and then that you fucked her etc....

[henabi]

Bro Wiz... What about that Indonesian Female doctor you knew in Jakarta?!?!

That one no more Liao ah?!?!

Woody woody did point out a good point. You n your camp mate haven't contact and met for a good 20years. Seriously who will really remember you... Unless he has super photographic memory... Or you mentioned something which happened between both of you and it triggered his memory...

One thing for sure is probably "act blur live longer"...

Another thing to "dig" is her relationship with her dad. How close are both of them? Do they share alot of things with each other etc.
It may help you a bit to wiggle your way through if things get messy

[Wizrd]

Originally Posted by AlexV

Wow.

What happened is every fathers worst nightmare. So don't meet him, and don't tell him, UNLESS you are serious about a long term relationship with the girl.

if not, and you know it cannot work (i.e you aren't going to relocate to Perth) then you have to MIA.

Or make up some story so her heart won't be so broken - like spending time with her made you realise that the age difference is too great.

Yes bro...

Maybe cannot even jaga how heart broken she might be anymore...I think MIA is the best option and hope she will be fine after a while...


Cheers...

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[Wizrd]

Originally Posted by woodywoody

worst case, just pretend that you are the elder or younger bro of yourself if you actualy have to meet the father....after 20 yrs, i think chances are quite high that tis will work if you can act well. if not, if you have to meet the father, just tell the truth that you got to know the daughter by coincidence and when she showed you the father's pic, you recognised him and therefore decided to hatch a plan to surprise him with the help of her daughter's arrangement. The daughter will be shocked, which u can explain as part of the total surprise....and i doubt she will be dumb enough to clarify there and then that you fucked her etc....

Thanks bro...

But cannot...I doubt I can pretend that well...plus, over the course of a meal or two plus plus....I need to act almost retarded in order for him not to figure it out...

I recognise him on the photo immediately...don't think he will not do the same if he sees me...

Cheers anyway bro...

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[Wizrd]

Originally Posted by henabi

Bro Wiz... What about that Indonesian Female doctor you knew in Jakarta?!?!

That one no more Liao ah?!?!

Woody woody did point out a good point. You n your camp mate haven't contact and met for a good 20years. Seriously who will really remember you... Unless he has super photographic memory... Or you mentioned something which happened between both of you and it triggered his memory...

One thing for sure is probably "act blur live longer"...

Another thing to "dig" is her relationship with her dad. How close are both of them? Do they share alot of things with each other etc.
It may help you a bit to wiggle your way through if things get messy

Hahahaha..bro...

She is still well and kicking...hahaha...well at kicking me most of the time and I love it...

Yes bro...as explained above...cannot work...he will remember....let me explain a little more in part 2...

Very true...act blur live longer...but MIA can live forever...


Cheers bro...

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[Wizrd]

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Alrighty folks...the latest update...


Late last night...I sent her a text to say that my Australian number's credit may be running out soon...
Then this morning...another friend called me from Australia and that number's credit really ran out...so for now...unless I contact her using my other numbers...she has basically lost contact with me...

So in effect...to her...I am now MIA...

I feel bad about this and do not know what else I can do right now...

The best thing is for me to play disappearance for the time being...let me sort it out in my own mind first.
Maybe if I find a solution...I will contact her when I am in Australia in a month's time...the next time...I'm going to be in Melbourne for 3 weeks....perhaps she can come visit...at least her family will not be involved then...
Maybe she won't even want to meet me then...which will bloody serve me right...


My thought process is a bit messed up now so am not thinking clearly...giving myself the time to work this through...and with inputs from all the bros and sis in here...hopefully I will live to hook another day...


Alrighty...let me work on part 2 right now...should be ready in a couple of hours....


Cheers everyone...

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[sane]

Originally Posted by Wizrd

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So in effect...to her...I am now MIA...

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Bro, i understand that u don't want to commit but hor, u can really play without getting real feelings involved?

[Wizrd]

Originally Posted by sane

Bro, i understand that u don't want to commit but hor, u can really play without getting real feelings involved?

Hi Sane...always good to hear the sane voice...

There was no commitment with her...and yes, while I have broken quite a few of my own rules with her...I would not have chosen to do this to anyone...

This is really the 1 out of a billion type exception...if her parents are not who they are...then I would have kept her as a friend /lover for a lonnnggg time...
Had I known who her parents are before I started talking to her...we would not have been sexual...and I would love to meet my platoon mate again for a few drinks...and maybe be live-long friends again with him...

If no real feelings involved...then I wouldn't be at all streessed about the situation...right??

For now...too much to forgive and forget.... and this is not the way to re-introduce myself back into his life...

Thanks for reading and commenting...always a pleasure to hear from you...cheers...


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[henabi]

Sigh... I guess this is one of those "The Hunter got hunted... Accidentally" type.

Probably that's the only thing you can do right now.. Let Time wash away some of the feelings, and maybe just maybe... in a few months time she finds another guy and you can re intro yourself in the correct way.

[sane]

Originally Posted by Wizrd

Hi Sane...always good to hear the sane voice...

There was no commitment with her...and yes, while I have broken quite a few of my own rules with her...I would not have chosen to do this to anyone...

This is really the 1 out of a billion type exception...if her parents are not who they are...then I would have kept her as a friend /lover for a lonnnggg time...
Had I known who her parents are before I started talking to her...we would not have been sexual...and I would love to meet my platoon mate again for a few drinks...and maybe be live-long friends again with him...

If no real feelings involved...then I wouldn't be at all streessed about the situation...right??

For now...too much to forgive and forget.... and this is not the way to re-introduce myself back into his life...

Thanks for reading and commenting...always a pleasure to hear from you...cheers...

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Nvr hear from you for a loooooong time and just get to learn that u were busy settling ur personal issues and grats for ur new found freedom

Sometimes the most impossible are always possible, it's really so unbelievable but it really happen!! Just keep things as it is will always be the best.

Continue writing, I luv reading your stories, always witty and full of humour

[Wizrd]

Originally Posted by henabi

Sigh... I guess this is one of those "The Hunter got hunted... Accidentally" type.

Probably that's the only thing you can do right now.. Let Time wash away some of the feelings, and maybe just maybe... in a few months time she finds another guy and you can re intro yourself in the correct way.

Hahahaha bro....no...

This is one of those hunter walked into own trap type of accident...

Yes...I agree...no choice is the best phrase I can think of...time will heal all wounds...including mine and hers...I hope...

But dang bro...if only I don't like her sooooo much...why must she be sooooo cute??(and sweet and pretty and warm and lovable and sexy and...)



Cheers...

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[Wizrd]

Originally Posted by sane

Nvr hear from you for a loooooong time and just get to learn that u were busy settling ur personal issues and grats for ur new found freedom

Sometimes the most impossible are always possible, it's really so unbelievable but it really happen!! Just keep things as it is will always be the best.

Continue writing, I luv reading your stories, always witty and full of humour

Oh....hahahaha...no Sane...

I was kept away because of a lack of internet and I lost my password after that...

My personal issues have long been settled...well...this is the type of self-inflicted personal issues I have nowadays...

Anywyas...glad you like reading my writing...and boy are you in for a treat...

I am finding it difficult to write part 2 in a short and succinct version...so may have to deliver it in a few parts....I hope you and the other readers don't mind...


Cheers and please keep reading and commenting...


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[sane]

Originally Posted by Wizrd

Oh....hahahaha...no Sane...

I was kept away because of a lack of internet and I lost my password after that...

My personal issues have long been settled...well...this is the type of self-inflicted personal issues I have nowadays...

Anywyas...glad you like reading my writing...and boy are you in for a treat...

I am finding it difficult to write part 2 in a short and succinct version...so may have to deliver it in a few parts....I hope you and the other readers don't mind...


Cheers and please keep reading and commenting...


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Anyway glad that u r back and to share of more

Take your time to write, good stories gotta wait..

Looking forward for new updates!

[Wizrd]

Originally Posted by sane

Anyway glad that u r back and to share of more

Take your time to write, good stories gotta wait..

Looking forward for new updates!

Right-i-ho....here it comes...


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[Wizrd]

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Alrighty readers...as stated earlier...part 2 cannot be squeezed into a short version...so...

Here is part 2A...enjoy...



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As I watch the cigarette smoke rise in front of me...my thoughts are brought back to the good old days...

Isn’t it strange how at that time, we bitch and moan and curse our circumstances...how much we hated what we were going through and how unfair we felt life was treating us at the time...but once it is in memory mode...it is always the good old days??


We were in platoon 8...the mixed bag platoon...some high flyers and some O level drop outs....some speak with a kantang stuck in the mouth and some hokkien peng...


My buddy and I were both educated abroad...and while he is the quiet type...I was mr. Gung ho...and even though our thinking were similar...and we had each other’s back...we do not always see eye to eye about things...


I felt that to survive the course...we must band together...he felt that we all had our own destiny..and that some will go on to become officers and some will be stuck as privates...no real point to merge everyone...I did not agree...


Anyway...my efforts to band the group together met with more resistance than I originally thought...herding dissimilar people together takes more than just talking...when people disagreed...logic often fails to bridge the gap...


There was this Chinese educated guy in the platoon...he was quiet but somehow all the hokkien peng kinda respected and followed...and then there was me...the loud mouth kantang guy who can intimidate all the higher educated guys into following...and so it became...after 2-3 weeks...two gangs in one big bunk...


This quiet guy...let’s call him Chong...seem to be an ok guy...he was honourable...did the right things and even I had to say I respected him...a bit...but it grated on my nerves that he always looked out for only the hokkien pengs...nevertheless...overall, he is a good guy...and we tolerated each other...


In my mind...the best way to forge platoon unity or to get a mixed group like ours to band together...nothing will help better than to throw a few parties together...


Whether rich or poor, educated or not, speaking Russian or Singlish...put a few cute girls into the mix and the guys will suddenly have a common topic and goal...all the guys become brothers in front of women...


I got one of the Kantang guys to be the GSO...he was the stud of his JC and no doubt he has a black book larger than the yellow pages...and so it was decreed...a party for the weekend...I went around the bunk and got 90% of the guys excited and looking forward to the party...


As usual...Chong had other ideas... and he went around convincing all the hokkien pengs to decline the invitation...and soon...only 40% of the guys are going to this party...


Naturally...I wanted to confront Chong...I mean what the fuck man...not say asking you to pay for everyone...each person only come out a few dollars...why block here block there??


My buddy told me to leave it alone but would Mr. Hot head listen?? No...



(to be continued...)


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